Ngozuko lweSuku lokuQala ukuQiniswa kweMhlaba, mawubhiyozele ubuhle bawo bonke abantwana be-preemie nosapho nganye. Kodwa masithathe ixesha lokuba sikhumbule umzabalazo wangempela wokungcoliswa kwangaphambili.
Yintoni Ukuqhawuka Kwemvelo?
Akusikho nawuphi na umzali ofuna. Namaxesha onke.
Kuyindlela eyoyikisayo kwintsimi engaziwayo.
Kuqhutyelwa kumzabalazo onzima kunokuba umzali ngaphambi kokuba udibane nomntwana wakho.
Kuthetha ukuzalwa okujikelezwe ukwesaba nokungaqiniseki endaweni yokuzonwabisa kunye nokubhiyozela.
Kuthetha ukungabi ndawonye, umzali nomntwana.
Kuthetha ukungabambeli umntwana wakho.
Uziva unqanyuliwe kumntu omnye kwindalo yonke ekulindelekileyo ukuxhuma kunye nayo.
Iguqulela ukulindela okuvuyisayo kwizigqibo ezingakholelwayo.
Kuthetha ukuthetha amagama anjengokuthi "ukukhubazeka, ukuxhatshazwa, ukungaboni, iindleko zokusinda" xa uthembela ukuva ukuba "Uyakuvuyela!
Kufuneka ucele imvume yokuchukumisa wakho umntwana.
Kuxelelwa ukuba, "hayi, awukwazi ukuthinta umntwana wakho ngoku."
Ilinde iiyure, iintsuku, iiveki ngaphambi kokuba ukwazi ukubamba umntwana wakho.
Kuthetha ukubona umntwana wakho obuthakathaka, obusabekayo obutyungelwe kwizixhobo ezininzi kangangokuba awukwazi ukubona umntwana phantsi kwayo yonke into.
Kuthetha ukuba uthethile kwaye uhambe kude nosana lwakho, usuku nosuku.
Kuthetha ukukhala xa ushiya, ubusuku emva kobusuku.
Kufunda malunga nezixhobo zonyango zobugcisa ezifana neepentili kunye nezigulana zokutya xa unokuba ufunde ngokuphathelele abantwana abahambahambayo kunye ne-diaper basula abashushu.
Kudinga ukuba udibanise abantu abangaphezulu kunokuba unakho ukukhumbula, bonke babo babonakala bekwazi ngakumbi malunga nosana lwakho kunoko.
Kuthetha ukufumana abahlengikazi abaza kutyana umntwana wakho, ukondla umntwana wakho, ukuhlamba umntwana wakho kunye nokutshiza umntwana wakho xa ufuna ukuzenza ngokwakho.
Kuyi-epitome yokungalawulwa.
Kuthetha ukufunda okuninzi malunga nokunakekelwa kwabantwana kubantu abangabaziyo - abahlengikazi bakho be- NICU , i-therapists yokuphefumula, i-therapists kunye nokunye.
Kuthetha ukukwazi abantu abakukhathalelayo, kunye nosana lwakho, ngokujulile kunokuba ulindele.
Kufunda imigaqo emitsha ongazange ukwazi ukuba ikhoyo, njenge-CPAP, i-bradycardia, i-desat, ne-apnea. Amagama ungathanda ukuba ungazi.
Ikhupha yonke ubusuku, ubusuku bonke, endlwini engenanto enezindlu ezingenanto zokufumana umhla wokurhweba . Okanye kuthetha ukulahlekelwa ithemba lokusondeza umntwana wakho ubisi lwakho.
Kufunda ukufumana izikhokelo zakho zabazali phantsi koxinzelelo olunzulu.
Kodwa kukufunda ukuthembela emasikweni akho , kwaye xa ufumana ukuchaneka, kunomvuzo kunokuba ungacinga .
Ufunda ukwenza utshintsho lwe-diaper nge-iv tubing, i-monitor, i-PICC, kunye neenkomo ze-pulse endleleni kunye nokufunda ukutshintsha njengepro .
Ifuna umonde ongenakwenzeka. Kodwa ukwaneliseka xa umonde uhlawula? Ezingabalulekanga.
Ubhiyozela oko bekuyobonakala ngathi kufezekiswa okuyingcipheko, njenge-5-gram yokufumana ubunzima okanye isipuni sobisi esithathwe kwibhotile.
Okanye nje ukufumana umntwana wakho.
Ubhiyozela kunye nezinye iintsapho eziqonda kakuhle oko uhamba nazo.
Kwakhona kuthetha ukuba uzive wedwa, kuba abahlobo bakho endala kunye nosapho yakho abayiqondi kakuhle.
Kukhala ngaphezu kwakho konke owake wathemba ukukhala, uze ukhale ngokunye ngenxa yezinye iindwendwe ezisecaleni kwakho.
Kunzima ukugcina ukholo, nokuzama ukuqonda konke.
Kuyingozi kakhulu - umona wamama-full-time, umsindo emzimbeni wakho ukukuyeka, unetyala into ongeke ukwazi ukuyisebenzisa.
Ijongene nale miva imihla ngemihla, kwaye isenokufumana amandla okubuyela kwiNICU kwaye yenze kwakhona kwakhona .
Kufunda ukuthanda abahlengikazi abakufundisayo kakuhle, abancedisayo ukuba bamomothekayo, nabathanda umntwana wakho.
Uziva unombulelo olutsha olutholwa ngezinto ezincinci.
Ufumana abahlobo abatsha ongeke wenziwe ngaphambi koku, abo baqonda le nkcaza, amava ahlukile.
Ukufumana ukuzithemba ngakumbi kwindlela onokunyamekela ngayo umntwana wakho, emva kweentsuku kunye nobusuku obungenakubalwa kwimeko yokuloba.
Akungakholelwa ukuba umntwana wakho, owaqala ngokuncinci kwaye enzima kangaka, ngoku ulungele ukuya ekhaya.
Kuyikrokra ekucingeni ukulahlekelwa ngabahloli abaqaphelisayo yonke into yokuphefumula kunye nentliziyo-abahloli abaye balondoloza umntwana wakho ngokukhuselekileyo lonke eli xesha.
Kuthetha ukuziva utyhafile ngokuthatha umntwana wakho ekhaya ngelixa elifanayo unomdla ngakumbi kunokuba wawucingile.
Kuthetha ukuhlala nalo lonke uxhalaba, ukwesaba, nokukhathazeka, kodwa uvumeleke ukuba uthande ngokupheleleyo kwaye uthembele ngokunyanisekileyo naphezu kwayo yonke into .
Njengoko lo mama uthe, iyakhula.
Kodwa kukwahleka, ukuthobeka, ukuvuselela nokuhle.
Ngaba ngumzali.
Uthando.
Kwezinye iintsapho, akunjalo nzima. Kwabanye, kuninzi, kunzima kakhulu. Kwaye masingalokothi silibale iindwendwe ezinokubakho ukungcola kwangaphambili ekuthatyweni kwecala. Ngenxa yokuba abanye, ukuguqulwa kwengqondo kusenokuthi kusayi kuza umntwana wabo ekhaya. Kusengokuthi luthando, kwaye lithetha ukuzala, kodwa lithetha ukulahleka okungenakulibala. Unokukunceda njani?
Indlela yokunceda
Ukuqhaqhaqhaqhaqeka yinkinga enkulu yehlabathi. Kukho imibutho emangalisayo ezama ukwenza umehluko. Nazi ezinye iindawo ezifanele ukutyelela:
Inkxaso yasekuqaleni yaseMelika
Yonke Into Encinci - Ivenkile ye-Intanethi kunye ne-NICU kunye nezipho kunye nemveliso ekhethekileyo
Grahams Foundation - Ukunika amandla abazali beengqanda ngokuxhasa, ukuxhasa nokuphanda
Isandla sokubambelela - Ukuxhasa inkxaso yabazali kunye nenkxaso yontanga, imfundo kunye nezibonelelo
I-Preemie Thing - I-Adorable, i-T-shirts ezonwabileyo ezigubungela yonke into eyimfuneko
I-Small Giraffe Foundation - Uphando lwezimali kunye nenkxaso yabazali bokungabi nangoko
NgoMatshi weDimes - Ukuphucula impilo yeintsana ngokukhusela iimpazamo zokuzalwa, ukuzalwa ngaphambi kokuzalwa, kunye nokufa kwabantwana.
Ukuphulukiswa kwe-NICU - i-NICU ekhethekileyo yonyango kunye neyonyango, kunye ne-blog kunye nenkxaso yeblog
I-NICU Ukunceda izandla - "Inkxaso yentsapho yeziqalo ezibuthathaka"
I-Parijat Deshpande - Inkxaso kunye nezibonelelo kubomama abanokukhulelwa okuphezulu
I-Peekaboo ICU-NICU umongikazi owaziyo kwindlela yokuhamba kwangaphambili
I-Zoe Rose Foundation-Inkxaso, imfundo, kunye nokukhuthaza iintsapho zabantwana abasengaphambi kwexesha
I-International Preemie Support
Ubumnandi - Ukuxhaswa kwe-Prematurity (England)
I-Neonatal Trust - inkxaso ye-Prematurity (eNew Zealand)
Isiseko soBantwana abasisigxina - Inkxaso, imfundo, kunye nezibonelelo kwiintsapho zeentsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa kwaye ezigulayo (Australia)
I-National Premmie Foundation - Intlangano kazwelonke e-Australia kubazali abanokuzalwa kwangaphambi kokuzalwa okanye ukulahlekelwa yintsana. Yona inethiwekhi enkulu kunazo zonke ze-preemie inkxaso e-Australia.