I-Basics ye-Gay Adoption

UkuQiniswa kweGay zokuSekwa ​​kweGay ukuze ukwazi

Ukuthotyelwa kweGay akuyinto entsha. Ama-Gay kunye nama-lesbians sele esamkela ixesha elide, kodwa umgaqo-nkqubo ushintshile ngokuthe ngcembe, uzinike ezinye iindlela ezingakumbi kunokuba ngaphambili. Ezinye iimbali kunye nemiba iyahluke kulo luluntu. Nazi izinto ezisisiseko.

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Izinketho zokuthotyelwa kwabazali bamaGay
I-ONOKY - Eric Audras / Ibhendi X Imifanekiso / i-Getty Izithombe

Izibini zengqungquthela ziyakwazi ukuhlola iintlobo ezininzi zokwamkelwa, ukususela ekunyamekelweni kwamanyathelo kumazwe ngamazwe. Ukwamkelwa ngempumelelo kunokuxhomekeka ekubeni ngaba i-agesi, urhulumente kunye / okanye ilizwe livulelekile ukuba abazali abalalululana bayamkela.

Njengokuba kubini abantu abatshatileyo, umbuzo wokuqala wokwenene kukuba ukuba umntwana ulungile yini wena kunye nosapho lwakho. Hlola iimvakalelo zakho kunye nokulindela omnye nomnye - ngoncedo lomcebisi okanye umgqirha ukuba kuyimfuneko. Indlela eya phambili ingaba nzima kwaye igcwaliswe nemingcipheko nangona ukuba ukutholwa kwe-gay kukhula kwindawo eqhelekileyo rhoqo imihla, ke qiniseka ukuba uzinzileyo phambi kokuba uqale.

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Isifundo seKhaya sokuBamkela
Ukuthotyelwa kwamaGay kunye namabhinqa kuninzi kakhulu kwiminyaka yamuva. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokwakha intsapho ngokwamkelwa. UBrendan Smialowski / Getty Izithombe

Ukufundwa kwekhaya ekhaya ngumnye wezithintelo zokuqala kwenkqubo yokuthobela. Kwixesha elidlulileyo - kwaye mhlawumbi namhlanje kwezinye iindawo zelizwe - iibini zengqingili ziye zathatha ubuxoki malunga nemimiselo yazo ukuze zithathe. Elinye iqabane lingamkela umntwana ngelixa elinye lizenza ngathi uhlala naye okanye umhlobo. Kodwa kuyimfuneko ukuqaphela ukubaluleka kokunyaniseka xa uvuma. Nangona kunokusemthethweni ukushiya ulwazi oluthile, akuvumelekanga ukuthetha amanga xa ubuzwa umbuzo othize. Ingathathwa njengento yokukhwabanisa kwaye ingaba yimbangela yokwamukelwa ukuba inqatshelwe okanye ukuba ukubekwa kwendawo esele kusekwe sele kuphazamiseke.

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Ukwamukelwa kweGay ngeNombolo
UFrank Martin Gill waseFlorida uchitha ixesha kunye noonyana bakhe abangabantwana. Ulwa nolwabiwo lwamanyathelo omtshato. Joe Raedle / Getty Izithombe

Inani elichanekileyo lamabhangqwana abathandana nabasetyhini abaye bamkela awaziwa, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba uluntu lubonakala lube nolwesiseko oluthile malunga nokubeleka kwezesini. Kodwa ezinye iinani zikhona ngenxa yokubhenwa kunye neengxelo zelizwe, ezibonisa ukuba abazali be-gay nabesilisa ababelethayo basengumncinci.

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Uloyiko olusondeleyo lweGay Adoption
Abanye banenkxalabo yabantwana baya kuncatshiswa malunga nokuba nabazali abangqingili, intombazana encinane idlala kunye nabantwana bayo ngaphandle kokukhathazeka. Chip Somodevilla / Getty Izithombe

Izifundo ezininzi ziye zazama ukubonisa indlela abantwana abakhuliswa ngayo kwimanyano yabasetyhini kunye namabhinqa. Ezi zihlandlo ngamanye amaxesha zixhomekeka ngokuxhomekeke ekubeni ngubani owenzileyo uphando. Amaqela angamaGay kunye namabhinqa athambekele ekuboniseni iziphumo ezilungileyo, ngelixa amaqela enkolo okanye ekhuselekileyo ahlala ebonisa iziphumo ezimbi. Uninzi lwezinto ezixhalabisayo malunga nokuqonda ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini kunye nokuseka ukuba ngaba abantwana baya kuba neengxaki zengqondo ngenxa yokuba nabazali basemasini.

Uphando alufumananga uphando olulodwa olubonisa ukuba abantwana babantwana besini okanye abesilisa abangabesilisa abangabesilisa abangabesisini nabo bahlelelekile kwintlonipho.

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Ukwamukelwa kwe-Gay Legal and Issues
UFrank Martin Gill, oye walwela amalungelo alinganayo njengomzali okhulayo wengane, uyayeka ukuchitha ixesha kunye noonyana bakhe abangabantwana. Joe Raedle / Getty Izithombe

Kuqhelekile ukuba iqabane elinye lize lithathe kwaye yesibini iya kusebenza kwinkundla njengomzali wesibini okanye umzali-ntsebenziswano. Umntwana wesibini owamkela umzali wenza omnye umzali owamkelwe ngokomthetho ngabantwana abamkeleyo, unikezela onke amalungelo omzali / abantwana abantwana kunye nezinye iindibano ezixhamlayo. Cinga nje ngokuba ngumzali wesibini kunye nabantwana abatshatileyo. Ukwamkelwa komzali wesibini kuye kwanikwa iinkundla ezimalunga nama- 13 nakwiSithili sase-Columbia ngo-2015.

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Inkxaso kunye neZibonelelo zabazali beGay
Intombazana eneminyaka engama-5 ubudala inandipha ixesha kunye nentsapho yakhe. Esi sibini sasifanele senze indawo yokuhlala kwiVermont ukwenzela ukuba yamukele. UDavid Friedman / Getty Izithombe

Emva kokumkelwa kokugqibela, ubomi buqhubeka. Zonke iintsapho zidinga inkxaso evela kwintsapho kunye nabahlobo. Abanye abathandana nabasetyhini bafumanisa ukuba abazali babo - ngubani na onokucaphukisa ngenye ixesha malunga nokukhetha kwabantwana babo bokuphila - beza xa abazukulu beza emfanekisweni. Ngethemba, uya kuba nenkxaso eninzi "kwihlabathi lenene," kodwa ezininzi iinkonzo ze-intanethi zifumaneka kubazali besini nabasetyhini. Kwakulungile ukuba abantwana kunye nabazali bafunde iincwadi malunga neentsapho njengabo.