Amanqaku okuthetha nabaselula
Kunokukhathazeka xa ukhubazela ukuba umntwana wakho uhlala engenazifundo zakhe. Enoba akakhathazi ukufunda okanye unokunyamekela ngemisebenzi yasekhaya, ukukhululeka kakhulu ngamabanga akhe kunokuba yingxaki.
Xa uthetha nomntwana wakho kumabakala , kunokusilingela ukuxoxa ngeengozi zeengxaki zemfundo. Kodwa qhiphukisa amaqhinga anjengawe, "Awuze ungene kwikholejini," okanye "Awunakufumana umsebenzi omhle," akunakwenzeka ukuba usebenze.
Thetha ngeenzuzo zokufumana amabakala amahle kunoko. Nika imizekelo yokuphila kwangempela eya kukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba afundwe nzima namhlanje. Nazi iintlobo ezintlanu ongasisebenzisa ukuqaqa intetho yakho nentombazana yakho:
1. Amabanga amaBakala angakhokelela kwiiSholarship
Iikholeji kunye neekomiti zokubhalisana nazo ziya kuhlolisisa imibhalo yakho yabantwana . Amabanga angcono, amanqaku aphezulu ovavanyo kunye nokubandakanyeka kwimisebenzi eyahlukahlukeneyo kunokunceda umntwana wakho athole imali engakumbi kwiikholeji.
Thetha kwintsapho yakho malunga neengxaki zemali mboleko. Xoxa ngendlela ama-scholarships angabancedisa ngayo iindleko. Xoxa ngendlela ityala lomfundi elichaphazela ngayo elizayo ikusasa lakho, ukuya kuma-30s.
Ngelishwa, abaninzi abaphumelele kwiikholeji abakwazi ukuwamkela imisebenzi yabo yephupha kuba abanako ukukwazi ukwenza njalo. Kunoko, kufuneka bathathe imisebenzi eya kubanceda bafumane iindleko zeekhredithi zenyanga nganye zekholeji.
2. Iikholeji zeBakala eziMnandi zokuNandipha amathuba
Abafundi abafumana amabakala amahle banikezwa amathuba kwizikolo eziphakamileyo ngokusebenzisa iinkqubo ezifana neNational Defence Society.
Thetha ngeemeko ezahlukahlukeneyo ukuba umfundi wakho angakwazi ukuthatha inxaxheba xa efumana amabakala amahle.
Umcebisi wakho wesikolo unokwazi ukunika umntwana wakho ulwazi malunga nokuphumelela kwemfundo kunye namathuba afika ngamabakala amahle. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuva komntu ngaphandle kwakho kunokunceda ukuqinisa umyalezo wakho.
Ngoko ungesabi ukukhuthaza intombazana yakho ukuba iqalise ingxoxo kunye nomcebisi.
3. AmaBakala angcono avule uMnyango kwiiNtsuku ezizayo
Ukuba umntwana wakho uzama ukwenza kakuhle nakweyiphi na ebekwe phambi kwabo, uya kuba namathuba amaninzi emisebenzi. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi abaselula abakuboni ukuba kufuneka benze kakuhle esikolweni.
Ngamanye amaxesha bathi izinto ezinje, "Ndiza kuthenga." Andiyi kulufuna i-geometry, "okanye" Ndiya emkhosini.
Yenza kucacile ukuba nangona ezo zinto ziyinyaniso, kunokubakho amaxesha apho amabakala akho asetsheni ayenomsebenzi. Unokufuna ukuya kwikholeji ngelinye ilanga okanye unokufaka isicelo somsebenzi apho iimpendulo zakhe ziya kuhlolwa. Cacisa ukuba kubalulekile ukugcina amathuba amaninzi avulekayo njengoko kunokwenzeka ukuba angatshintsha ingqondo yakhe ngolunye usuku.
4. I-GPA ephezulu inokuthi ikhokele ebomini boBomi boLuntu
Abafundi abanenkathalo ngamabanga abo baya kuhlonishwa kootitshala babo kunye neontanga zabo. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi abaselula banenkxalabo yokuba amabakala amahle aya kubangela ukuba bajongwe njenge "nerd."
Thetha kwintsapho yakho ngabantu abaphumeleleyo abaphumelele esikolweni esikolweni esiphakeme. Yenza kucacise ukuba abantu abanamabakala afanelekileyo abaselula baya rhoqo ukwenza izinto ezintle kwixesha elizayo.
Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba achithe ixesha kunye nabahlobo abathandayo amabakala.
Abahlobo abanokukhathalela ngamabanga abo baya kuchitha ixesha elide lokufunda nokuya esikolweni kwaye baya kukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba enze okufanayo. Kuya kuba nzima ukuba umntwana wakho ahlale emgceni ukuba akukho nabani na abahlobo bakhe abenza umsebenzi wesikolo.
5. AmaBakala amaBakala angakhuthaza intsha yakho yokuThembela
Ngamanye amaxesha, abatsha bayesaba ukuzama ngamandla kuba besaba ukungaphumeleli. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uzimisele ukuzinikela ngokusemgangathweni. Eyona nto iyenzayo, uyaqiniseka ukuba uya kuba .
Xa umntwana wakho ebona ukuba umzamo wakhe ukhokelela kumabanga angcono, uya kukhuthazwa ukuba aqhubeke nomsebenzi omhle. Kwakhona kunokumlungiselela uxanduva lwabantu abadala.
Igama elivela kwi-Verywell
Ekugqibeleni, awukwazi ukunyanzelisa umntwana wakho ukuba athole amabakala angcono. Kodwa unako ukubeka imithetho malunga nomsebenzi wesikolo, ukudala iziphumo zomsebenzi wexesha elide kwaye unikeze umvuzo onokumkhuthaza ukuba azame kanzima. Ekugqibeleni, kuya kwintombazana yakho ukugqiba ukuba ibakala elibaluleke kangakanani kuye.