Njani kwaye nini ukugqiba ukuba i-multiply yakho ifanele ibe namagumbi abo.
Ngaba i-multiples yakho kufuneka yabelane negumbi lokulala?
Ukususela kwizibilini zokuhlala kunye nabahlali, abazali abaninzi baninzi banokufumana ukulungelelanisa ukuvelisa i-nursery eyodwa kubantwana babo amawele, ama-triple okanye ngaphezulu. Indlu enye yokulala egumbini zonke izikhumba; elinye ikhefu liqukethe iimpahla ezininzi ezincinane zokusana. Esi sisisombululo esihle kwiintsana; Nangona kunjalo, njengoko abantwana bekhula, abaninzi abazali baqala ukujonga ezinye iindlela.
Amawele efana ngokwesini kaninzi akwazi ukubelana ngegumbi lokulala ngaphezu kokuphindaphindiweyo kobuhlobo beentlobo ezahlukeneyo. Abaninzi abajoyina intsapho kunye nabantwana bakhulileyo banokwabelana ngesithuba kunye nomzalwana okanye udade oseleyo.
Ukugqiba indlela okanye nini ukuseka iindawo zokulala ezihlukeneyo yinkinga ininzi abazali abajamelana nayo ngexesha elithile. Yonke intsapho iyahluke, kwaye zonke iisethi zeeplani zikwabelana ngesondlo esiyingqayizivele, ngoko ayikho ixesha elichanekileyo lokwenza utshintsho. Umda wezithuba zekhaya unokumisela impendulo yokugqibela, okanye ukuphindaphinda ngokwabo kunokubonisa ukhetho olwenza ukuba utshintshe. Nangona yonke intsapho iya kuba nexesha layo, kunezigaba eziliqela xa kuqhelekile ukuba zenze iindawo zokulala ezihlukeneyo.
Kwiminyaka emancinci, igumbi lokulala elibiweyo lingabangela ukuphazamiseka ngexesha lokulala, ngokukodwa xa abantwana beguquka bephuma kwiibhenqo baye kwiibhedi apho banganyuka khona nangaphandle. Ixesha le-Naptime liba yinto yokudlala xa kukho umntu ohlala egumbini!
Ngoko ke, abazali banokukhuthazwa ukuba bahlule i-multiples zabo ukwenzela ukukhuthaza ukuthula okukhulu.
Nangona kunjalo, abancinci bangaba nexhala kakhulu kulwahlulo; kunokuvakalelwa njengejeziso kunokuba lilungelo. Ubuninzi babo bobabili banokuthuthuzela, kwaye ukwahlukana kunokudala ukuphazamiseka okungakumbi.
Ukuba ukhetha ukubeka iindawo zokulala ezihlukeneyo zamathanga akho ezincinci, ixesha lokuhamba ngokunyamekileyo ukuphepha ukuphikisana nezinye iinguqu zokuphila, ezifana nokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi okanye ukuqala esikolweni.
Njengokuba iziphindaphinda zikhula, zinokukwazi ukuthetha zabo iimvakalelo kunye neminqweno. Yilapho abazali befuna ukufaka igalelo, bevumela ukuba abaphindaphindiweyo babonise ukhetho lwabo kwaye bahlale zabo izicelo njengoko zibona zifanelekile. Ukuqala isikolo kudla ngokuba yinto ebaluleke kakhulu yokuphindaphinda; bangaba ngamaqela ahlukeneyo okokuqala kwaye baqale ukuphuhlisa ubuni babo.
Iminyaka yesikolo ixesha eliqhelekileyo lokwenza utshintsho kumagumbi ahlukeneyo, ngokukodwa njengoko abafundi bafuna indawo yecala ukuba bafunde kwaye bafeze umsebenzi wesikolo. Ukuba iindawo zokulala ezihlukeneyo akunakwenzeka, abazali kufuneka bamele baqaphele ukubeka indawo nganye yeedesksi kumntwana ngamnye ukukhuthaza imikhwa emihle yokufunda.
Ukuseka umthwalo wemfanelo kunye nokuphendula ngabanye ngenye into ekhuthazayo yamagumbi ahlukeneyo. Enyanisweni, yiloo nto yintoni esenza isigqibo sokuhambisa amawele ami emagumbini abo. Sifumene kunzima ukukhuthaza ukucoca ngokubambisana kwegumbi labo lokulala; umonakalo ubehlala "ngodade" rhoqo kwaye kwakungekho ukukhazamiseka okungapheliyo kwizinto.
Emva kokuba bexhaswe emagumbini abo, bakufumene kulula ukugcina umkhondo wabo "izinto." Sifumene kulula kakhulu ukubamba i-akhawunti nganye ukugcinwa kwegumbi labo.
Nangona babe namagumbi abo malunga nonyaka ngoku, bakhetha ukulala ndawonye ngezikhathi ezithile. Bakuvuyela ubuhlobo, kwaye andinakucinga, ngokukhawuleza ukuba balala ngexesha. Iingqungqungquthela zabo kunye neentlongo zikhumbuza imihla yamandulo xa babelana intetho yabantwana baze baphonsa izilwanyana zabo ezifakwe kwi-cryb to crib.