Ukujonga ngokujulile ukuphuhliswa kwentsha yakho eneminyaka eyi-15
Xa ixesha lakho elivisayo liphendukela kwi-15, mhlawumbi ucinga ngento yokuba uneminyaka embalwa nje emfutshane ukususela kumntu omdala. Yaye ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakale elula kangangokuba wayengenakuvakalelwa ngokomoya nangokwenyanisekileyo ukuze uphumelele kwihlabathi elidala, awuyedwa.
Kodwa ungakhathazeki. Leyo minyaka phakathi kwe-15 no-18 inokuba luncedo ekuncediseni umntwana wakho okhulileyo aze athole izakhono afuna ukuba ngumntu omdala onoxanduva.
Kukho ithuba elihle, nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana wakho uya kucinga ukuba ulungele ukuthatha ihlabathi ngoku. Yaye unokumisela ukuba sele esazi konke. Owaziyo -konke-isimo sengqondo kunye nesigwebo sokuvukela kungenziwa yinkqubo yabantwana abaneminyaka eli-15 ubudala.
Phuhliso loLuntu
Kule minyaka, abahlobo baba luleke ngakumbi. Kwaye intsha yakho ingaqala ukubonisa iimfuno ekuthandaneni. Abaninzi abaneminyaka engama-15 ubudala banempembelelo yoxinzelelo lwabaontanga.
Umntu oneminyaka eyi-15 ukhangelelana neengxaki ezinzima kunye nabaontanga abangenakufuna ukukuxelela. Oko, ukudibaniswa nesidingo sokuzimela ngokukhululekileyo, kunokubangela ukuba umntwana wakho abonakale ebudeni ngamanye amaxesha.
Umntwana wakho oneminyaka eli-15 unokuxubusha ukuba uzama ukubuza imibuzo emininzi ngemini yakhe okanye oko kwenzekayo ebomini bakhe. Kwaye nangona kubalulekile ukunika ubumfihlo, kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyazi ukuba kwenzekani nentsapho yakho.
Uphuhliso Lomoya
Xa uneminyaka eyi-15, intsha iqala ukucinga malunga nokuba kuya kuba njani ukuhlala ngaphandle.
Nangona abanye abatsha banokuba bacinga iikholeji, abanye banokucinga ngokufumana indlu yabo.
Bahlala bebukela oontanga babo abadala ukuba bafumane imisebenzi, baphumelele esikolweni esiphakeme, baze bangene kwihlabathi lenene. Unokufumana imibuzo eyokutshitshisa, njengokuthi, "Ucinga ntoni ngam ukuya kwikholeji?"
Umntu oneminyaka eyi-15 unokugxininiswa ngamabakala, ubudlelwane, kunye neminye imiba yeselula.
Yaye unokukhathazeka kakhulu ngokubonakala kwayo.
Njengoko umntwana wakho eqala ukuhlakulela ukuqonda kwakhe, unokufumana ubunzima bokufumanisa ukuba ubani. Unokuba ngumzabalazo wokuzithemba kwaye unokuba nokulindela okuphezulu.
Yenza Intsha Yakho Izuze Amalungelo
Abaselula bavuthiwe kwiirhafu ezahlukeneyo. Abanye abaneminyaka engama-15 ubudala bakulungele ukufunda indlela yokuqhuba kwaye banako ukulawula phantse yonke imisebenzi yabo. Abanye, nangona kunjalo, abakwazi ukukhumbula ukuhlambulula amagumbi abo kunye nomzabalazo wokufumana umsebenzi wabo wesikolo okwenziwa ngexesha.
Yenza amalungelo akho asemntwaneni ngokubhekiselele ekukwazi kwakhe ukuthatha uxanduva. Mxelele ukuba unokufumana inkululeko ngokukubonisa ukuba uyakwazi ukulawula ukuzimela.
Emva kwexesha lokuvalelwa kwexesha kungabhalwa ekusebenzeni imisebenzi yakhe. Ukuthatha imfundo yomqhubi kunokudibaniswa nokufumana amabakala amahle.
Lindela ukuva izinto ezinjengokuthi, "Ukuba ndikhaya ngexesha lokufika ekhaya , kutheni ndifuna ukukuxelela apho ndiya khona?" Yenza kucace ukuba ngokulandela imithetho yakho nokuxelela apho uya khona, ubonisa ukuba unokuphatha uxanduva oluninzi.
Uninzi oluneminyaka engama-15 ubudala alulungele inkululeko eninzi njengoko bacinga ukuba bayakwazi ukuyisebenzisa. Ngoko kubalulekile ukubeka imida enempilo kwaye ulandele ngemiphumo ecacileyo .
Ngaba ukhathazekile ukuba Uneminyaka eyi-15 yokuThuthukiswa kweTe ayiqhelekanga?
Abazali abaninzi abaneminyaka engama-15 ubudala abanenkxalabo yokuba ukuphuhliswa kwabo kwentlalo kunye nomoya kukhawuleza okanye kungekukhawulezileyo. Okanye ngaba abazali baqala ukubona iimpawu zokulumkisa iziyobisi okanye iimpawu zesifo sengqondo xa ubuntwabuntlalo kubakho ixesha leengxaki zentlalo kunye neengxaki.
Ukuba unomdla malunga nophuhliso lwakho lwentsha, khuluma nogqirha. Ukuba ugqirha wengane yakho unenkxalabo, umntwana wakho unokuthunyelwa kumboneleli wempilo yengqondo ukuze ahlalutye.
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