Izakhono zentlalo ebalulekileyo kwibakala lesithathu alinxulumani kuphela kubahlobo kunye noxinzelelo lwabaontanga kodwa nakwimfundo enzulu ngokumalunga nomntwana uya kuba nalo nyaka . Abathungisi abathathu baqala ukubheka ukufunda njengendlela yokuxuba umsebenzi ozimeleyo, amava okufunda okukhokelwayo kunye nokusebenza kunye njengeqela. Ukuba nezakhono zentlalo ukuhamba kuzo zonke ezi zinto zenze ukuba inkqubo ilula kakhulu.
Izakhono zokuCinga
Kwinqanaba lesithathu, abantwana baqala ukucinga ngendlela ehleleke ngakumbi. Kwinqanaba lokuqala kunye nelibini kwibakala, umntwana wakho waqala ukudibanisa iziphumo - zombini ezithembekileyo nezibi - kwizenzo zakhe. Kwinqanaba lesithathu, ukukwazi ukubona umfanekiso omkhulu kunye nokucwangcisa imisebenzi emininzi esekelwe kwisiphumo esicatshangwayo kuya kumnceda xa eqala umsebenzi omninzi kunjengeeprojekthi okanye ixesha elide, iingxaki zeematriki ezininzi.
UkuCelwa okuKhuselekileyo kunye neNgxelo efanelekileyo
Abathungisi abathathu abakwazi ukuhlola kuphela amandla abo kodwa banakho ukuqala ukugxeka ubuchule beontanga ngendlela evulela umnyango weempendulo ezilungileyo kunokuba nje ugxeke. Olu buchule lubalulekile kuba inkqubo yokubhala iba yinkcazo ngakumbi kulo nyaka, umntwana wakho uya kuba nenxaxheba kwiindibano zocweyo zokubhaliweyo apho uya kulindeleka ukuba aziphulaphule kwaye enze iziphakamiso ngamabali akhe.
Ukukwazi ukubonisa oko ubona njengabanye abantu amandla kunye naluphi utshintsho oluthile olungayenza ukuphucula luya kumnceda ahambe ngaphaya kwempendulo yokumamela: "Ndiyithande."
Ukuqonda okuBantu abathathu
Kwinqanaba lesithathu, abantwana baqonda ukuba abanye abantu abagcini nje babone izenzo zabo namava.
Ikhono lezentlalo yinto ebaluleke kakhulu ebalulekileyo kubafundi besikolo esiphakathi. Umzuzu apho umntwana wakho eqala ukuqonda ukuba abanye abantu baneencoko zengaphakathi kunye nendlela abaziphendulela ngayo kwizinto eziqhubekayo kuzo zixa umntwana wakho ekulungele ukwenza izigqibo ezivuthiweyo kunye nobuhlobo obunzulu.
Ukuqonda ukuba abanye abantu bayamqonda njani kunokunyanzela ukuphumelela, kodwa kunokukwenza ukuba akwazi ukunyanzeliswa yontanga kunye nokungaqiniseki, ngoko kubalulekile ukuba ukhangele kunye nomntwana wakho imihla ngemihla ukuze ubone indlela acinga ngayo izinto ziya esikolweni.
Ubonisa iNinzi yeeMvakalelo
Abalingisi besithathu baqala ukubonisa uluhlu olubanzi lweemvakalelo (kungekhona nje umsindo, ovuyayo okanye obuhlungu) kwaye banako ukuvakalisa loo mvakalelo ngendlela efanelekileyo yoluntu. Kwinqanaba lesithathu, ukulindela kwezemfundo kunzima kakhulu kunokuba babekho kwibakala lesibili kwaye banokubangela ukuphazamiseka okanye iimvakalelo zokungafaneleki. Ukukwazi ukuveza ukukhungatheka, ukudideka okanye ukuzingca ngundoqo kukucela uthisha ukuba ancede xa kufuneka.
Uyakwamkela kwaye ufaka isicelo sokuphendula
Kwibanga lesithathu, abantwana bayamkela impendulo ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye bazimisele ukwenza utshintsho luphakanyisiwe. Ukongezelela ukuba uceliwe ukuba uhlalutye umsebenzi woontanga, umntwana wakho uya kucelwa ukuba amkele ingxelo yengontanga yomsebenzi wakhe.
Lobu buchule bubalulekile kokubili kwindawo yokufunda ukuze akwazi ukuva ingxelo ngokwenene njengendlela yokumnceda, nakwibala lezentlalo, apho unokunceda umntwana wakho agcine kwaye asebenze ubuhlobo besikhathi eside ngokuchasene ukuphosa umhlobo emva kwengxabano.