Iingcebiso Ezinceda Abazali Bama-Young Runnaways
Abafana ababalekeleyo ababi. Benze isigqibo esibi. Baye babanjwa kwiingcinezelo abavakalelwa kukuba bafuna ukubaleka. Esikhundleni sokuba bajamelane neengxaki zabo baze bazisombulule, bakhetha ukubaleka kulo.
Sidinga ukufundisa wethu umntwana ukuba ajongane neengxaki zabo, nokuba ngaba ingxaki yethu. Xa banezixhobo ezifanelekileyo zokulungisa ezinye izinto ezinokuthi zenzeke ebomini babo, uxinzelelo luyanciphisa, kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuba babaleke.
Wonke umntwana oye wazama okanye uyazi enye intombazana eye yabalekela.
Andizange ndihlangabezane nentombazana kodwa engayazi ngamava omntu ukuba ahambe. Oku kungabangela ingxaki yangempela, ngokucinga ukuba intsha intsha iya kukhankanya amava.
Awukwazi ukuwavala.
Njengokuba unqwenela ukwakha udonga olujikeleze kubo, kukhethwa kwabo nokuba ngaba bangayi kuphuma emnyango. Ibinzana endisebenzisayo, "Akukho mivalo kule festile, kwaye iingcango zivalela abantu ngaphandle." Oku kunzima, kwaye ndiyazi, kodwa inyaniso kakhulu. Njengomzali, ndinokuba ngumnatha wokhuseleko, ibhokisi leeteksi kunye nekhwama yokugubha, kodwa ndiyayinqanda.
Andifuni ukuba bahambe. Akukho nto abanokuyenza ukuze ndize ndifune ukuba bahambe. Intsha yam iyazi ngenxa yokuba ndibaxelela ngamazwi nangengomlomo.
Abazali abatsha abalekayo abazali ababi.
'Uphando olwenziwa nguShintsho lweSizwe lokuShintshela iRunaway Switchbhodi lwabantwana ababiza inkonzo lubonisa ukuba malunga neepesenti ezingama-16 zokubaleka baye baphathwa kakubi ngokomzimba, ngokomzwelo okanye ngesondo.' (Ukuthatha ingxaki kwiingxaki ezixhambileyo, nguGary Miller) Abantwana bokuxhaphazwa bathambekele ekutheni banamathele kwaye bangagxothi kwimeko.
Ukuba abafana bakho bayaqalisa:
Shayela ngamapolisa ngokukhawuleza. Musa ukulinda iiyure ezingama-24, yenza oko kanye. Cela abaphandi bangene kumntwana wakho kwiSizwe soLwazi loLwaphulo-mthetho lweSizwe (NCIC) Ifayile Yabantu abalahlekileyo. Akukho xesha lokulinda ukungena kwi-NCIC kubantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka eyi-18. Faka igama kunye nenombolo yebheji yegosa othetha naye.
Phinda ubuyele kwakhona.
Shayela wonk 'ubani umntwazana wakho uyazi kwaye wabhalisa uncedo lwabo. Khangela kuyo yonke indawo, kodwa ungashiyi ifowuni yakho engalindelekanga.
Khangela igumbi lakho lentsha nayiphi na into enokukunika inkcazelo malunga nokuba uya kuphi. Ungaphinda ufune ukukhangela umrhumo wefowuni yakho nayiphi na ifowuni abaye bayenza ngoku kutshanje.
Shayela i-National Runaway Switchboard 1-800-786-2929 okanye i-1-800-RUNAWAY, ungashiya umyalezo wakho kumntwana wakho. Baxhaswa ngemali yiBhunga leeNkonzo zoLutsha kunye noLutsha kwi-Administration of Children and Families, iSebe lezeMpilo lase-US kunye neeNkonzo zoLuntu.
Xa umntwana wakho efika ekhaya:
Thatha ikhefu omnye komnye.
Ungaqali ukuthetha ngawo ngokukhawuleza. Iimvakalelo zakho ziphakame kakhulu kule nqanaba ukufumana nantoni na incoko. Yiya emacaleni amabini ahlukeneyo de uze uzule.
Buza kwaye Mamela.
Kutheni bahamba? Unokufuna ukuphonononga umgaqo okanye ezimbini emva kokuthetha nabo, kodwa musa ukwenza oko ngelixa uqhuba le ntetho. Batsho ukuba uzimisele ukucinga ngako, kwaye uya kubazisa.
Thetha!
Batsho indlela ozive ngayo malunga nabo, bazise ukuba bakulimaza ngokushiya. Baxelele ukuba akukho nxaki wena, ndawonye onokuyicombulula. Ukuba banokuziva ukuba ukuhamba kusenokusombulula into ethile, baxelele kuqala, unokuhlala unika ezinye iinqunto, ngoko banokwenza isigqibo esingcono.
Fumana uncedo.
Ukuba akusilo ixesha lokuqala okanye unengxaki yokuthetha xa bebuya, sekuyisikhathi sokucela uncedo. Oku kungaba ngumntu ohlonishwa ngumntwana wakho, oko kukuthi uyise okanye umalume. Okanye unokuba ufuna ukufumana uncedo lwezengcali , indawo enye yokujonga i-Intanethi iphakamisa i-Today's Teen.