Xa ukungabikho kokunyakaza kungabonakalisa inkathazo
Ukususela kumzuzu oqale uqale ukuziva ukuba usana lwakho lushukunyiswa, oogqirha abhekisela kuyo njengokukhawuleza okanye ukuqhuma, uya kuqala ukusebenzisa ezo ntshukumo njengendlela yokujonga kuyo impilo yengane yakho.
Ngoomama bokuqala, ngokukodwa, nayiphi na utshintsho kwixesha okanye umgangatho wokunyakaza ingaba ngumthombo wobandezelo obalulekileyo. Kwaye ngelixa abantu bahlala bexela ukuba oku kuqhelekileyo ukuba ufikelele ekuhambiseni, ngaba kukho umgca apho umama kufanele aqale ukukhathazeka?
Umgangatho weeNtshukumo zabantwana
Ukuthetha ngokuqhelekileyo, umntwana uza kuqala ukuqhuma ngeveki ye-18 ukuya kwe-24 yesigxina. Ekuqaleni, kunokuba nzima ukuhlula ukuba ingaba lwakho umntwana usuvakalelwa okanye ushizi. Kodwa, ekuhambeni kwexesha, ezo ntshukumo ziya kuba zibala ngakumbi kwaye zizinzileyo. Ziyinto esilindele ngayo, iqinisekisa ukuba umntwana ukhula ngokuqhelekileyo kwaye uya kuba nempilo kwaye abe namandla xa ezalwa.
Uninzi oogqirha, enyanisweni, uya kukuxelela ukuba umtsalane ukhaba emva kweveki 28 ngenye yezinto ezibhetele phambili zokuphila kwentana.
Kodwa umgangatho wale ntshukumo maxa wambi ungashintsha njengoko uhamba ngaphaya kweveki 30. Akukho mntwana wakho oza kukwazi ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza njengoko ubele luba lukhulu. Kungekudala, kunokuba uzive u-acrobatic-like twists and turn, ungase ufumane ama-tickle kunye neengxube ezinokubakho. Kukho kwakhona i-jab okanye ikhefu enokuzibona ingenakulungeleka.
Ngexesha elifanayo, umntwana usenokuhamba ngokuthe rhoqo ngenxa yokuba kukho igumbi elingaphantsi lokuhamba. Kwaye, ngelixa unokuxelelwa ukuba ungakhathazeki, ukuba umntwana uhlala ehlala kwindawo yokuzalwa, kukho amaxesha apho ezi tshintsho zenza uphando lophando.
Indlela yokwazi ukuba nini ukubiza umncedo
Ngokuqhelekileyo, kuyimvelo ukuhamba ukuva ukunyakaza okukhulu ngexesha lokukhulelwa kokuqala ukufumana ama-squits amancinci kunye ne-jabs xa ukhulelwa emva koko.
Kuqhelekile ukuba uzive unganyanzanga xa umntwana eqala ukuthatha indawo ye- vertex (ikhankaso phantsi) kwisibeleko.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ukholelwa ukuba olu tshintsho aluqhelekanga, oogqirha kunye nababelethisi baya kucela ukuba ugcine iphepha lokubhalwa kwekhaba lokutsala .Le nto ikuvumela ukuba ulandele, iyure ngeyure, kaninzi kangakanani uziva uhamba ngokunyanisekileyo ukusuka kwintsana yakho. Akukho miselo onzima kunye nokugxininisa malunga nokuba buncinane kangakanani, kodwa oogqirha abaninzi baya kuphakamisa ukuba ukunyakaza kwezinto ezilishumi ngaphezu kweeyure ezimbini eziqhubekayo kukubonakalisa ukuba konke kulungile.
Ukugcina iphephancwadi kukuvumela ukuba uqaphele ngakumbi ukunyakaza okufihlakeleyo ngamanye amaxesha kulula ukulahleka. Ngokuqinisekileyo, njengokuba abazali benza amalungiselelo yonke into esuka kwisibhedlele ukuya esibhedlele ukudweba i-nursery, kunokubakho uxinzelelo oluninzi. Akuqhelekanga ukuba umama angazi kakuhle nto encinci xa amanqanaba oxinzelelo ephakamileyo.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba iphephancwadi likuxelela ukuba isibalo sokukhawulwa komntwana wesibalo siphantsi, uya kufuna ukuxela lo ugqirha okanye umbelethisi ngokukhawuleza. Kwimeko enjalo, uya kucelwa ukuba ufumane uchungechunge lweemvavanyo ukuvavanya inhlalakahle yomntwana wakho.
Oyintloko phakathi kwabo uvavanyo lokungabikho uxinzelelo (okanye i-NST) ukuvavanya intliziyo yenani lomntwana ngokubambisana nomsebenzi we-uterine.
Ukuba umntwana akasasebenzi ngexesha loviwo, umama unokucelwa ukuba aphuze into eneshukela okanye iibhulabhu ukuze ihlasele. Ukuba oku kungasebenzi, isandi esikhulu singasetyenziselwa ukuphazamisa umntwana.
Ngokuqhelekileyo oko kungenjalo, umntwana uya kusabela ngokuqhelekileyo kwaye ulungile. Ukuba akunjalo, iimvavanyo ezongezelelweyo ziya kwenziwa ukwenzela ukuba zibone ukuba zikhona na izinto ezingaqhelekanga ezidinga ukunakekelwa ngokukhawuleza. Ekugqibeleni, ukuxilongwa kwangaphambili kuvumela ukungenelela kwangaphambili.
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Ekugqibeleni, xa kuziwa ekukhulelweni, akukho nto enokukhathazeka kakhulu. Ungalokothi uvumele umntu ukuba acinge ukuba "ii-hormone zakho zithetha" okanye ukuba uhlala unomdla. Njengoko kucaciswa, kungcono ukuhlala uphephile kunokuba uxolo.
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