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Bafundise abantwana ezi zakhono ukubanceda babe ngabantu abadala abaphumelelayo

Ukulungiswa akufanele kube malunga nokujezisa abantwana ngokuziphatha kakubi. Kunoko, ukuqeqeshwa kufanele kube malunga nokufundisa abantwana izakhono zobomi abayidingayo ukuba babe ngabantu abadala.

Oko akuthethi ukuba akufanele unike abantwana bakho imiphumo emibi. Enyanisweni, imiphumo ingaba ngabafundisi abakhulu.

Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uqeqesho lwakho lufundise abantwana bakho indlela yokwenza ngcono ngexesha elizayo ukuze iimpazamo zabo zibe ngamathuba okufunda abalulekileyo. Nazi iindlela ezithandathu zobomi bokuziphatha kwakho kufuneka ufundise umntwana wakho:

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Ukuzimela

Abantwana abahlala e-Nagging ukwenza umsebenzi wabo wesikolo , bengabaniki imisebenzi, okanye bahlale bewahlangula kwimisebenzi enzima abayi kufundisa ukuzimela. Kunoko, ezo zinto ziza kuqinisa kuphela ukuxhomekeka komntwana wakho.

Injongo ephambili kufuneka ibe ngabazali ukuba basebenze ngokwabo emsebenzini. Ekugqibeleni, abantwana bakho akufanele bakudinge kwakhona. Ukuze bancedise oku, abazali kufuneka bancede abantwana bafunde ukuzimela .

Umntwana wakho kufuneka afunde ukuzimela ngokuphathelele imali, imisebenzi , umsebenzi wesikolo kunye nokulawula ixesha. Indlela eyona ndlela yokufundisa ukuzithoba, kukubonelela ngemiphumo yokuziphatha kakubi kunye nemiphumo emihle yokuziphatha kakuhle.

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Zakhono zoLuntu

Uninzi lwabantwana badinga uncedo oluninzi-nokufunda-ukufunda izakhono zentlalo. Iintsana ezincinci kufuneka zifunde indlela yokwabelana ngayo, sebenzisa imilinganiselo emihle kwaye uthethe ngomlomo ukuze bakwazi ukuhlakulela ubungane obuphilileyo.

Abantwana abakhulileyo badla ngokukhawuleza badinga uncedo olulungileyo kunye nezakhono zabo zentlalo. Indima yokudlala indlela yokucela uncedo, uthetha xa iimvakalelo zabo zenzakala okanye zimelele kumntu onokuxhaphaza. Izakhono zentlalo efanelekileyo yinto yobomi obungenza ummahluko omkhulu kwimpumelelo yomntwana wakho kwisikolo uze ube ngumdala.

Ukuchonga izakhono ezithile zezentlalo kunye nemilinganiselo enhle ofuna ukuba umntwana afunde. Indima yokudlala indlela yokusebenzisa ezo zakhono kwaye unika ingxelo eninzi. Xa ubamba umntwana wakho usebenzisa izakhono zentlalo, yenza udumo .

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Ukwenza izigqibo eziphilileyo

Abantwana abajongi iingxaki ngendlela efanayo abantu abadala. Bayafuna uncedo lokufunda iingxaki zokuxazulula iingxaki kwaye bafuna ukuziqhelanisa ukwenza izigqibo eziphilileyo ngokwabo.

Xa umntwana wakho efumana ingxaki, sebenzisana kunye nokuphuhlisa isisombululo esifanelekileyo. Ingaba umntwana wakho akanako ukugqiba isigqibo sokuba uyigqoke kwiphathi lokuzalwa, okanye akakwazi ukuqonda ingxaki yakhe yamatriki, kukho amaxesha onke amathuba okufundisa izakhono zokulungisa iingxaki.

Ukukhokela abantwana ngaphandle kokuzenza zonke izigqibo zabo kubalulekile ekuncedeni ukuba bafunde ukwenza izigqibo eziphilileyo. Gwema ukuba ngumzali we- helicopter kwaye xa ukhuselekile ukwenza njalo, vumela umntwana wakho ukuba abhekane nemiphumo yemvelo . Iingcamango zingaba luncedo lokufundisa.

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UkuLawula Umtsalane

Abantwana bathuthuka ngokukhawuleza ukulawula ixesha. Abazali banokukunceda ukuququzelela izakhono zokulawula umgudu ngezindlela ezininzi. Ukunikela ngemiphumo enengqiqo yindlela enye yokukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba enze ukulibazisa ukulibala.

Ukudumisa kunokuba yindlela enye yokunceda abantwana bakwazi ukulawula iimpembelelo. Mdumise umntwana wakho ngokucinga ngaphambi kokuba enze okuthile, elinde ithuba lokuthetha, okanye uhambe xa eve.

Ukufundisa kwangaphambili kunokuyindlela efanelekileyo yokunceda ukukhusela iingxaki ngaphambi kokuba ziqale. Umzekelo, ngaphambi kokuba uphume emotweni, xelela wakho oneminyaka engama-4 ubudala, "Xa siphumela emotweni, siza kubamba izandla size sihambe ngaphaya kwebala lokupaka ngelixa sifuna imoto." Ukuziphatha kohlobo inyathelo ngelixa umntwana wakho ephethe isakhono esitsha.

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Ummiselo womzwelo

Ukufundisa abantwana iindlela eziphilileyo zokujongana neemvakalelo zabo kubomi bobubele abazali abaninzi abajongayo. Xa abantwana bengenakuzivakalisa ngomlomo, okanye xa bengayazi indlela yokujamelana neemvakalelo ezingaxakekiyo, bahlala becaphukisa umsindo okanye babe nobudlova .

Ukuqala ngexesha lomncinci, fundisa umntwana wakho ngeemvakalelo . Uphando lubonisa ukuba ukuqonda kwengqondo kubaluleke ngaphezu kwe-IQ xa kufikelele kwimpumelelo yomhlaba wonke.

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U ku kholosa

Uqeqesho olungqinelanayo luyindlela enkulu yokunceda umntwana wakho athole ukuzithemba nokuzithemba. Futhi ukuzithemba kuya kuvula umnyango kwezinye izakhono zobomi, ezifana nokukwazi ukufunda kwiimpazamo, ukwamukela ukugxekwa, kunye nokujamelana noyiko.

Misela imithetho ecacileyo yasekhaya kunye nemiphumo emihle kunye nemiphumo emibi , kwaye umntwana wakho uyazi ukuba uza kulindela. Xa umntwana wakho eziva ekhuselekile, uya kuba nethemba ngakumbi ngokuzama izinto ezintsha nokuhlola iitalente zakhe. Sebenzisa ukuziphatha okulungileyo ukuqinisa ukuzithemba kwakhe kwiminyaka yonke kwaye uya kulungele ukuthatha ihlabathi xa efika emdala.

> Imithombo

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