Uphononongo lubonisa ukuba kutheni abazali bengafanele baqikelele kwiikhangiso zeTV zezingane
Yintoni i- SpongeBob SquarePants ifana nayo kunye nokuqhwala ? Inokumangalisa abazali ukuba bayazi ukuba uphando luye lwabonisa ukuba imiboniselo ye-TV yamantombazana eninzi iqulethe amanqanaba obundlobongela obufaniswa naleyo ibonisa ukuba kulungiselelwe abaphulaphuli abavuthiweyo. Abazali abaninzi bathembela kwizikhokelo zabazali ukubanceda ukuba banqume ukuba yeyiphi imiboniso yeTV kunye nama-movie kunye nemidlalo yevidiyo ezifanelekileyo kubantwana babo.
Kodwa isifundo sika-Agasti 2016 malunga nokunceda abazali babazali be-TV kubazali baye bafumanisa ukuba ezo ndululo zenkqubela zashiya kakhulu ukufunwa.
Oko Okufundiswayo
Amanqanaba aphakamileyo obundlobongela beTV kunye nomxholo ongafanelekanga amaninzi kwimiboniso ebhalwe nge-TV-Y7 (efanelekayo abantwana abaneminyaka engama-7 nangaphezulu), ngokutsho kwesifundo, eyayikhokelwa nguJoy Gabrielli, i-PhD, ingcali yengqondo yengqondo yaseKliniki yaseDartmouth. Amachiza eHanover, NH Ukulinganisa, okukumisela ukulinganiswa kweminyaka kwisigxina esisekelwe kwisixa sobundlobongela, ukusetyenziswa kotywala, ukutshaya, kunye nokuziphatha ngokwesini kuboniswe ukuba abazali banokulinganisa okubonisa ukuba kulungile-kwaye kubonisa ukuba hayi-kubantwana bamaxesha athile.
Abaphandi bavavanya iziganeko ezingaphezu kwama-300 zeemiboniso ze-TV ezi-17 kumaqela ahlukeneyo (TV-Y7, iTV-PG, iTV-14, kunye ne-TV-MA), ekhangele ixesha kunye nenani leziganeko zokuziphatha okubi, kwaye yafumanisa ukuba yonke imiboniso ubuncinane ubunobungozi bodwa kunye kwaye kwakukho ubundlobongela obuninzi kwimiboniso ye-TV-Y7 njengoko bekukho kwimiboniso yabantu abadala.
Ukulinganiswa komxholo weTV kwenza umsebenzi ococekileyo wokucoca ubundlobongela obunzima (imiqondiso yabantwana abancinci ayibonakalisi imifanekiso yegazi, izitho zomzimba, kunye ne-gore), ukubetha, ukubetha, kunye nezinye izigulana zomzimba nezomlomo kunye nezobuhlungu inxalenye yemiboniselo yeTV yezingane. Kwaye nangona i-TV-Y7 ibonisa imimiselo embalwa yokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi, ibonisa i-TV-14 yayilinganiselwe ukutshaya nokuziphatha okuphuza njengoko kubonisa ukuba i-TV-MA ibalwa.
Ngokuphathelele umxholo wesondo, uvavanyo lubonise ukuba ukulinganisa kwakuphumelele ekuboneni umxholo ongeyifanelekanga kubantwana. Ngamafutshane, izilinganiso zenzelwe umxholo wesondo, kodwa azange zenze loo msebenzi omhle ukukhusela abantwana kwizinye iintlobo zomxholo. UDkt. Gabrielli uthi: "Sididekile kukuba ukulinganisa kusebenza kakubi kangakanani. Izikhokelo zabazali beTV zixhamla kwinqanaba kodwa azigubungele yonke into kwaye ayisebenzelanga ubundlobongela. "
Xa ucinga ukuba abantwana namhlanje banamacandelo amaninzi kwiimali kwiimali ezininzi nakwiinkcukacha ezininzi kunanini ngaphambili, iziphumo zolu phando ziyingozi kakhulu. Xa sicinga ukuba abantwana abakwii-TV-PG kunye ne-TV-14 amaqela aneminyaka ubudala xa behamba ngokuzimela kunye nokufunda malunga nokuba abo bajikeleze njani basebenzise izinto ezinjengotywala kunye negwayi, into ebonisa ukuba abantwana bavakaliswe njengelungileyo kule minyaka Iqela libonisa ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi njengoko kubonisa abantu abadala (uphando lubonise ukuba ukusetyenziswa kotywala kwaba ngama-58 ekhulwini kuwo wonke umboniso) kunzima kakhulu.
Oko Abazali Bangakwenza Ekhaya Ukuhlaziya Izinto ezingafanelekanga
Funda malunga neento zakho abantwana abafuna ukuzibona phambi kokuba ulungile. Okokuqala nokuphambili, iskrini uze uyihluze oko abantwana bakho abakubonayo.
I-Media Sense Media, enika ilayibrari ebanzi yokulinganisela kunye nokuhlolwa kwabazali, inceda kakhulu kuba iquka iinkcukacha zomxholo we-movie, umboniso weTV, umdlalo wevidiyo, umculo, iincwadi kunye neefowuni. Ikwaba nokulinganiswa kwabanye abazali kunye nezingane ukuba zongeze esinye isangqa sokuhlola abazali abafuna iinkcukacha malunga nomxholo ngaphambi kokuba banikele ngokufanelekileyo. Futhi unxibelelana nabanye abazali: Xoxa nabazali owaziyo ukuba bathabathe oko bathe bavumile abantwana babo.
Unamathela kwiingcebiso zonyaka. Umntwana wakho oneminyaka engu-8 unokufumana umngane oneminyaka elifanayo ovunyelwe ukuba abukele ama-movie anemilinganiselo e-R kunye ne-TV-14.
Okanye unokuba ngumfundi wesikolo othanda ukulinganisa nantoni na umntakwabo omdala okhulayo kwaye ufuna ukubukela imiboniso eyenzelwe abantwana abadala. Cacisa umntwana wakho ukuba uphonononga umxholo wokuphucula impilo yakhe, nokuba oko abazali bakhe abaye banquma ukuba umntwana wabo akusebenzi ekhaya lakho. Mxelele ukuba ufuna ukuba ahlakulele umkhwa ogxekayo weendaba, kwaye ukubukela umxholo kubantu abadala akulungele abantwana. Yaye ukhumbule into yokuba kwimimandla emininzi, i-TV ikhona, kunye nezingane ezindala zingadla umxholo okwenzelwe abantu abadala, ezinokubonwa ngabantakwabo abancinci.
Sebenzisa umxholo njengethuba lokuxoxa nezingane zakho. Ngangoko kunokwenzeka, ukubukela kubonisa nezingane zakho. Xa ubona into ebonakala ingalungile okanye engafanelekanga, yisebenzise njengendawo yokuqalisa yokuthetha nezingane zakho. Ukuba ubona into ephazamisayo, buza imibuzo efana neyo, "Ngaba ucinga ukuba oko kwachazwa ngokuchanekileyo?"
Fumana oko umntwana wakho abukeleyo. "Abazali bafanele bachithe ixesha bexoxa nabantwana babo kwaye babone ukuba yiyiphi imidiya abantwana abaye bayifumana kuyo," kusho uDkt. Gabrielli. "Buza, 'Yintoni oyibonayo?' 'Abahlobo bakho babukela ntoni?' 'Ngaba ubonile nantoni na eyenza uzive ungakhathazeki okanye uloyiko?' "Bhekise kunye nomntwana wakho nanini na kunokwenzeka, kungekhona nje ukubeka iliso ekusebenziseni kwakhe imidiya kodwa ukuhlala uxhulumene naye kwaye ugcine ubuhlobo bakho buqinile .
Ungavumeli izikrini zilawula ubomi bakho. Ingxelo ephazamisayo nguHenry J. Kaiser Family Foundation eyakhishwa ngo-2010 ibonise ukuba abantwana basebenzisa amaqondo angaphezulu kwama-7/2 iiyure basebenzise amadivaysi e-elektroniki , kuquka i-TV, iikhomputha, iipilisi, iifowuni kunye nemidlalo yevidiyo. Ixesha elininzi kunokuba lisetyenziswe esikolweni okanye ngabazali, "kusho uDkt. Gabrielli. "Yimpembelelo enkulu ebomini babo."
Fumana iindlela zokunciphisa ukusetyenziswa kwejelo kubantwana bakho kwaye qiniseka ukusekela umzekelo omhle ngokukhawuleza ngexesha lakho leskrini. Yaye xa ucinga ukuba kumaxesha amaninzi, abantwana namhlanje banamaphepha-mveliso e-multitasking-usebenzisa iifowuni kunye nekhomputha xa i-TV isekhaya ekhaya, umzekelo-ukusetyenziswa kwangoku kuphelela ngaphezulu, ngaphezu kweeyure eziyi-10 ukusetyenziswa kweendaba, uthi uDkt. Gabrielli.