Abazali banokuthatha inyathelo ukuqinisekisa izikolo zidibana neemfuno zabantwana
Abazali bezingane abaneziphene zokufunda bangathatha amanyathelo xa beva ukuba inkqubo yesikolo ekhethekileyo ineengxaki okanye ayisebenzi kakuhle. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali abaneemfuno ezizodwa abantwana baxabana nezikolo xa bengavumelani kwiinkqubo zemfundo ngabanye kunye neenkonzo ezibonelelwe abantwana. Ukuphumelela ngokuphumelelayo iimpikiswano zesikolo, abazali kufuneka balungiselele ngaphambi kwexesha baze bafunde izakhono zokuxoxisana ezigcina ingqalelo kwiimfuno zabantwana.
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Abazali Bamele Bakhathazeke NgeeNgcali Ezikhethekileyo ZootitshalaXa ukungavumelani kuwela umgca kwaye kuba yimpikiswano, abazali nabafundisi bahlala becinezelekile. Abazali bayaqonda ukuba ukuxabana akuyona into emnandi kodwa kunokuchaphazela umntwana ochaphazelekayo. Ukuxazulula ingxabano, abazali kufuneka:
- Gxininisa kwiimfuno zomntwana wakho kwaye kungekhona isandi sengqondo sokuxabana.
- Buza imibuzo malunga neenkxalabo zakho. Zama ukuphepha ukucinga.
- Gxi ninisa iinyaniso kunokuba ngubani othe tye.
- Yazi amalungelo akho phantsi kwe- IDEA.
- Qala ngeendawo zokuvumelana kwaye usebenze apho; kwaye
- Abantu abahlukeneyo kwingxaki. Gwema ukugxeka.
- Ukungaziboni abasebenzi abangalunganga kunye nokuyilungisa kamva kunye nabalawuli.
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Xa Abazali Nezikolo Bavumelani Neemfuno ZabantwanaUkungavumelani ngokuqhelekileyo kuxhomekeke kwimibono ephikisanayo, iimvakalelo kunye noqhagamshelwano. Mamela ngokucophelela iingxabano zabanye ukuze uzame ukuqonda umbono wabo. Buza imibuzo ngenjongo yokuqonda. Nangona ungavumelani nombono wotitshala, umbuzo ohloniphekileyo ukhuthaza onke amalungu eqela le-IEP ukuba acinge ngamaphuzu engavumelaniyo kwaye anokunceda amacandelo omabini afikelele kwi-compromise.
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Xa iimpikiswano kunye neengcamango eziphikisanayo zibangelwa UkungavumelaniUkuba iingcamango zabafundisi zichanekile, zazise ngaphandle kokugxeka. Ootitshala nabazali bazisa iimbono ezibalulekileyo kunye eziyimfuneko kwiqela le- IEP . Ukukhuthaza ukukhulumisana okuvulekileyo:
- Vumela umntu ngamnye ukuba aveze izimvo ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa.
- Buza imibuzo ukucacisa amanqaku.
- Khawukhumbule ulwimi lomzimba kunye namazwana akho. Xa ulunge ngakumbi kwaye unobungcali, ubukhulu bakho buya kuhlonishwa.
- Buza okanye iinkcukacha zangoku ezifana neziphumo zokuvavanya, iisampula zomsebenzi, ukuqwalasela okanye ezinye izixhobo zokukhuthaza ukuqonda.
- Nika ulwazi oluvela ngaphandle kwemithombo enjengegqirha okanye ophengululi osebenza nomntwana wakho kwisethingi ngaphandle kwesikolo.
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Ukulawula Ulaka NomsindoUkuthintela iimvakalelo kunye noxinzelelo ekupheliseni isisombululo, qaphela kwaye uqonde iimvakalelo zootitshala kunye neyakho. Fumana kwingcinezelo yengxaki ngokuthetha ngeemvakalelo zakho. Kunokuba luncedo ukuchaza izinto ezixhalabisa ngayo ngendlela egxininisa kwingxaki kwaye kungekhona umntu ochaphazelekayo. Ngokomzekelo, "Xa ndabona uSusan engakwazi ukuphumelela kwimathematika, ndandiziva ndididekile kwaye ndandithukuthele ngenxa yokuba ndingazange ndatshelwe ukuba wenza loo nto iphosakeleyo," ukhetha ukuba, "Awungithumeli ingxelo kumsebenzi wam umntwana." Isitatimende esilandelayo sivakala sisityholo kwaye sinokubangela ukukhusela. Ukugxininisa ngakumbi inkcazo, ingakumbi iyakwazi ukujongana nayo.
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Ukuba akukho Nxibelelwano, Akukho Sombululo SokuxabanaUkuphucula ukuqonda nokunciphisa ingxabano ngokuthi:
- Ukuphulaphula kakuhle. Buza imibuzo ukucacisa kwaye ubonise umyalezo kwisithethi. Buza ukuba ukuqonda kwakho kuchanekile.
- Thetha ngokucacileyo nangokufanelekileyo. Yenza amanqaku amfutshane kukukhumbuza ngamaphuzu ofuna ukuxoxa ngawo. Buza imibuzo ukuqinisekisa ukuba amaphuzu akho ayaqondwa. Zama ukuba ungadluli kwisihloko.
- Thetha wena nomntwana wakho. Yithi indlela ingxaki echaphazela ngayo umntwana wakho, yintoni oyenzile ukuyilungisa kunye naluphi uncedo olufunayo esikolweni ukulungisa ingxaki ngokuthe ngempumelelo.
- Zivulwe kwezinye iimbono malunga noko kunokunceda. Zikulungele ukuzama ezinye iindlela xa kunokwenzeka.
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Ilungelo lakho lokulila phantsi kwe-IDEAKwiimeko ezininzi, izicwangciso zoqhagamshelwano ezichanekileyo ziya kukunceda ukuxazulula ukungquzulana nesikolo somntwana wakho, kwaye izikhalazo nezikhalazo aziyi kuyimfuneko. Ukuba ingxoxo ithe yahluleka, kukho ezinye iindlela. Xoxa ngengxaki ngomcebisi wengane okanye inqununu. Ukuba awukwazi ukusombulula ingxaki, qhagamshelana nesithili sakho semfundo yesikolo okanye abalawuli bezemfundo ezizodwa ukuze bancede. Iiprogram zokudibanisa zivame ukufumaneka ekuncediseni ukulungiswa kwemibango. Abalawuli bakho benqanaba likarhulumente banesiphakamiso esisesikweni kunye nenkqubo efanelekileyo yokuvalelwa kwenkqubo ekhoyo, ukuba iingxoxo kunye neeseshoni zokuxolelana zingaphumeleli ukulungisa ingxaki.