Abazali Bamele Balindele Ukutshintsha Kwiminyaka Ephakathi
Igama elithi 'phakathi' lisoloko lisetyenziselwa ukuchaza iqela labadala bezingane eziphakathi komntwana kunye nentsha. Ezi zikolo zihlala zihlala esikolweni esiphakathi kwaye zikhawuleza zifikelela ebusheni kunye nayo yonke imingeni ezayo.
Iminyaka emibini yithuba lokutshintsha kunye noshintsho. I-kati iyakhula ibe ngumntwana osemtsha, ngokomzwelo nangentlalo kwaye bafunda ukuthatha uxanduva olutsha esikolweni nasekhaya.
Abazali besibini baqaphela utshintsho oluninzi kubantwana babo kule minyaka embalwa. Aseyiyintombazana yakho okanye inkwenkwe, kodwa basasafuna. Nangona wakho umntwana ebonisa ukukhula ngokuzimela kunye nokwakha izakhono, bancika kuwe ukuba bancede nazo zonke iingxaki ezintsha abajamelana nazo.
Yintoni ephakathi?
I-kati phakathi komntwana ophakathi kweminyaka eyi-9 no-12. I-kati phakathi akusekho umntwana omncinci, kodwa kungekhona umntwana oselula. Baphakathi kwamaqela amabini kunye nokuziphatha kwabo kunye neemvakalelo zibonisa oko.
Igama elithi 'phakathi' lithandwa kakhulu kwiminyaka yamuva. Amanye amagama kubantwana beli qela leminyaka baquka ama-preteens, izikolo eziphakathi, kunye ne-tweeny (okanye i-tweenies).
Ngelixa i-kati ingekafiki phakathi kobutsha, uya kubhekana neengxaki ezininzi kwiminyaka embalwa ezayo:
- Ukuguquka ukusuka kwisikolo esiphakathi ukuya kwisikolo esiphakathi . Utshintsho kwikharityhulam yesikolo kunye nesakhiwo kunokuba nzima kunabanye abantwana kunabanye.
- Ukusondela ebusheni . Utshintsho olukhulu luya kuqala okanye luye lwaqala ukuvela kumzimba weqela.
- U xanduva olwandayo. AmaTween ahlala ebandakanyeka kwimisebenzi yeekharityhulam kwaye angathatha imisebenzi emininzi kunye nexanduva ekhaya.
- Ukunyuka kwemali yomsebenzi wesikolo. Umthwalo wesikolo wedwa unokuba yinguqu enkulu kubafundi kunye nabazali mababe bekulungele ukukunceda xa kufuneka. Imikhwa emihle yokufunda ngoku iyakwazi ukuhlala ubomi.
- Ukubonisa ukuziphatha okuyingozi. I-kati ibhekane noxinzelelo olutsha kwiontanga zabo kuquka iziyobisi, isondo , utywala kunye nokunye. Izingane ziyindawo eyaziwayo kunye noxinzelelo lwabaontanga luqinileyo phakathi kwama-tweens. Lona lixesha apho baya kufunda nje ngeengozi zehlabathi kwaye kukho iingcinga ezininzi ezijikelezayo ezikolweni eziphakathi.
I-Tween ingaba ngumngeni kubazali nootitshala. Omnye umzuzu bangaba mnandi kunye nothando, okulandelayo banokuba nzima kwaye banzima.
Iminyaka Ephakathi
Izinguqu eziphathekayo ezingokwenyama, ezengqondo nezentlalo zenzeka ngethuba leminyaka .
- Abaninzi bamantombazana bafumana ithuba lokuqala eliphakathi kweminyaka eyi-12 ukusukela ekutshatsheni kunokuqalisa ekuqaleni kwe-8 okanye-9.
- Abafana bangena ebusheni malunga ne-11 kunye nokukhula okukhulayo kunokudala utshintsho olukhawulezayo.
- Uphuhliso lobuchopho kule minyaka luyinto ephawulekayo kokubili phakathi kwamakhwenkwe namantombazana.
- Ngentlalo, i-tween iphantsi koxinzelelo ukuba ifaneleke kwaye kunye nale minyaka yesikolo esiphakathi ukuba i- tween iyakwazi ukujamelana nokuxhatshazwa kunye neminye imingeni yoluntu.
I-Tween Identity Changing
Iminyaka ephakathi kwanjalo xa abantwana beqala ukuhlakulela ingqiqo yokwenene. Baya kuhamba amanqanaba amaninzi phambi kokuba bafike kumntu abaza kuba ngabantu abadala kwaye konke kuqala njengendawo.
I-Tweens iya kuqalisa ukuqala ukuphanda iimfuno ezintsha kunye nokuthanda. Inkwenkwe inokuthi ibonwe ibhola njengomntwana, kodwa fumana i-basketball ibe yimidlalo yakhe esikolweni esiphakathi. Unokuyeka nokudlala imidlalo ngokupheleleyo kwaye ukhethe ukwakha ama-robot. Intombazana inokufunda ukuba ibonisa ubuninzi emva kweklasi yobugcisa behlobo kunye nokucela upende ngeveki enye okanye ujoyine iklabhu yemidlalo elandelayo.
Ezi zinto ziza kutshintsha rhoqo kwiminyaka embalwa ezayo. Abaninzi baphenjelelwa ngabahlobo babo okanye imisebenzi eyenziwa yintsapho yabantwana. Ngaloo nto, i-middle yakho ingatshintsha izitayela kwiingubo okanye kwibala lomculo. Kulukhuni kubazali ukuba baqhubeke kunye ne-latest fad fad!
Kubalulekile ukuba abazali banikele abantu ithuba lokuzikhethela inkululeko xa behamba ngezi zigaba. Bafumanisa ubuntu babo kwaye bahlola zonke iindlela zabo.
Nangona nje bengabonakali ngokwabo okanye abanye okanye baziphathe kakubi, eli xesha kunye namava kubalulekile ekuphuhlisweni kwabo kwaye kuya kuba nefuthe kubo. Kungenzeka utshintshe ngomso okanye kunyaka ozayo kwaye iminyaka yeshumi elivisayo izaliswe utshintsho, ngoko usebenzise oko!
Tween Amandla
I-Tweens inegunya elininzi lokuchitha imali e-United States kwaye ijoliswe ngabathengisi ngemali yabo (kunye nefuthe kumandla abo okuthenga umzali). Kwakuyimarike ephakathi phakathi eyenza uHannah Montana, abazalwana bakaJonas, kunye namagama asekhaya kaHarry Potter.
Iingcali ezininzi zabazali bakholelwa ukuba i-tween namhlanje ikhula ngokukhawuleza. Bayaqaphela ukuba i-tween ibonakaliswe kwizidlobongela ezingekho emzimbeni, ubundlobongela, iziyobisi kunye nezinye izinto eziphathekayo kumabonwakude, imidlalo yevidiyo, intanethi, imidiya yoluntu kunye neencwadi.
Abazali banokukunceda impembelelo yabo kunye nokulwa neempembelelo ezimbi. Ixabiso lentsapho yakho liza kuhamba ixesha elide ukukunceda ujikeleze phakathi kwezi zihlandlo ezikhohlakeleyo.