Yintoni iTwin Talk?
Enye yeengoma ezidumileyo ngokuphindaphindiweyo kukuba bahlanganyela ngolwimi oluyimfihlo, uhlobo loqhagamshelwano olubaziyo kuphela. Imigomo efana ne-idioglossia, ulwimi oluzimelayo okanye i-cryptophasia ichaza into ebonakalayo yeelwimi, into ekhangayo eye yabangalisa abaphandi nabazali ngokufanayo. Nangona kunjalo, ngokwenene kunqabile amawele ukuba ahlakulele "ulwimi" lokwenyaniso kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kuphela kwiimeko zokuzihlukanisa.
Yintoni iTwin Talk?
Kunoko, le nzeka empeleni ibangelwa amawele amancinci afana neemvavanyo zomnye ngolwimi, ngokuthe tye. Zonke iintsana zibetha izandi ezingafaniyo; yindlela yabo yokwenza umsebenzi wokwenza umsebenzi kunye nokwenza udibaniso kwingqondo yabo ekhokelela ekuphuculweni kolwimi. Nangona kunjalo, amawele anganika imbonakalo yokuba baqondana ngokubambisana ... ngaloo ndlela baqonda ukuba bahlanganyela "ulwimi olufihlakeleyo". Njengoko bekhula kwaye baphinda ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kunokubonakala ngathi bathetha ngolwimi olufihlakeleyo, ngelixa bathetha ngokungafaniyo izandi kunye namazwi. Phantse ama-40 ekhulwini amawele, ngokuqhelekileyo i-monozygotic okanye amawele afanayo, aya kuhlakulela uhlobo oluthile lokuzimela, usebenzisa izibheno, izenzo, izibheno okanye isigama esisebenzisa kuphela. Nangona abazali nabazalwana babo bahlala beqonda intsingiselo, amawele ngokubanzi abasebenzisi amagama kunye nabanye.
Uphuhliso lweelwimi ngamawele okanye ngokuphindaphindiweyo luvame ukulibaziseka okanye luhluke kwiintanga ze-singleton. Olunye uphando lubonisa ukuba amawele, ngokukodwa abafana, angathatha inyanga emva kwekhono labo lokuzivakalisa ngomlomo. Kukho izinto ezininzi ezibangela ukulibazisa ukuthetha . Iintsana zifunda ulwimi kubaxhasi babo, ngakumbi abazali.
Abazali abaphindaphindiweyo, abahlala bexinekile kwaye begxininiswe yimingeni yokunyamekela abantwana ababini okanye abangaphezulu, banokuthi bangabandakanyekanga kubantwana babo. Amawele amancinci ahlangene phantse kuwo onke amaxesha, kwaye njengabaphi na abantu ababini abasebenzisa ixesha elininzi kunye, bafunda ukuthembela kwiindlela ezingabonakaliyo okanye ezincinci zokunxibelelana. Bayakwazi ukwenza izinto ngendlela eyiyo, ukuqonda imiqondiso yomnye nomnye, iigrawu okanye amagama. Bazama ukulinganisa iinzame zomnye ngolwimi olucacileyo, ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuqinisela ukusetyenziswa kwamagama okungafanelekanga. Amawele aqhele ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza kwaye angabinqamle amagama abo okanye ashiye amaqononongo njengoko athi amagama, mhlawumbi kwindlela yokukhuphisana yokuthetha ngee-twin zabo kunye nokuthatha ingqwalasela yomzali wabo kuqala. Ekugqibeleni, ezinye ukulibaziseka kunokubangelwa yimiphumo engqondweni okanye kwimpilo yokuzalwa ngaphambi kokuzalwa .
Kwiimeko ezininzi, i-multiples iya kubamba i-singleton peers ngexesha lokuqalisa isikolo. Kodwa kwezinye, iingxaki zokuthetha zingabangela ubunzima kubantwana abathile kwiminyaka kamva, ngokukodwa ekufundeni okanye ekupeleni. Kwezinye iimeko, ukungenelela kwangaphambili okanye unyango lwentetho kunokunceda ukujongana neemfuno ezizodwa.
Iingcebiso kubazali bamawele
Nangona lihle okanye linomdla, abazali abaphindaphindiweyo kufuneka bakhuthaze intetho echanekileyo ngokuthanda intetho evezi.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso:
- Thetha, thetha, thetha! Xoxa neentsana zakho, unike umntwana ngamnye ininzi yexesha elinye.
- Ukunikezela ngobuninzi bokungabonakali kwabanye abantwana, ingakumbi abantwana abadala, kunokuba babe namawele amancinci adlala kunye kuphela.
- Funda kubo. Izibonelelo zokufunda kubantwana zininzi.
- Hlaziya i-multiples yakho ukuzithethelela ngolwimi. Musa ukufaka izicelo ezichazwe ngamagqabha okanye ukugxeka ukuba zinako ukwenza izicelo usebenzisa amagama.
- Musa ukuvumela elinye iwele libe ngumkhulumeli omnye, Khuthaza umntwana ngamnye ukuba athethe.
- Buza imibuzo ukubandakanya amawele akho kwingxoxo. Njengoko bekhula, sebenzisa imibuzo evulekileyo ukuze uphucule ingxoxo.
- Musa ukuphazamisa umntwana wakho ukwenza izilungiso ngelixa bathetha. Kunoko, maye bawugqibe, bathethe amagama ngokuchanekileyo ngokuphinda ubuyele kubo.