Ukugqiba ukubeka unyango lwezolimo kunye nokukhulelwa kwakho kweenjongo zokubamba
Ucinga ngokuthatha ikhefu ekuzameni ukukhulelwa? Emva koko kufuneka. Nangona uvakalelwa kukuba awukwazi ukuyeka, okanye uthanda ukuba kube lula ukuqhubeka kunokuthatha ikhefu.
Umele uthethe nodokotela wakho, okokuqala, okokuqala. (Ngakumbi malunga nezantsi.) Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ugqirha uyayivuma, kwaye unokudlulela ukhathazeka kokuqala kokunquma ukuyeka, amava angaphilisa.
Ukuzama ukukhulelwa kunokukhathaza ngokomoya . Unokuvakalelwa ngathi ubomi bakho buhlala ekhulelwe.
Ukuthatha ixesha elide-nokuba iinyanga ezimbalwa okanye iminyaka emibini-kunokunciphisa amanqanaba oxinzelelo kwaye kukunike ithuba lokufumana kwakhona ubomi bakho bonke .
Izizathu Ongayicinga Ukuthatha Ukuphuka
Kukho izizathu ezinokuthi ungagqiba ekubeni uthathe ikhefu ukusuka kwi-TTC.
Uphelile ngokomoya.
Ukungabikho kwintlupheko kuhambelana nokuxinezeleka , uxhalaba kunye nokuxinzezeleka okukhulu . Unako (kwaye kufanele!) Ufune ukucebisa ukunceda ukujamelana nokungafumaneki.
Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, unyango alunelanga. Ngamanye amaxesha, ngokwenene ufuna ixesha lokuba usebenze oko uye wahamba nawo.
Kufuneka wenze isigqibo esikhulu.
Isigqibo sakho esikhulu sinokuquka isigqibo sokuba ngaba unako ukuvavanywa okanye unyango olukhuthazwa yiklinikhi yakho yokuzala , okanye nokuba ufuna ukujonga iqanda, umbungu, okanye umniki wesini, okanye nokuba ngumntu ongenalo .
Xa ungekho kuzo zonke, nokuba nje inyanga okanye ezimbini, kunokukunceda wenze isigqibo esingaxhunyekanga kwiimvakalelo zangoku.
Ufumene ilahleko.
Ukutshatyalaliswa komtshato kunzima emzimbeni wakho nangomoya wakho. Nangona ugqirha ugqithisa umzimba wakho ukuba ulungele, wena kunye neqabane lakho kuphela yinto enokukwazi ukuba ulungelekile ngokomzwelo.
Unomuva ufuna ikhefu.
Umda wokunyamezela wonke umntu uhlukile. Awudingi ukuba uphumelele kwiimpawu ezintathu ze-IVF ukuze uzive uphelelwe.
Unokuziva uzikhulile ngaphandle kokuba ufikelele kwixesha lokunyanga.
Kwakhona, izinga lokuxinezeleka wena kunye namava akho amaqabane ancike kwizinto ezininzi, kubandakanywa neminyaka yakho, imeko yakho yentsapho, ukuxilongwa kwakho, imeko yakho yemali kunye nobuntu bakho.
Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba ufuna ikhefu, thetha ugqirha uze uthathe enye.
Uqinisekile ukuba kufuneka uqhubeke unyango.
Ukwenza isigqibo sokuyeka ukulandela unyango akulula.
Ukuba awunakulungele ukuyibiza, uyaphinde uqiniseke ukuba ufuna ukuqhubeka, cinga ukuthatha ikhefu lexeshana endaweni yoko.
Emva koko, emva kokuba ube nexesha lokunciphisa i-decompress, unokwenza isigqibo sakho.
Iimveliso kunye neNyala yokuThatha ukuPhula
Ezinye zeendlela zokuthatha ikhefu ziquka ...
- Ixesha lokuqwalasela isinyathelo esilandelayo ngaphandle kwengcinezelo eninzi
- Ixesha lokukhumbula ukuba ubomi bunjani xa ungazibopheli ngeesaliti okanye ukubetha izipikili zakho ngeveki ezimbini ulinde
- Ixesha lokuqhuba into oye wahamba ngayo ngaphandle kokubhokoxa ngokunyamezela kweTTC ngexesha elinye
- Ixesha lokwenza izinto ongenakwenza ngokuqhelekileyo xa uzama ukukhulelwa
Hayi, ukuthatha ikhefu kunemihla. Ezinye zazo ziquka ...
- Ixesha elilahlekileyo, ngakumbi xa uneminyaka engaphezulu kwama-35 okanye ukuba isizathu sakho sokungabikho sikhathazeke ngexesha (Xela ugqirha wakho ngaphambi kokuba ucinge ukuba awukwazi ukuthatha ikhefu.)
- Ukuxhalabisa okungakumbi (Abanye abantu bangathanda ukufumana izinto ngaphandle kokunyusa amava onke.)
- Ukulahleka kwemali (Ngokomzekelo, ukuba unesicwangciso sokubuyisela i-IVF esifuna ukuba uzalise inani elithile lemijikelezo yonyango kwixesha elithile, ungalahlekelwa ngamawaka eedola xa uyeka "kungekudala." Unokulahlekelwa yakho imali.)
Indlela Yokuthatha Ikhefu
Into yokuqala yokuyenza uthetha ugqirha wakho.
Mbuze ukuba ukuthatha ikhefu kunokunciphisa amathuba akho okuphumelela xa uqala ukuzama kwakhona. Ukuba ixesha liyinto, buza ukuba ikhefu elifutshane linokwenzeka.
Iinyanga ezimbini zinokukunceda xa uxinzelelekile.
Kwakhona, khumbula ukuba nokuba ugqirha wakho uthe amathuba akho okuphumelela anganciphisa ngekhefu, kufuneka uqikelele oko kubaluleke kakhulu okwangoku.
Ingaba imfuno yakho yokuphulwa komsindo kubaluleke kakhulu? Okanye ngaba amathuba okucinga okuza kubaluleke kakhulu?
Ukuthetha nomgqirha onokuqonda ukungabikho kwengqondo kunokukunceda ukuba usebenze kulo mbuzo.
Emva koko, cacisa ukuba "ukuthatha ikhefu" kuthetha ntoni kuwe.
Ezinye izibini ziya kuthatha isigqibo sokuba "ungazami kodwa ungakhuseli."
Oku kuthetha ukuba abayi kulandelela i-ovulation okanye bafumane unyango lwezityalo , kodwa abayi kuhamba nokulawulwa kokuzalwa .
Kwabanye, ukuthatha ikhefu kuthetha ukuthintela nokusebenzisa uhlobo oluthile lolawulo lokuzalwa.
Kungabonakala kungaqondakali ukukhusela ukukhulelwa emva kokujongana nokungafumaneki. Kodwa xa uthintela, awuyi kushiywa ngalunye inyanga ukuba ukhulelwe nxamnye ungazami.
Okokugqibela, setha umhla wokuphela, okanye ubuncinane umhla wokuhlaziywa kwakhona, ngokuphuka kwakho. Lo ngumhla apho wena kunye neqabane lakho niya kuxubusha ukuba okanye ungaqalanga ukuzama kwakhona.
Ukuthatha ikhefu ikhefu - kungekhona isigqibo sokugqibela sokuyeka unyango olungileyo (oluza nexabiso elininzi lomoya.)
Ukuba nomhla wokugqibela ovunyelweneyo unokunciphisa uxinzelelo phakathi kwakho kunye neqabane lakho, ingakumbi ukuba awunabini uzimisele ukuyeka ukuzama ukukhawuleza.
Ukugqiba ukuzama kwakhona
Khumbula ukuba nguwe kuphela onokugqiba isigqibo xa ulungele ukuzama kwakhona. Kufuneka kube sisigqibo esisodwa phakathi kwakho kunye neqabane lakho.
Ukuba omnye wenu akakulungeli okwamanje, qwa lasela ukuthetha nomgulana oqhelana nobunzima. Ukuba neqela lesithathu elingathathi hlangothi lokudibanisa linganceda.