Ukuphepha okuqhubekayo kwe "Moooom! Ndiyathukuthela! "Kwanele ukwenza umzali aphephe amehlo aze aphephe amandla. Konke ofuna ukukwenza kukugqiba ukwenza isidlo sakusihlwa okanye ukufumana iphrojekthi encinane yekhaya eyenziweyo, kwaye zonke iintsapho zakho zifuna ukuba ufike nomsebenzi wokuba uzigcine.
Ngaba ungumzali omubi ukuba ubabethe uqobo? Hayi-eneneni, awufani.
Ukufunda indlela yokulwa nobunzima kunye nokufumana iindlela zokuhlala ixesha elingakhange lixhotyiswe ngokwenene kubalulekile kubomi bokubaluleka kwezingane.
Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana baqonde ukuba nangona ukunyamezela kungakhathazeki, akuyi kubabulala. Kwaye ukuziva utyumkile kukuba yinto yobomi. Emva kwakho konke, abantu abadala baziva bevuthiwe ngezinye izikhathi. Ukuhlala emidlalweni yebhola kunye nomdlalo wokudanisa akuhlali kumnandi. Kodwa ukufunda indlela yokunyamezela inzondo ngendlela efanelekileyo yoluntu kubalulekile.
Ngaphandle kokufunda indlela yokugqithisa ngayo, abantwana baya kuba nexesha elinzima ukufumana into enomdla-kwaye oko kuboniswe ukukhokelela ekusetyenzisweni kakubi ngokweziyobisi, ukuziphatha kakubi ngokwesini, iingxaki zezemfundo kunye nokuchitheka. Ngaba loo nto ivakala kakhulu kunjengokwesaba-ukubiza?
Kulungile, khawuqwalasele oku-abantwana abangenayo ithuba lokufumana ixesha elingakhange balungiselelwe banamathuba ambalwa okuba baqulunqe, bafunde ukuxazulula iingxaki kunye nokuphuhlisa izakhono zokukhuthaza.
Leli xesha elingenakulungiswa xa abantwana befunda ukuhlolisisa ukuthanda kwabo, bekhululekile kwisiphakamiso okanye isikhokelo. Baza kufumanisa ukuba bathanda ukumba egadi okanye ukudlala.
Kodwa, kukho amaxesha apho abantwana abangenakukwazi ukufumana ukuzonwabisa ngokwabo. Njengokuba uzama njengoko kunokwenzeka, impendulo yokunyamezela ayikho enye iTV okanye ixesha le-iPad .
Xa kunjalo, yenza amacandelo ambalwa ukuphakamisa umkhono wakho ukuxosha inzondo ngaphandle kokuba ulahle izinto ozenzayo ukuze ujonge abantwana.
Ncedisa Umntwana Wakho Ukunyamezela
Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba kulungile ukuziva uvakalelwa kwaye ngezinye amaxesha, (a) kufuneka abeke ukunyamezela ukuziva ngaloo ndlela kuba akufanelekile ukubandakanya umsebenzi. Xa uthengisa kunye nawe okanye xa uthetha nomnye umntu omdala, ukuxhalaba kulungile.
Chaza ukuba kukho iindlela eziphilileyo zokujongana neemvakalelo zokukhupha. Ukubala ngokuthulekileyo entlokweni okanye ukwenza ingoma entsha-ngokude nje ecula iingoma entlokweni yakhe-zifanelekile kuluntu.
Kodwa kukuphazamisa ngelixa uthetha nomatshini wakho okanye ujikeleza ngaphantsi komthala weelayibrari ngelixa ulindele ukuba ufumane incwadi ayikho ilungile. Ukuseka imithetho ecacileyo kwaye ulandele nemiphumo xa (i) ephula loo mithetho.
Nika Iingcebiso Zomntwana Wakho Ukuze Zizigcinele
Ungamncedi umntwana wakho rhoqo xa ekhwaza. Ngaphandle koko, uya kuthatha uxanduva lokuphilisa ubunzima bakhe.
Kodwa, nikeza iingcamango ezingamnceda ukuba azizibonele yena ngokwakhe. Ingaba ulindele isidlo sakho kwindawo yokutyela, okanye unzima ukufumana into enokuyenza ngosuku lwemvula, umfundise indlela yokujongana nokunyamezela.
Abantwana abaselula banamandla amaninzi-kuncedo xa kuziwa ekufumaneni ukuzizonwabisa. Kodwa njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula, (a) kufuneka abe phantsi koxhomekeke ekuncedeni ukuxhatshazwa kwakhe.
Ngoko, vula umntwana wakho "Ndiyothuka!" Kwixesha lokufunda. Mnike izixhobo kunye neengcamango eziya kumnceda ukuba afumane iindlela zokuzithobela kwixesha elizayo.
Yakha "I-Bored" Jar
Le yilezi ezimbini: Ngethuba lokuqala intsana yakho ithi "Ndiyothuthuka!" Makenze yakhe ibhotile. Oku kubandakanya ukwenza iprojekti encinane yokucokisa ingcambu uze ufike ngeengcamango zokufaka kuyo. Ngexesha elizayo xa ekhwaza, unokukhetha ingcamango kwiphulo.
Ezinye iingcamango zingabandakanya:
- Bhala ileta kumkhulu, umkhulu okanye umzala
- Yakha inqaba ngeengubo kunye nemilenze
- Yiba nomcimbi wokudanisa
- Fumana i-magnet uze wenze uludwe lwawo wonke umntu osendlini
- Gxotha inja
- Bhala izinto ezintlanu ozithandayo ngomntu ngamnye kwintsapho
- Yenza iphepha lendiza elibaleka ngasemva
- Dlala ukufakela iflegi
- Yakha inqaba kunye neebhokisi
- Bhala ibali
- Yenza i-zoo kwizilwanyana zakho ezixutywe
- Yenza i-collage kunye nemifanekiso yamaphephancwadi
- Yakha incwadana yencwadana ukuthumela kubantakwabo
- Yenza i-bird feeder
- Hlela iimpahla zabo ngombala
- Yenza iqela le-tea efakwe
Phula iMveliso yeziCwangciso
Iiprojekthi zesebenzi zingaba yindlela efanelekileyo yokugcina umntwana wakho enkingeni ukuba usebenza ukusuka ekhaya . Gcina ibhasikidi egcwele izixhobo zobugcisa ngexesha elulungile, ngoko unako ukulikhupha xa ihlwele ihlaselwa. Kule bhasikidi, gcina ezi zinto zibalulekileyo:
- Amakethi / iikhrayoni
- Ukwakha iphepha / amakhadikhadi
- Iikrele
- Glue
- Iitampu kunye neki
- Iibhola zeekoton, amaqhosha, kunye nezinye izinto eziphambili
- Amaphephancwadi amadala
Qaphela izinto ezimbini ezilahlekileyo ezikule luhlu: ubumnyama kunye nopende! Lezo zimbini zizinto ezimbi kakhulu kwaye ziyakusindiswa kwiintsuku ezikhethiweyo kunye newe.
Xa umncinci wakho evakalisa ukukhwabanisa, krazula ibhasikidi uze usekwe kwitafile ekhitshini. Nika umntwana wakho ukhululekile ukupenda, ukusika okanye ukuthabatha entliziyweni yakhe. Ukuba (i) ufuna i-directional encane, mnike isabelo, njengokuthi, "Yenze umkhulu-makhadi ikhadi" okanye "Yenza iflyflyfly ngaphandle kwamaqhosha."
Hlala kwi-Hunt Scuntenger
Isihluthulelo salokhu kusebenza kukuba nokukhangela amaqabunga okuzingela. Ngethuba lexesha lakho lokuphumula, yakha amakhishithi ambalwa okuzingela ngaphakathi ngaphakathi (kwimvula yezulu) nangaphandle. Xa ukunyamezela kuhlaselwa, uza kuba nomsebenzi olula ogcina abantwana bezinwele zakho imizuzu engama-30 okanye ngaphezulu!
Ukuba unekhamera yedijithali endala-okanye umntwana wakho unesistim somzixhobo kunye nekhamera kunye nesithombe somzingeli wokuzingela, unokuzonwabisa kakhulu. Yenza nje uluhlu lwempahla kumntwana wakho ukuba afumane, njengetshatsheli, into ebomvu, kunye nedwala ebonakala ngathi intliziyo.
Funda incwadi
Cwangcisa uhambo oluya elayibrari nganye veki, kwaye umntwana wakho akasayi kuphinda athi "akukho nto yokwenzayo". Yenza uthando lokufunda kungekudala, kwaye mhlawumbi uya kubuyela encwadini xa (e) evekile. Ukuba kwenzeka ukuba uvale loo mazwi avela emlonyeni wakhe, xelele ukuba lixesha lokufunda kunye (kwaye) unokukhetha nayiphi na incwadi endlwini.
Mvumele Yena okanye Uncedo lwakhe
Ukuba unemisebenzi yokwenza , faka wakho omncinane kulo msebenzi. Nangona ingaphetha ukwenza imisebenzi yenzeke kabini kwangexesha elide, uya kuthi ufundise i kiddo indlela yokuhlamba impahla yokuhlamba impahla, uhlambe iifestile uze uphuke phantsi.
Ukuba wenza okuthile umntwana wakho akakwazi ukukunceda ngokukhuselekileyo, njengokwenza isidlo kwisitofu esishisayo, mnike enye indawo ekhuselekileyo, njengokutshitshisa ekhitshini.
Lungisa iNkqubo
Ukuba unomntwana othanda ukuhlala ebusweni, mcele ukuba alungiselele ukusebenza kwakho. Baya kungena kwigumbi labo basebenze ngengoma, isethi yamahlaya, okanye isimiso somdaniso.
Shedeza umboniso we talente ngeyure, ngoko unako ukugqiba oko usebenzayo kunye (kunye) uya kuba nexesha lokugqiba isenzo sakhe. Emva koko, nikela ingqalelo yakho kwiitalente zomntwana wakho-ungakhohlwa ukuyirekhoda!
Ngamanye amaxesha, umntwana akayikrakra ngokwenene, kodwa uyafuna ukuba uqaphele. Ukuba ungayilawula, yima oko uyenzela imizuzu emihlanu ukuya kwe-10 ukunika ingqalelo yakho ingqalelo yakho, nokuba udlala umdlalo omfutshane okanye uthetha nje ngemini yakhe. Ingqwalasela encinci ingenza indlela ende ekuncedeni umntwana wakho ukuba azizibonele ngokwakhe.
Imithombo:
I-Caldwell LL, iDarling N. Umongo wokuzonwabisa, ulawulo lwabazali, nokuchasana noxinzelelo lwabaontanga njengengqiqo yeenkwenkwezi zokuhlala kunye nokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi: Umbono wendalo. Umbhalo woPhando loLondolozo .1999; 31 (1): 57-77.
Miller, JA, Caldwell, LL, Weybright, EH, Smith, EA, Vergnani, T., & Wegner, L. (2014). Ngaba uBob Seger ulungile? Ulwalamano phakathi kweBoredom kwiZiko lokuzonwabisa kunye [noKungozi] ngokwesondo. I-Sensitive Sciences , 36 (1), 52-67.