Ngaba Ngaba Unomdla Wokuthi I-Tween Yakho okanye Intsha Yakho I-Sexting?
I-Sexting ithumela imilayezo ecacileyo ngesondo, iifoto, okanye ividiyo ngefowuni, ikhomputha, okanye nayiphina ifowuni. I-Sexting iquka iifoto kunye namavidiyo aqukethe ubunqunu okanye ukubonisa okanye ukulinganisa izenzo zesondo. Kwakhona kubandakanya imiyalezo yesicatshulwa exoxa okanye ephakamisa izenzo zesondo.
Njengoko intsha kunye nabantwana baqhubela phambili ukuthwala iifowuni kunye nokusebenzisa iipilisi, imidiya yoluntu, ii-apps, kunye nemilayezo, ingozi abaza kuyithumela okanye yokufumana umxholo ocacileyo ngokwesini uye wabaxhalaba ngabazali, ootitshala kunye nokuthotyelwa komthetho.
Ubuninzi bokuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo ye-sub-youth kunye nabantwana yinto yokuqhubela phambili isifundo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenziwa njengehlaya, indlela yokuqwalasela, okanye ukudlala ngothando.
Oku akusiyo into into yokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza, kodwa kuyinkxalabo ofuna ukuyiqwalasela ngokuxoxa phakathi kwakho okanye umntwana wakho-ngakumbi xa banokufikelela kwi-intanethi okanye bafumane i-smartphone yabo yokuqala.
Kutheni kuthunyelwa i-Txting Problem?
Ifoto ekwabelwana phakathi kwabantu ababini inokukhawuleza ibe yintsholongwane yentsholongwane. Umntwana unokukholelwa ukuba uya kugcinwa ngasese aze abone oko kwabelwana ngokubanzi kunye neontanga zabo, ngamanye amaxesha nemiphumo embi. Ezi zibandakanya ukuboshwa kwentsha abaye babelane ngezithombe zabo okanye ezinye iintsholongwane zentsha kunye nokuzibulala kwabaselula abanesithombe esabelana ngazo.
Iingongoma ezibalulekileyo zabaNtsha kunye nabazali Ngokuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo yokuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo
- Iifoto kunye neevidiyo ezithunyelwe ngasese zingabelana ngokulula nabanye, nangona usebenzisa i-apps ezithembisa ubumfihlo kwaye imifanekiso iya kususwa emva kancinane.
- Emva kokuba imifanekiso yezedijithali ziphuma apho, ziphuma kwi-digital footprint, ngakumbi kwi-intanethi. Awukwazi "ukuwubuyisela." Ukususa iposi okanye umyalezo akusikho ukhuseleko kulona sele lufunyenwe, lukopishwe, kwaye luthunyelwe kwabanye.
- Isiqingatha sentombazana yesantombazana icacisa ingcinezelo kubafana njengesizathu sokuthumela imilayezo ecacileyo, ngelixa i-18 ekhulwini yabantwana abaselula bethetha ukuba baxinzelele amantombazana. Oku kukukhathazeka apho kukho kakade ukungalingani kwamandla kulwalamano okanye ingxaki ngokuzithemba. Abafana abanako ukuqonda ukuba, ngokwenene, ukunyanzela amantombazana.
- Ukuthunyelwa kwe-Sexting kunokuwa phantsi komthetho we-pornographic child pornography, kunye nokutshutshiswa komntwana osithumelayo okanye owamkelayo, kunye nabazali abakuvumelayo. Imithetho kaRhulumente iyaqhubeka kwaye ezinye zithi zineengqiqo kunye nokuqonda ngokubanzi kwindlela ekutshutshiswa ngayo nokuba ingaba yinto ekhohlakeleyo, ukuchasana, okanye ulwaphulo oluncinane.
Yintoni Abazali Bangayenza Ngokuthumela I-Sexting?
Indlela efanelekileyo yokuthetha ngokuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo yokuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo yokuthumela i-imeyli kukuba kuthathe umgwebo kunye nolwazi. Ukugcina ingxoxo ivule igumbi lokuba abantwana bakho bakhulume nawe kunokuba bafihle izinto ngaphandle. Khumbula ukuba igama elithi "ukuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo yokuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo" yenziwe ngophicilelo. Abantwana banokuba negama elihlukile. Zama ezinye iinkcukacha zokuqala zengxoxo ukuze uphule iqhwa:
- "Ngaba uyivile malunga nale nto yokuthumela i-post? Uyazi na into?"
- "Ndandibukela iTV / ndifunda iindaba ngolunye usuku ndize ndibone ibali malunga nabanye abantwana abafumana ingxaki ekuthumeni [sebenzisa igama lakho apha-ukucebisa, u-sexy, uhamba, njl.] Imifanekiso kubangani. Ngaba uvile malunga ? "
- "Ngaba sinokuthetha ngeentlobo zezinto wena nabahlobo bakho onjengezokwabelana nge-intanethi? Ndifuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba uzikhathalele kwaye ukhangelele nabahlobo bakho, ngokunjalo."
Esikhundleni sokukhokela incoko, qiniseka ukuba uphulaphule i-middle / teen yakho.
Basenokungavumelani nawe malunga noko kwaye akufanelekanga kwaye unokuba nezizathu ezinyanzelisayo. Ukubanceda bacinge ngemiphumo ebonakalayo yokuziphatha kwabo kunye nomfanekiso wabo bona bafuna ukubonisa kwilizwe enye indlela yokubakhuthaza ukuba bafike kwizigqibo zabo.