Indlela yokuqaphela nokusingatha indlela yokuziphatha kwengqondo kwiselula
Ekujonganeni nentombazana ekhuselekileyo , abazali banokuva i-pathology yegama, ezinokudideka ngenxa yokuba oogqirha kunye neengcali zempilo yengqondo bangasebenzisa eli gama ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Ukusetyenziswa okuhlukeneyo kwekota elithi "Pathological"
Iingcali zempilo yezogulisa zisebenzisa i-term pathology ukuchaza ukuhlolwa kwezifo kunye nezinye izimo ezingavamile ukubandakanya izizathu, ukuqhubela phambili kunye nemiphumo .
Ekuphuhliseni ukuxilongwa ngokuchanekileyo kwintsholongwane engabonakaliyo yokuziphatha okanye ukungabonakali, i-psychiatrist engumfana isenokuthetha ngokubhekiselele kwintsholongwane yengqondo, oku kuthetha ukuba ugqirha ufuna izifo ezinokuthi zibangele le meko.
Phakathi kwabaqeqeshi bempilo yengqondo abangenayo imvelaphi yezokwelapha, i-pathology yegama eliqhelekileyo lisetyenziselwa ukubhekisela kuyo nayiphi na into eyahlukileyo kwimisebenzi eqhelekileyo okanye enempilo, eyahluka ukusuka kumnxeba ukuya kumbi. Kule tyenziswa, eli gama lentsholongwane libhekisela kwizinto ezingavamile okanye ezingaqhelekanga, ukuziphatha okanye ukucinga okubangelwa sisifo sengqondo okanye somzimba.
Ingcali ingachaza iingxaki zentsha ngomsindo ngale ndlela, "Unesizathu sokuba nomsindo kodwa umsindo wakhe unobungozi kunokuba aphumele abanye abantu kuba akakwazi ukulawula."
Ziziphi iindlela zokuziphatha kakubi kwintsapho?
Ukuziphatha ngokunyanisekileyo kwintsholongwane yindlela yokuziphatha engafanelekanga eyona nto ibangela ukuba umntwana akwazi ukusebenza.
Ngamanye amazwi, ukukrakra akuyiyo into eyenziwa ngumzimba ngaphandle kokuba ibangele ukuzilimaza, ukuhlala esibhedlele, ukuxoshwa esikolweni okanye ezinye iziphumo eziphambili. Enyanisweni, abatsha abangazange bathukuthele, bangaze babuze umbane, kwaye bangaze baphumelele kumgca kunqabile kakhulu - kuba ukuziphatha kwentsha kubandakanya konke oku kunye nokunye.
Zibukeka njani ngathi ukuziphatha kakubi ngokwenene? Nazi izibonakaliso ezimbalwa ukuba ukuziphatha kwentombazana yakho ibe yingozi kakhulu kwaye inobungozi ngaphezu komlinganiselo:
- Umntwana wakho uzilimaza ngokusika, ukutshisa, ukudonsa iinwele, njl njl.
- Umntwana wakho ubonakalisa impahla yakhe okanye yabanye, okanye akalimaze abanye abantu ngenhloso.
- Umntwana wakho ukhulise ingxaki yokutya (i-bulimia okanye i-anorexia), okanye akakwazi ukunciphisa ukutya kwakhe kwaye ufumene ubunzima obukhulu.
- Umntwana wakho usebenzisa kakubi utywala okanye iziyobisi.
- Umntwana wakho uthatha inxaxheba emngciphekweni kunye / okanye ukuziphatha okungekho mthethweni njengokungcakaza, ukuba, ukukopela okanye ukuziphatha kakubi ngokwesini.
- Umntwana wakho ungumqambimanga onyanzelekileyo.
Ukuba ubona iimpawu ezifana nezichazwe ngasentla, kubalulekile ukuthatha inyathelo. Unokuqala ngokujonga izinto ozibonayo nabanye abantu abadala ebomini bakho, ukuqinisekisa ukuba ubona umfanekiso opheleleyo wengxaki yobomi bakho bemihla ngemihla. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba iimpawu zakho zixhaswa ngabanye ebomini bomntwana wakho, kufanelekile ukuba uqhagamshelane neengcali zempilo yengqondo onokukunceda ukuba uncede wakho umntwana.
Kwezinye iimeko, ukuziphatha kakubi kwintsholongwane kubangelwa yimitshintsho yezinto eziphilayo - nantoni na evela kwintlungu yokugula kwisifo sengqondo ingakhokelela ekuziphatheni okunjalo.
Kwamanye amaxesha, ukuziphatha kakubi kubangelwa yinkxalabo yokusingqongileyo, uxhatshazo okanye ukuxhalabisa. Kwiimeko ezininzi, xa uqonda izizathu zengxaki, ungaqala ukutshintsha imeko okanye unike ngoncedo olungonyango ukuze uncede utshintshe ukuziphatha.