Ukwamkela amawele emzimbeni wakho nakwiintsapho
Usuku sele lufikile! Amawele akho apha kwaye ulungele ukuwamkela ekhaya lakho nakwiintsapho. Ngexesha elide leenyanga zokukhulelwa, kusenokwenzeka ukuba kwakungathi le mzuzu ayiyi kuza. Ukuzikhupha okanye ukukhulelwa okuninzi kunokuxhatshazwa kunye nokukhathazeka malunga nantoni yonke ukusuka kwingxaki yemali ukuya kwiinkcenkcesha zezokwelapha ukuxelela amawele akho .
Ukukhulelwa kwakho kunokukhawulwa ngokufutshane ngomsebenzi wabasebenzi . Okanye ukuba ukuhlala kwakho kwamawele akulibaziseka iintsuku okanye iiveki ukuba bafuna ukuhlala esibhedlele okanye kwi- NICU ukuze babambe kwaye banqobe iingxaki zokuzalwa kwasekuqaleni.
Ngethemba, unako ukufunda eli nqaku ngexesha lokunceda kwaye unokuyilumkisa kwaye uphumelele ezinye zezinto ezibhekiswe apha. Ukuba akunjalo, kunjalo, kunjalo. Thatha umoya omeleyo kwaye wazi ukuba konke kuya kulungile. Unokufuna uncedo olungakumbi kwabanye, kodwa uya kutshintshela ebomini ngamamawele amnandi.
Izinto zokuQala kuqala
Kukho into enye - ngokuqinisekileyo, izinto ezimbini ezibini - ukuba kufuneka ube nazo nje ukuze ufumane ezo ntsana ekhaya. Ukuba uzisa ikhaya lakho lamamawele emotweni, uya kufuna izihlalo zeemoto ezivunyiwe kwiintsana ezihlangabezana nemigangatho yokhuseleko loluntu. Ukucacisa, uya kufuna enye yentsana, kwaye kunconywa ukuba uthenge le mveliso entsha, ukuqinisekisa ukuba abazange baphathwe kakubi ngokusetyenziswa kakubi okanye bonakaliswe ngengozi yangaphambili.
Kwakhona kufuneka bafake ngokufanelekileyo kwisithuthi sakho. Leyo ayiyona inkqubo yokwenza phantsi koxinzelelo, kunye neentsana zakho zilinde kwizinto xa uhamba nezibhanki zokuhlala emotweni. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, sebenzisa ixesha lokufaka izitulo zezimoto - ngokubhekiselele kumenzi wenkcazelo - ngaphambi kokuba kube nexesha lokuzisa iintsana ekhaya.
Unako nokuba nezihlalo zihlolwe ngumbono ukuze uqiniseke ukuba zifakwe kakuhle. Amasebe amaninzi asekuhlaleni omlilo kunye neeofisi zeeofri zinika le nkonzo. Ukutyelela iNdawo yeSizwe yoLawulo loKhuseleko loThutho kwi-National to find a specialist kufuphi nekhaya lakho.
Yenza ikhaya lakho lilungele
Xa uthetha ikhaya lakho, ngaba lungele iintsana? Kanye kunye neentsana ezitsha, kukho ezininzi izixhobo zobuntana oza kufuneka uzenzele ngazo. Nangona kunjalo, akudingeki ukuba uyenze yonke into ngokukhawuleza, kwaye akudingeki ukuba ube neyinto ephindwe kabini yezinto zonke ngenxa yokuba unamawele. Kukho izinto ezininzi abanokubelana ngazo, okanye basebenzise kwizigaba. Thatha ixesha lokuphanda ngaphambi kokuba uphume kwaye uphindwe kabili kuyo yonke into yokuthenga.
Ngoko yintoni efuna ukuba ilungele ngokukhawuleza?
Ukulala: Ewe, uya kufuna indawo yokuba iintsana zilale. Oku kusenokuba isikhalazo , okanye mhlawumbi kube yinto encinane kwangoko iintsana zilungele ukulala ezikhungweni zabo. Ezinye iintsapho zisebenzisa i-bassinettes, i-cribs eziphathekayo ezifana ne-Graco Pack 'n Play i-Portable Playard kunye namaTabhas Bassinet (qhathanisa amanani), iibhasiki zikaMoses, iziqu, okanye izihlalo zentsana. Ekugqibeleni, mhlawumbi ufuna ukufumana izibhedlele zeentsana, ukuze uqinisekise ukuba balala ngokukhuselekileyo kwaye banokuzithemba ngokusemandleni (kuba xa balele ngokuqinileyo, ulala ngokufanayo!)
Ukutya: ii- Highchairs zinokulinda. Iintsana zakho azikwazi ukuhlala kuzo kwiinyanga eziliqela, kodwa zithatha indawo eninzi. Kwiintsuku zokuqala, kuxhomekeke ekubeni unyuse ukuncelisa okanye ibhotile kukutya iintsana, ungadinga kuphela isihlalo esinomsocoko. Hlola ezi mphulo zokusondeza iintsana ezimbini ngexesha elifanayo ukukunceda ukuba ubone oko uza kulufuna.
Ukutshintsha i-Diapers: Ngaphandle kokutya nokulala, iintsana zakho ziyakwenza uninzi lwe-peeing and pooping kwiintsuku zokuqala. Kwaye uza kuchitha ixesha elininzi lokutshintsha i-diapers. Enoba ukhetha ukusebenzisa i- cloth okanye i-diapers elahlayo , kuya kufuneka ufumane isitoreji kwi-diapers kunye nezinto.
Kungaba nzima ukugweba ubungakanani bentsana yakho. Ukuba bazalwa ngokukhawuleza, banokuchitha ixesha elide kwiinyanga zokuqala. Kodwa iintsana nazo zikhula ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ziyakwazi ukunyuka ukuya kwi-diaper enkulu ngokukhawuleza kunokuba ucinge. Gcina ininzi yee-diapers ngesandla, kodwa ungagodli. Musa ukulibala malunga nokulahlwa kwe-diaper. Isitya se-diaper nge-odor control siya kugcina ikhaya lakho elimnandi, kodwa iintsapho ezininzi zifumanisa nje ukuba zilungele ukuphosa iifowuni ezingcolileyo kwiingxowa zeplastiki.
Khawucinge ngendlela oza kuhlala ngayo kwikhaya lakho njengoko unakekela abantwana. Iintsapho ezininzi zifumana kukunceda ukusekela iinkalo zengingqi kulo lonke indlu, kunokuhlala kuphela kwii-nursery. Umzekelo, ukuba ikhaya lakho liphezulu, ungase ufune ukuseka indawo yokuba iintsana zilale kumgangatho ngamnye, kunye nesitishi esitshintshileyo, ukuze ungasebenzisi yonke imini ekhuphukayo kunye nezitezantsi.
Uncedo lweNqakrazo
Xa unakekela ezimbini iintsana ngexesha elifanayo, kunzima ukuzenza yedwa. Kukho ezimbini, kwaye unezandla ezimbini kuphela. Ngaphambi kokuba ulethe iintsana zakho ekhaya, cinga ngohlobo luni loncedo oluya kulufuna.
Ungesabi ukucela uncedo. Eli akusixesha lokudlala umfel 'ukholo kwaye uzama ukuxanduva lomthwalo kuwe. Phantse wonk 'ubani ujongene nokuncedisa ngeli xesha elikhethekileyo lobomi bakho, ngoko gcina uluhlu lwabo banikeza uncedo, kwaye uthabathe kuyo.
Yibani ngokucacileyo kwizicelo zakho zoncedo. Kudinga ukutya? Iimpazamo zigijima? Ukunyamekela abantwana kubantwana bakhulileyo? Ukunakekelwa kwezilwanyana? Okanye umntu ukuba abambe umntwana omnye xa usondla omnye? Yithi njalo, ngokubhekiselele kwinto enokusebenza ngayo intsapho yakho. Kwezinye iindwendwe, uncedo lobugcisa oluvela kumcebisi we-lactation, umhlengikazi wobusuku, okanye inkonzo yokucoca ikhetha ukuthetha kakuhle kodwa abathandekayo abathandekayo.
Izinto oza kuziqwalasela
Ekugqibeleni, nakhu ezinye izinto oza kuziqwalasela njengoko uzisa umntwana wakho amawele ama-twins ukusuka esibhedlele.
- Iintsana zakho zingenakubuya ekhaya kunye. Ukuba umntu unenkxalabo enkulu yonyango emva kokuzalwa, omnye umntwana unokulungele ukuhamba esibhedlele yedwa. Oku kubonakala kukukhathazayo, kodwa ngeendlela ezithile, kunokuba kube lula ukulungiswa. Ukunyamekela olunye usana ngexesha elininzi iintsuku kunokukunika ithuba lokubamba umoya wakho.
- Ukucwangcisa abantwana ngekhaya lakho kunokulinda. Iintsana zakho aziyi kuhamba kunye nokugubungela ngamagumbi endlu yakho ngeenyanga ezimbalwa. Kodwa ungalindi kude kube sekwephuzile. Uyazi igama elidala, "Ukhuselekile kunokuba uxolo." Emva kokuba abantwana bakho bafike, uxakekile! Ixesha linciphile, ngoko ke zizinikezele ekuphumezeni amanyathelo okukhusela abantwana ngaphambi kokuba abantwana bazalwe, okanye kwezinye iinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala.
- Ukuba iintsana zakho zizalelwa ngaphambi kokudala okanye zifuna iimfuno ezizodwa, unokubambisana nemiba yezokwelapha ngaphezu kweemfuno eziqhelekileyo zokunakekelwa kosana. Sebenza ngokusondeleyo nabaxhasi bakho bezonyango ukuze bafunde iinkqubo ezifanelekileyo zokutya, ukulawula amayeza, okanye ukujonga ukuphefumla.
- Zininzi iintsana ezincinci kunezinye zazo. Ungamangaliswa ukuba zonke ezo zifowuni ezincinci ezifunyenwe njengezipho azifaki ngokukhawuleza, nangona zikhulu zintsana. Amanye amawele, nokuba ngaba azalwa ngo-36 okanye kwi-37 yeveki yamaxesha, azincinci ekuzalweni kwaye angadinga iimpahla eziphambili zeeveki okanye iinyanga ezimbalwa, ade akhule aze athathe.
- Sebenza kwishedyuli . Ishedyuli esilungileyo nantoni na eyenzela wena kunye neentsana zakho, kodwa abaninzi abazali bayavuma ukuba kulula ukugcina iintsana zombini kwishedyuli efanayo ukuze badle baphinde balele ngexesha elifanayo.
- Yazi iintsana zakho. Ukuba unenkathazo yokubalula, zama ezi zinto . Kubonakala kudideka, kodwa uya kumangaliswa ngokukhawuleza ukwazi ukwahlula ukukhala kwabo kunye nobuntu babo.