Indlela ongakhetha ngayo ukuba ubeke uluhlu lwakho lweziphumo
Abantwana abaneminyaka esikolweni bayathanda ukufumana umvuzo-kwaye bayakuzonda ukulahlekelwa. Yingakho into elula njengamacwecwe angaba nezixhobo ezinamandla ekuqondiseni abantwana ngaphandle kweengxaki zokuziphatha kunye nokwenza ukhetho olungcono kwixesha elizayo. Ngokufanayo, ukwazi ukuba kukho imiphumo yokuziphatha kakubi-izinto abangenayo, njengokulahlekelwa kweTV okanye ixesha lezemidlalo ye-video-ingaba yinto enamandla yokufundisa abantwana .
Ezinye izinto ukugcina engqondweni njengoko udala uluhlu lweziphumo:
- Khumbula ukuba uhambe kunye nokuqhuma xa kufike kwizinto eziqhubekayo uluhlu lwakho lweziphumo. Oko kusebenza ngexesha elinye akunakusebenza phantsi komgca (abantwana bahlala beguqula iingcinga zabo malunga nomsebenzi okanye ithoyiyishini, bathanda into ababeyisebenzisayo kunye nokungafani). Kwaye akukho noluhlu lweempembelelo ezichanekileyo olusebenza kuzo zonke iintsapho-umntwana ngamnye uhluke kakhulu kwiminqweno eyahlukeneyo kunye nokukhetha. Eyona nto: Uyazi umntanakho mkhulu-cinga ngezinto ezinokumkhuthaza njengoko wenza uluhlu lwakho lwemiphumo okanye umvuzo.
- Khumbula ukulinganisela imiphumo ngokukhuthaza, okanye umvuzo. Njengokuba kukho imiphumo yokuziphatha kakubi, kufuneka kubekho uluhlu lwembuyekezo yokuziphatha kakuhle okanye ukuphucula. Inxalenye ebalulekileyo yokuqeqesha ifundisa abantwana indlela yokuzilawula, kwaye abakhuthazayo banokunceda abantwana bafune ukufikelela ezi njongo. Ngokomzekelo, awuyi kuhlala ukhona ukuba umkhumbuze ukuba angalwe nomzalwana wakhe kunokuzama ukuphikisana naye ngokuthula; Isihluthulelo kukuba ukhumbula ukulawula umsindo wakhe aze azibonakalise ngamazwi ngendlela ehloniphekileyo. Ngoko ukuba ufunda indlela yokutshintsha indlela yakhe yokuziphatha, uthi, ukulwa nomncinane nomntakwabo, unokwenza usebenze uluhlu lwembuyekezo, njengexesha elongezelelweyo lemidlalo yexesha okanye ixesha elide lokudlala kunye nabahlobo.
- Musa nje ukuthembela kwimiphumo. Indlela eyona nto ukucinga ngokuziphatha kwabafundi kukucinga ukuba usebenzisa usebenzisa iindlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo ngokukhawuleza ukufezekisa injongo ekugqibeleleyo: Ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba enze ukhetho olungcono kwaye aziphathe ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ngoko ukongeza kwimiphumo, khumbula ukuba uza kusebenzisa ezinye izixhobo ezifana nokuphuma kwexesha , uxoxe nomntwana wakho ngokuqinileyo kodwa uzinzile, kwaye ubeka imizekelo emihle ukuba umntwana wakho alandele.
- Musa ukwenza umphumo ude kakhulu. Njengoko ukuphuma kwexesha akufanele kube lide kakhulu kubantwana abaneminyaka esikolweni, ixesha apho umphumo uthatha isenzo akufanele kube ngaphezu kweentsuku ezimbini okanye ezintathu, kuxhomekeke kubukhulu becala.
- Musa ukuphindaphinda kwimiphumo. Ukuthatha ixesha lonke leskrini kwaye yonke ixesha lokudlala kunye nabahlobo mhlawumbi ligqithise kwaye ngeke lifundise umntwana wakho ngokukhawuleza. Ngaphandle kokuba umntwana wakho enze into enzulu kakhulu-ngokuzibambela kwaye eqhubeka ehlunguza umntakwenu okanye ngokungahloneli ngokuphindaphindiweyo-kunika umphumo omnye ngexesha.
- Sula i-slate ecocekileyo kunye neenkwenkwezi ngaphezulu. Xa umntwana wakho enza ixesha lolwaphulo-mthetho lwakhe, hlaziya yonke into ukuze aqale utsha. Mxelele ukuba ufanele akhumbule oko kwenzekayo kwaye kutheni, kwaye awuyi kunqikaza ukumnika esinye isiphumo xa ephinda alahlekise. Kodwa mqinisekisile ukuba uyaqiniseka ukuba uya kukukhumbula okukhethayo okungcono ukwenza ixesha elizayo, kwaye mxelele ukuba uyayicinga loo nto yangaphambili.
Yintoni ekufuneka ubeke uludwe lweZiphumo
Eminye imizekelo yezinto onokufuna ukuyifaka uluhlu lwemiphumo ziquka:
- Akukho mihla yokudlala kunye nabahlobo. Abantwana abakhulileyo esikolweni bahlakulela izakhono zentlalo, kwaye baninzi bechitha ixesha elide bebahlobo kunye nokwenza abahlobo . Bayakuthanda ukudlala imihla, kwaye bayayithiya ingcamango yantoni na yokunciphisa inani elifunekayo lokuchitha kunye nabahlobo baxhomeke ngaphandle, badlale imidlalo yevidiyo okanye baqhube ngaphandle ngaphandle.
- Akukho sikrini. Ukunciphisa ixesha lesikrini yinto esimele siyenze sonke (abazali kunye nezingane ngokufanayo). Ukusuka kwi- scbbing (ekhangela izikrini zefowuni kunokuba sibe ngokugcwele nabantu esibabathandayo) ukujonga i-TV ngokunyanisekileyo ukujonga i-imeyile okanye izithuba zoononophelo loluntu, bobabini abadala kunye nezingane kufuneka zinciphise inani elichitha ixesha elichithwayo kwiinkcukacha. Kodwa ixesha leskrini liyingxenye yobomi bethu, kwaye abaninzi abantwana banokulinganisa i-TV, imidlalo yevidiyo kunye nexesha lefowuni kunye nexesha elingenanto yesikrini kunye noncedo lwabazali. Kodwa unqunyulwe ngokupheleleyo? Oku kuya kuba yiphumo elibi ukuba akukho mntwana oneminyaka engama-1000 ubudala onokuyifuna, kwaye into enamandla kunye nenempumelelo ngokwenene kwimiphumo yeziphumo zezingane.
- Imisebenzi eyongezelelweyo. Ukwenza imisebenzi kufuneka ube yinxalenye yenkqubo yomntwana ngamnye. Iimisebenzi zifundisa abantwana ukuba baphathe uxanduva kwaye banikeze ingqiqo yokufezekisa , phakathi kwezinye izibonelelo. Kodwa kufuneka wenze imisebenzi eyongezelelweyo ngenxa yokuziphatha okubi? Akukho mntwana ofuna oko, ngoko ukwenza oku kulandelwe ithuluzi eluncedo.
- Ukulahlekelwa ilungelo. Liliphi ilungelo eliya kuxhomekeka kwintsapho yakho. Umntwana wakho unokulahlekelwa ithuba lokukhetha oko intsapho yakho iya kuba nayo isidlo sakusihlwa, okanye yiyiphi umdlalo webhodi oza kudlala ngobusuku bemidlalo yentsapho. Okanye unokulahlekelwa ngumjikelo wakhe wokukhetha ukuba yiyiphi i-movie oza kuyibukela kunye nobusuku bobushushu beentsapho . Naluphi na ilungelo, abantwana abaneminyaka esikolweni bayakuzonda ukulahlekelwa ithuba labo.
- Akukho ukufikelela kwidlali yokudlala okanye umsebenzi. Umntwana wakho unokuthanda iLosos okanye i-Minecraft okanye ukwenza i-bracelets ye-Rainbow Loom. Isongelo sokuba nenanto ayithandayo kakhulu ngoku ngokukhawuleza, ingaba ngumgqugquzeli wamandla wokubamba umntwana wakho ekuziphatheni kakuhle.