Ukwenza iSigqibo kunye nokufumanisa Uncedo olufanelekileyo kumntwana wakho
Kungaba nzima ukuvuma ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna uncedo. Kodwa kukho iingxaki ezithile ongasakwazi ukuzisombulula njengomzali. Ezinye iimfuno zifuna ukucebisa iingcali kunye nokungenelela.
Intsha ingadinga ukucebisa iingcali kwiingxaki zokuziphatha, iingxaki zengqondo, iingxaki zempilo yengqondo, iingxaki zokusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi, uxinzelelo, ubunzima beentsapho kunye namava amaninzi.
Xa usalinde ixesha lokufuna uncedo, ingxaki yakho ingabikho ngakumbi. Kubalulekile ukufuna uncedo ngokukhawuleza njengoko unako. Funda ngeempawu zokulumkisa ezibonisa ukuba lixesha lokufumana uncedo.
Ngaba Luyinto Eqhelekileyo Yokuziphatha?
Kungaba nzima ukuxelela ukuba wakho umntwana usezinkingeni ezinzulu okanye ukuba izenzo zakhe ziqhelekileyo ukuziphatha kwentsha . Qala ngokujonga ubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla kwaye uzibuze le mibuzo:
- Umfana wam wenza njani esikolweni?
- Ngaba unayo abahlobo?
- Ingaba undixelele ukuba kwenzekani ebomini bakhe?
Ukuba ufumene utshintsho okanye unenkxalabo, xela umgqirha okanye umntwana wezingane zakho. Uqeqesho oluqeqeshiwe lunokukunika uxolo lwengqondo ngokuthi umntwana wakho ulungile, okanye unokunika isikhokelo malunga nendlela onokukunceda wakho umntwana. Kukulungele ukuphosa kwicala lokulumkisa ukuba unokungabaza.
Iimpawu zokuthi Uncedo lwezobuNtu ludinga ngokukhawuleza
Kukho izilumkiso zeempawu ezixhatshazayo zentsha ekufuneka ukhangele kuyo.
Le nto inokuba yimpawu yokuba umntwana wakho usemngciphekweni. Ukulinda ukubona ukuba ezi ngxaki ziyaphuma ingcinga engalunganga kuba ezi ngxaki ziya kuba zibi ngakumbi ngaphandle kootitshala abancedisayo.
Ukuba wakho umntwana usempawu, funa uncedo lobugcisa ngokukhawuleza:
- Iimpawu zokudakumba
- Ukubaleka
- Ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi engekho mthethweni
- Ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi
- Isikolo esingaphumeleliyo : Ukuba le yodwa ingxaki, ukufundisa kuyisiqalo, kodwa uthetha ne-ofisi yekhokelo ngokunjalo. Ukuba kukho ezinye iingxaki kwaye oku kungumqondiso, funa ucebise wakho umntwana.
- Ukuziphatha ngokwesondo
- Ukuzilimaza / ukusika
- Utshintsho kubahlobo okanye kwimisebenzi-ingakumbi ukuba ngabahlobo bangaphakathi kweziyobisi okanye kwezinye izinto ezingekho mthethweni.
- Ukutya iingxaki: Uye wambona umntwana wakho engadli, edla ngokutya, okanye uye wabonisa iimpawu zokuhlanjululwa emva kokutya?
- Intukuthelo engafanelekanga : Ukujonga iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu kuwe okanye ukubonisa ukuziphatha kakubi kubangele ukukhathazeka okukhulu.
- Ukwandisa ukunyaniseka
- Utshintsho olukhulu kwiimvakalelo okanye ukuziphatha
Yintoni Oyenzayo Xa Ucinga Ngeengcebiso Zakho Zomntwana Ezifuna Uncedo
Ukuba unqwenela ukufuna uncedo kumntanakho, qalisa ngokuthetha nodokotela wengane yakho. Ugqirha unokunika uvavanyo kwaye kukuncede ukuba unqume ukuba unyango okanye ezinye izixhobo zinganceda.
Mhlawumbi uzisola ngokuziphatha kakubi kwentombazana yakho. Okanye ukhathazeka ukuba awuzange uqaphele iimpawu zomsalumkiso okanye kwiminyaka edlulileyo kwaye ukuba ufanele ufumane uncedo kungekudala. Kuqhelekile ukuba ufumane uluvo oluninzi lweemvakalelo, ukusuka ekuzisola ukuya kwintyala xa ucinga ngokufumana uncedo lochwepheshe. Musa ukuvumela loo mvakalelo ingene endleleni yokufumana umntwana wakho isiluleko sokuqeqeshwa esinokukunceda ukubuyisela ubomi bakhe kumzila.