Iimiphumo ezimfutshane zexesha lokuxhatshazwa

Qaphela kwaye Ujongane Nokuxhaphazwa

Ukuxhatshazwa kukuziphatha kakubi ngabantu abanegunya langempela okanye elibonakalayo kubantu abanamandla angaphantsi. Ukuxhatshazwa kunokuba kubonakale okanye kungabonakali, kwaye kuya kwenzeka kokubili ebuntwaneni nangabantu abadala. Nangona ukuxhatshazwa kungenokuba nefuthe elide elide, lingafumaneka kwakhona, ixesha elifutshane, iziphumo ezibonakalayo. Iimpembelelo zokuxhatshazwa zihlala zengqondo kunye nokuziphatha, kodwa zingaphinde zibe yinyama.

Iingxaki zengqondo zineempembelelo eziqhelekileyo zokuxhatshazwa

Amaxhoba okuxhatshazwa ngokuqhelekileyo abonisa ubuninzi beengxaki zengqondo, ingakumbi ukuxinezeleka nokuxhalabisa . Amantombazana angaphinda ahlakulele ingxaki yokutya emva okanye ngexesha lokuxhatshazwa. Ukongezelela, abantwana abahlukunyeziweyo besini na banokuvelisa imiba yengqondo, ezizikhalazo zomzimba ezingenayo imbangela yenyama. Ngokomzekelo, amaxhoba amaninzi aphethwe zizikhwebu okanye ama-stomachache, ingakumbi ngaphambi kokuba usuku lwesikolo luqale.

Iingxaki Ngokulala

Amaxhoba enkqonkqo kaninzi anemiba yokulala . Ba nobunzima belele, bahlale belele kunye / okanye bafumane ukuphumla kwabo okufunekayo kunoma yimuphi ubusuku obunikwe. Xa amaxhoba ekwazi ukulala, banako ukufumana ubusuku bwedlala ngaphezu koonontanga abangenabo. Ezi zibuhlungu zivame ukuba zicacile kwaye zisongela kwaye zingabandakanyekanga okanye zingabandakanyeli.

Amaxhoba angabakho ukuzibulala

Ngelishwa, amaxhoba okuxhatshazwa anamazinga aphezulu okuzibulala kunokuba ontanga.

Oku kuthetha ukuba bacinga ukuzibulala ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunabanye ubudala babo. Amanqaku amaninzi afanelekileyo acacisa, inani lamaxhoba lilandela kule ngcamango yokuzibulala.

Iingxaki Ngontanga

Abantwana abahlukunyeziweyo banesifo esiphantsi kwezenhlalakahle kunabantwana abangenabantwana abahlukunyeziweyo. Ukukhutshwa kwezenhlalakahle kungabangela ukuba umntwana ahlaselwe kwindawo yokuqala, kodwa kubonakala ngathi ukutshatyalalwa koontanga kuyingozi nakakhulu emva kokuba umntu axhatshazwa.

Ngenxa yoko, amaxhoba ahlala eziva enesizungu kwaye ashiywe kwaye aphethwe yinto ephantsi yokuzithemba .

Imiba E si kolweni

Amaxhoba ahlaselwayo ahlala eneengxaki kwimpumelelo yezemfundo . Oku kubakho ngokuyinzeka ngenxa yokungabikho kwamaxhoba amaninzi. Enyanisweni, malunga ne-7% yabantu baseMelika abavakalisi bebhinqa babika ukuhlala ekhaya ukusuka esikolweni ubuncinane kanye ngenyanga ukuphepha ukuxhatshazwa. Xa amaxhoba eya esikolweni, bathambekele ekukhuseleni iindawo ezithile zesikolo, ezifana nezindlu zokuhlala. Phantse i-20% yabafundi basesikolweni esiphakathi bavakalisa ukwesaba yonke imihla esikolweni, okwenza ukufunda kube nzima nokuba akunakwenzeka.

Ukuqaphela nokuphelisa ukuxhaphazwa

Abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa, ukungafani ngokwasemzimbeni, kunye nokungafani kokuziphatha bahlala besengozini yokuxhatshazwa. Akunjalo, nangona kunjalo, abasengozini. Kwaye abantwana abathandwayo banokuba ngamaxhoba okuxhatshazwa phantsi kweemeko ezithile. Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonisa naziphi na iimpawu ezibhalwe apha ngasentla, kwaye akukho nto iphantsi kwezempilo okanye ukuxhalabisa okungcono ukuchazela loo mpawu, yinto efanelekileyo yokuphanda.

1. Qala ngokuthetha nomntwana wakho. Mhlawumbi unokukulungele ukwabelana ngamava okuxhatshazwayo xa ebuzwa kwindawo ekhuselekileyo, engekho isigwebo.
2. Xoxa ngale ngxaki kunye nootitshala bakho, oqeqeshi, njl. Ukuba umntwana wakho uxhalabile malunga nokuzimela, qiniseka ukuba ukhetha isilungiselelo esingekho sikarhulumente, esingasesikolweni kwiintetho zakho.

1. Ukuba ukuxhatshazwa kukugqithiseleyo, ngokugwenxa, okanye rhoqo, kunethuba elihle lootitshala bakho abantwana bayazi kakuhle ingxaki. Kukho nethuba elihle lokuba umntwana wakho akayena kuphela uxhoba. Xa kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba uthathe amanyathelo okugweba ukuyeka ukuziphatha kakubi.
2. Ukuba ukuxhatshazwa kungabonakaliyo, okanye umntwana wakho uyabakhathalela ngokungaqhelekanga ukuziphatha, "kufuneka ufune indawo yokuhlala ekhethekileyo kumntwana wakho. Izinketho zinokuvela kwiindawo zokutshintsha kwiindawo ezithile kwinqanaba lokutshintsha okanye nokuba, kwiimeko ezinzima, ukuguqula izikolo.
3. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyaqhubeka ehlushwa uxinzelelo kunye nezinye iimpawu nangona emva kokuxhatshazwa, ziyakuncedwa ngonyango olucutshungulwayo.

_Imithombo

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_{UVanderbilt, uDouglas, noAgasyn, uMarilyn. Imiphumo yokuxhatshazwa. Ngo-2010. Izifo kunye neMpilo yabantwana. 20,7: 315-320.}