Ngaba ufanele usebenze ngokukhawuleza?
Njengoko ukukhulelwa kwakho kuphelile, unokuzibuza xa kufuneka ushiye umsebenzi wakho kwaye uqale ikhefu lokubeleka. Ngaba ufanele usebenze kude kube ngumhla ofunekayo? Mhlawumbi uhlala ude ufikelele? Ingaba impendulo eyodwa efanelekileyo?
Ndizenzele zona zombini iindlela. Ndiyeke ukusebenza kwiiveki ngaphambi kokuba umntwana wami azalwe, ephupha ukuhamba okude, amabhati kunye ne-naps nanini na imini kunye neeyure ezide ezithatyathwa kwiindawo zokubeletha zilungele.
Ukujika kwaba ngaphezulu kwithuba lokuba abantu bandicinezele kwaye ndibe nexhala kunanoma yini enye. Ngoko ndiye ndasebenza kwaze kwaba yilapho ndazala kabini. Emva kokuba ndikhulelwe ngamawele. Ndaya emsebenzini ngoMsombuluko waza ndazalela ngoMgqibelo, ngeentsuku ezingama-40 ezedlulileyo. Emva koko, ndaya emsebenzini, kungekhona ekusebenzeni kwaye ndagijimela ekhaya phakathi kweentsasa ukuba ndibe nosana emva kweeyure ezimbalwa.
Ayikho impendulo efanelekileyo kumbuzo wokuba ushiye nini ukusebenza. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iminye imibuzo emva kokuba ukhangele iimpendulo, ungase ufunde ngokulula ngakumbi into efanelekileyo kuwe:
- Ukukhulelwa kwakho kuhamba njani ?
Ukuba ufumana ukukhulelwa okuphezulu , njengamawele okanye ezinye izixazululo zokukhulelwa ezinjenge-preterm sebenzi , unokufuna ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza, kungekudala. Wena kunye nogqirha wakho okanye umbelethisi kufuneka uxoxe ngezinto eziphilileyo kuwe nakumntwana wakho okanye iintsana. - Unayo ikhefu elingakanani lokubeleka?
Ukuba unayo iiveki ezintandathu zexesha, ukuyeka umsebenzi wakho ngaphambi okanye ngomhla wakho wokugqibela , uya kuhlawula iwashi ngexesha apho ungekho umntwana wakho. Ukuba uhamba ngeveki ezimbini, ezikushiya iiveki ezine kuphela umntwana wakho. Akunakho ukudala ngokwaneleyo ukuqala unonophelo lomhla, ukuba uceba ukubuyela emsebenzini, ngoko unokuphelisa ukuthatha iiveki ezimbini zekhefu elingakhokhelwa.
- Yintoni oya kuyenza ngexesha?
Ndithembele kum, akukho nto embi nje ngokuba uhleli ngeenxa zonke ukutshintshisa izithupha zakho zilindele umntwana. Ukuba uyasusa kwaye umntwana engabikho, unokufumanisa ukuba uyazibhokoxa ngenxa yezinyembezi kwaye ezinokubangela uxinzelelo kunokuba usebenze. - Uziva njani?
Ukuba unemiba yokulala, ukuvuvukala kunye nentlungu xa uhlala ixesha elide, unokufuna ukucinga ezinye iindlela. Ngokuqinisekileyo ungathatha ixesha, kodwa kuthekani ngokuguqula indawo yakho yomsebenzi ukuba uhlale ngaphezulu? Ngaba ungangena kamva uze uhlale kamva kusihlwa?
- Ngaba unayo ezinye iindlela?
Ngaba unokuqalisa ishedyuli yomsebenzi oguquguqukayo? Mhlawumbi unokusebenza ekhaya ngeentsuku ezithile. Ukuba unokwenza iintsuku ezincinci okanye umsebenzi ukusuka ekhaya, unokuba neyona nto ibhetele kwihlabathi. Thetha nomphathi wakho kunye noxinzelelo ukuba oku kukugcina usebenze ixesha elide. Kuyinqoqo-win win for both parties.
Khangela yonke imiba ejikelezileyo xa uqala ikhefu lokubeleka. Xoxa nabo nentsapho yakho. Fumana iingcinga kubalingane bakho kunye nabasebenzi abasebenzisana nabo. Bese uthetha nomphathi wakho. Kukho umgangatho ophakathi ophakathi.