Ubungqina kunye neengxaki zolu hlobo loqeqesho
Imithombo yeMithombo isetyenzisile igama elithi "i-helicopter parent" ukuchaza uhlobo loqeqesho apho abazali bebandakanyeka khona ubomi babo bomntwana. Nangona kungathi kunengcamango enhle yokudlala indima enkulu kwizigqibo zomntwana, abazali bee-helicopter bahlala bethatha oku.
Igama elithi "i-helicopter parent" laqala ukuhlanganiswa kwincwadi ethi "Phakathi koMzali kunye nentsha." Intsha ebhalwe kwincwadi ithi umama wayebukele kuye njengenqwelo-moya.
Ukususela ngoko, abaninzi abaphathi beekholeji baye basebenzisa eli gama ukubhekisela kubazali abaqhubeka bezama ukujonga abantwana babo ukusuka kude emva kokuba baye ekholeji kwaye ixesha liye lasasaza ukuba libandakanye bonke abazali abangabikho.
Iimpawu ezintle ze-Helicopter Ukuzali
Abazali be-helicopter ngokuqinisekileyo babandakanyeka ebomini babo bomntwana onokuba yinto entle. Unokuthembela kubantwana bee-helicopter abazali ukuba bafike ngexesha, benze umsebenzi wabo wesikolo, kwaye balungiselele imisebenzi yabo.
Abazali be-helicopter yabantwana abancinci kunye nabaselula banokwazi ukuba apho abantwana babo bahlala khona ngamaxesha onke, oko kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqwalasela ukhuseleko. Kwakhona banokukwazi ukuba ngubani umntwana wabo kunye nendlela abantwana babo benza ngayo esikolweni.
Iingxaki Nge-Helicopter Yokubazali
Ukukhula kunye nabazali be-helicopter kunezinye iingxaki. Iingxaki ezinokwenzeka ziquka:
- Abantwana abanesakhono sokuxazulula iingxaki : Abantwana babo bonke ubudala bafuna izakhono zokuxazulula iingxaki. Ingaba uneminyaka engama-5 ubudala ofuna ukufunda indlela yokuvala amagama okanye umntu oneminyaka engama-25 ubudala ongenakufumana umsebenzi, abantwana kufuneka bazi indlela yokuzisombulula iingxaki zabo. Xa abazali bexazulula zonke iingxaki zeengxaki zabantwana babo, abantwana abakwazi ukufunda ezi ngxaki zokuxazulula iingxaki
- I-helicopter yabazali ikhokelela ekuxhomekeke kuyo : Abazali be-helicopter benza okuninzi kubantwana babo ukuze bakwazi ukwenza abantwana babo baxhomekeke kubo. Ukuba umama umbiza wakhe oneminyaka engama-19 ukuba amvuse ekuseni nganye ukuqinisekisa ukuba ufunda kwiklasi ngexesha, akayi kufunda indlela yokwenza oko. Abazali kufuneka bancede abantwana bafunde indlela yokuphila ngaphandle kwabo.
- Abantwana abafundile ukuzimela : Abazali be-Helicopter baxhaphaza abantwana babo, kunokufundisa abantwana babo ukuba bazithethelele. Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bakwazi ukubuza imibuzo, bafumane icaciso baze bathethe xa befuna into ethile. Ngabasebenzi, aba bantwana abayi kuba noMama okanye uTata bafumane ukubanceda bajongane nomphathi-boss okanye umgaqo-mngeni kwi-ofisi.
- I-helicopter yokukhusela abantwana abakhusela kwiziphumo zemvelo : Abantwana kufuneka babhekane nemiphumo yemvelo ebomini. Emva koko, kwiimeko apho abazali abangenayo, abantwana baya kuhlangabezana nemiphumo yemvelo. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi abazali bee-helicopter benza izinto zabo zabantwana ngenzame yokubakhusela ukuba bangayitholi imiphumo emibi.
- I-helicopter yabazali iphazamisa ubudlelwane bomzali nabantwana : Izenzo ze-helicopter umzali zingaphazamisa ubudlelwane bomzali nomntwana ngokunjalo. Ukunyamezela umntwana wakho ukuba enze umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo, okanye uhlolisise ukuhamba kwakhe konke, akunakwenzeka ukuba umntwana wakho afune ukuthetha nawe ngakumbi. Kunoko, kunokususa umntwana wakho kude.