Yazi into oyifunayo kwiNgqungquthela yomzali / ootitshala
Xa ucinga malunga noko umntanakho akwenzayo ngosuku olusesikweni sokufundela - ukupenda, ukudlala ukucula, ukufunda, ukutya ukutya okungafunekiyo - unokubuza ukuba kutheni ootitshala be-school school babambelele kwiinkomfa zabazali / titshala.
Ungase uzibuze, "Yintoni na ukuba sinokuba khona ukuba sithethe ngazo? Umntwana wam akakwazi ukubala kumqolo?" Nangona oko kungenjalo okanye kungenjalo, iincinferensi zabazali / zothisha ngokwenene ziyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yenkwenkwezi yengane yakho.
Ukubaluleka koMzali / kwiinkomfa zootitshala
Xa udibana nomfundisi wesikolo sakho sasekuqaleni, uya kufunda ezininzi malunga nomncinci wakho, ukusuka kwamandla akhe kunye nobuthathaka kwizinto azithandayo zokudlala kunye nendlela asebenzisana ngayo namanye abantwana. Ngaba uyazibuza ukuba yintoni eqhubekayo eklasini yokufundela? Le yithuba lakho lokufumana! Cinga ngenkomfa yomzali / kwintlanganiso yothisha njengamahlo kunye neendlebe kwihlabathi ukuba awunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi inxalenye ye.
Ukulungiselela iNgqungquthela yabazali / yootitshala
Ngoko ngoku ukuba uyazi ukubaluleka kwezi ntlobo zentlanganiso, unomsebenzi wesikolo wokwenza. Nantsi indlela yokulungela kunye nohlu lwemibuzo onokuyicinga ukubuza utitshala wakho.
- Lungela. Ngaphambi kokuba ungene kumncinci womzali / uthisha wengqungquthela, bhala uluhlu lwemibandela kunye neengxaki ozifumanayo, nokuba ngaba zifundo, ezentlalontle, okanye kunye nesiganeko esithile esenzeke eklasini. Ingcamango enhle kwakhona, ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza nomntwana wakho. Ingaba uyathanda ukufunda esikolweni? Iyintoni inxalenye ayithandayo? Yintoni engayithandiyo? Bhala konke phantsi ukuze ungalibali. Leli thuba elihle lokufumana ixesha kunye nanye kunye notitshala womntwana wakho oza kugxininisa kuphela kumncinci wakho ukuze ungafuni ukulahlekelwa. Yizisa ipenethi kunye nephepha kunye nawe, ukuze ukwazi ukuthatha amanqaku xa uxoxa.
- Yiba nomoya ovulekile. Wonke umntu ufuna ukuva izinto ezilungileyo ngomntwana wakhe, kodwa into yokuba, ukuba umntwana akaphelelanga. Ukuba uthisha wakho onokufunda esikolweni uthetha into engayi kuba yinkinga-nokuba ingaba yinkqubo yokuziphatha okanye nokuba uthini ucinga ukuba ingaba ukulibaziseka kwentetho okanye olunye ulibaziseko lokuphuhliswa , phulaphula oko akutshoyo uze uqale ukusebenza kunye kunye nesicwangciso senzo. Ukuba udinga ixesha lokucingisisa, yithetha njalo, ubone ukuba utitshala ufumaneka ngelo xesha. Khumbula injongo efanayo ukukunceda umntwana wakho aphumelele kwaye uthisha wasesikolweni angasenza indima enkulu kuloo nto.
- Fumana iinkcukacha ezithile. Ukuba utitshala uthatha ukuba umntwana wakho unenkathazo yokudibanisa eklasini, mcele ukuba akunike iinkcukacha ezithile. Uya kuba nombono ongcono wezinto ezenzekayo, kwaye unokukwazi ukubonelela ngengqiqo ethile ukuba unokukunika iziganeko ezinzulu. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho uphendule umntu ofunda naye naye ekilasini ngoLwesithathu odlulileyo, usenokukhumbula ubusuku ngaphambi kokuya kulala emva koko kwaye wayenomdla kakhulu xa evuka ekuseni.
- Nika iinkcukacha. Ukunxibelelana ngokwenene kuyindlela yesitalato kwaye ayinakudlula. Ukuba kukho into eyenzekayo ekhaya - ukuzalwa komntakwabo omtsha , ukuhamba, umtshato, ukufa kwintsapho - ngokuqinisekileyo mvumele utitshala azi oko kwenzekayo. Yaye yinyani ukuba ngaba ungaphakathi kwenkomfa yothisha okanye akunjalo. Nangona umntwana wakho ehamba kakuhle ekhaya, iziganeko zobomi ezifana nale nto zinokuchaphazela ukuziphatha komntwana.
- Yiza ngecebo lomdlalo. Ekupheleni kwenkomfa, qiniseka ukuba uyazi ukuba ziphi na amanyathelo alandelayo (ukuba kukho) kwaye yintoni enye indlela efanelekileyo yokunxibelelana notitshala womntwana wakho - ifowuni, i-imeyile, emva kwesikolo, njl. Ukuba utitshala ubonise ukuba kufuneka unolwazi olungakumbi, fumana ukuba uza kukufumana nini naxa unako kwaye kufuneka ulandele.
Imibuzo emihlanu yoMfundisi weNtsapho yaseNtsapho
Kungenzeka ukuba ezininzi iinkxalabo okanye iimbuzo ziya kuphendulwa kwinkomfa ngokwayo, kodwa ukuba utitshala ufuna ukwazi ukuba unento enye ebhekiswe kuyo, cinga ukubuza le mibuzo:
- Yintoni umntwana endiyithandayo eklasini?
- Ziziphi amandla zam abantwana kunye nobuthathaka? Landela: Ndingenza ntoni ekhaya ukuze ndincede ndisebenze kuyo nayiphi na indawo efuna ukuqiniswa?
- Ngaba uyayibona nayiphi na imiba yokuphuhliswa komntwana wam ubudala?
- Umntwana wam unxibelelana njani nabanye abantwana?
- Umntwana wam uya kufunda ntoni kulo nyaka?