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Ixesha lokufika ixesha libeka ixesha olindele ukuba umntwana wakho abuyele ekhaya ebusuku. Yindlela yokugcina umntwana wakho ukhusele kwaye wakho umntwana ukuba abonise intlonelo yintsapho yonke.
Kubantwana abaphakathi kwe-14 no-16, i-American Academy ye-Pediatrics incoma i-8 okanye ngo-9 ntambama ngobusuku besikolweni kwaye i-10 okanye ngo-11 ntambama ngeveki. I-curfew enokuguquguquka ngakumbi ingaba ifanelekile kwintsholongwane kunyaka wakhe wokugqibela wesikolo esiphakeme.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, esi sikhokelo esiqhelekileyo kuphela. Kufuneka umise i-curfew ngokusekelwe kwinto eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kwintsapho yakho kwaye yintoni efanelekileyo kuyo intsapho yakho.
Ukuba ufanele uvuke kusenokwenzeka umsebenzi, okanye umntwana wakho ovusiweyo kufuneka avuke ngokukhawuleza esikolweni, unokufuna ukumisa i-curfew yangaphambili. Ukuba uhlala kwindawo yokulwa nolwaphulo-mthetho oluphezulu, i-curfew yangaphambili ingaba kubalulekile ukugcina umntwana wakho ukhusele.
Kakade ke, imilinganiselo yakho yeselula kufuneka ibe yinto ebalulekileyo. Ukuba umntwana wakho unzima ukuvuka esikolweni ekuseni okanye ulungele ukunyamekela kwezinye iindawo zobomi bakhe, unokuthi angakwazi ukulawula ixesha elizayo.
Imithetho ye-Curfew ingatshintshwa xa umntwana wakho ekhula kwaye ubonisa amandla okwandisa ukuphatha uxanduva oluninzi. Ixesha lokufika kwikhaya eli-14 elineminyaka eli-14 liyakwazi ukuhlukela kwalomntwana oneminyaka eli-17 ubudala.
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Kukho izinto ezininzi ongayenza ukuseka i-curfew ekhuselekileyo nefanelekileyo kwi-yakho yeselula.
Cinga ngezi khokelo:
- Beka i-blank blanket curfew . Ixesha lokufihla i-blanket yithuba elimiselweyo ukuba umntwana wakho uya kubakho ulungelelanise imisebenzi yawo. Ayitshintshi kwaye inceda umntwana wakho ukuba aqonde imida kunye nemida. Akukufaneki ukuba libe lixesha elifanayo kwiimpawu zangeveki njengeveki zeeveki, kodwa lihlala lihambelana nosuku lweveki ukuya kwiveki kunye neveki ngeveki. Unako ukulungelelanisa eli xesha ngezizathu ezithile.
- Thetha kwintsapho yakho malunga nokuba noxanduva. Xoxa ngethemba obekayo kumntwana wakho ukuba abe ekhaya ngexesha. Cacisa ukuba uza kusasa ukwazi ukuba ungubani kunye noko akwenzayo. Yenza isivumelwano sokuziphatha kwaye uvumelane namaxesha owamisa.
- Vumela ezinye iindlela kwiziganeko ezizodwa, ezifana nezithembiso . Xa wakho umntwana efuna ukuba nomsebenzi okhethekileyo, xubusha okulindelwe ngaphambili kwexesha. Ukwandisa ixesha lokufika kwikamva xa kuqinisekisiwe kodwa qiniseka ukuba ubeka ixesha elifihliweyo lokufika kwikota.
- Beka ixesha elifanelekileyo kubo bonke abachaphazelekayo . Ukuba ungathanda ukulala ngaphambi kobusuku ngoLwesihlanu kusihlwa, wabeka ixesha eli-11 ntambama Menze kucacise ukuba uya kulinda umntwana wakho ukuba aqinisekise ukuba uya ekhaya ngexesha.
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Kukho izibambiso ezimbalwa ezingekho emzimbeni ezingaba lula ukuwela xa kuziwa ekumiseni ixesha lokufika kwintsana yakho. Nazi izikhokelo eziqhelekileyo:
- Musa ukulingana kulokho "wonke umntu avunyelwe ukwenza." Nangona umhlobo wakho osenyongweni oneminyaka engama-11 ubudala, unokuthi ufanele unwebe ixesha lokufika komntwana wakho. Ukuba ufanele uvuke ngo-5 ngomsebenzi ngomsebenzi, kwaye ekhaya lakho, wonke umntu kufuneka abe ngo-9 ebusuku ukuze ukhululeke uze ulale.
- Ungamvumeli umntwana wakho ukuba alibazise ixesha lokufika kwangoko. Ukuba umntwana wakho usemva imizuzu engama-30 phambi kwexesha lokufika kwikhaya lokuthi ufuna ukuchitha ubusuku kwindlu yomhlobo, qaphela. Oku kungabonakalisa into ethile.
- Ungamvumeli umntwana wakho ukuba athenge ixesha lokufika kwexesha. Ungamvumeli umntwana wakho ukuba akuxelele ixesha eliya kuba likhaya. Beka kakuhle ixesha elifanelekileyo lokufika kwikhaya kwaye mxelele ukuba kufuneka ahlole kunye nawe ukuba izicwangciso zakhe ziguquka.
- Chaza okulindelekileyo ukuba umntwana wakho usemva. Ngokucacileyo, awufuni ukuba umntwana wakho asheshe ukuba afike ekhaya ngexesha. Thetha malunga nokulindela ukuba uhamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye ugxininise ukuba kubalulekile ukufika ekhaya ngokukhuselekileyo, nokuba ngaba sele emva kwemizuzu embalwa.
Iziphumo ze-Curfew kubantwana
Kubalulekile ukunika umntwana wakho umphumo xa ephula ixesha lokufika . Unokwenza isigqibo sokuphumeza umphumo omncinane xa wakho umntwana usemva nje emva kwexesha elifutshane ngenxa yokuphulwa okukhulu.
> Umthombo
> I-American Academy yePediatrics. Ukuhlala emva kwexesha elide kunye ne-Curfews, 8/3/2011