Joyina i Club!
Enye yeengcezu zokuqala zengcebiso endihlala ndizinikezela kubazali abalindeleyo bendiphindaphinda "Khangela iqela kwindawo yakho!" Kodwa ngaba ufuna ngokwenene iqela lokuxhasa xa unamawele? Ngezinye iinkxalabo ezixinzeleleyo, ezinjengeengxaki zonyango kunye neengxaki zemali, abazali abaninzi banokuzibuza ukuba kutheni le nto ifanele ibe yinto ephambili. Nangona kunjalo, ndiziva ukuba kubalulekile ukudibanisa nabanye abantu abaye bafumana iimingeni ezifanayo, uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo.
Abazali abavanyelwe ixesha elide banamava okuphendula imibuzo kwaye banike izicombululo kwiingxaki abazali abalindeleyo.
Iyintoni na iQembu leTwin eliza kuyenza kum?
Kukho iinzuzo ezininzi zokujoyina iqela kubazali beeninzi. Abanye bacacile ngokukhawuleza: ukuqinisekiswa kunye neengcebiso zabanye abazali, iinkcukacha zokuqhagamshelana nabaqeqeshi bezokwelapha kuloo ndawo, iimpendulo kwimibandela kunye nokukhathazeka, ukufikeleleka kwiintsebenziswano ezifanelekileyo kwizinto ezisetyenziswayo ngobuncinane, njl. ngenxa yakho kunye neeplani zakho, utyalo loluntu, uxhaso lwabazali, kunye namathuba okunxibelelana.
Imisebenzi embalwa kunye neenzuzo ezinikezwa ngamaqela ephindaphindiweyo ziquka:
- Ilayibrari yebhulabhu, ihambisa iincwadi, amaphephancwadi, iividiyo kunye nezinye iimpapasho ngokuphindaphindiweyo.
- Inkqubo yeBuddy, ukudibanisa amaomama alindelekileyo nabazali abanolwazi.
- Zixhamla iintlanganiso zoluntu kumama kunye / okanye isibini.
- Ukuthengiswa kweeyadi, ngamathuba okuthenga kunye / okanye ukuthengisa iimpahla kunye nezixhobo.
- Iiprojekthi zeenkonzo ezixhamla uluntu.
- Ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiindibano kummandla wesithili, welizwe okanye wesizwe.
- Iimidlalo zokudlala kubantwana babo bonke ubudala.
- Ukufikelela kwiingcali, iingcali kunye nezinye izithethi zezivakalisi kwiintlanganiso.
Ndingayifumana Njani Iklabhu Ngabazali Bamawele?
Kubantu baseMelika, indawo yokuqala yokuqala i-Multiples of America, eyaziwa ngokuba yiNational Organisation of Mothers of Twins Clubs.
Le nethwekhi idibanisa amaqela angaphezulu kwama-300 kuwo onke ama-United States, abamele ama-25,000 iintsapho zamalungu aphethe amawele, ama-triplets, kunye nama-quadruplets. Iquka amakilabhu aqokelelwe ngama-Mothers we-Twins Club (i-MOTC), ii-Mothers ye-Multiples Club (MOMC), okanye i-Parents of Multiples Club (POMC).
I-website yabo inika iinketho ezininzi zokufumana iqela kwindawo yakho. Khangela ngekhodi ye-zip. Uninzi lweenkcukacha zengcaciso ngokuthe ngqo ukuba ziphi na indawo kunye nezommandla ezihlala kuzo; kukho inhlangano engaphezu kweyodwa kwingingqi yakho, ngoko unokubona ukuba ngubani olungele ukuhlala nalapho usebenza khona.
Ukuba awukwazi ukufumana nayiphi na indawo kwindawo yakho, ungayeki. Azikho zonke iiklabhu ezinxulumene ne-NOMOTC; abaninzi abaninzi bazimeleyo. Umgqirha wakho okanye isibhedlele unokufumana ulwazi loqha ga mshelwano, okanye unokwenza uphando ngeencwadi zeefowuni okanye kwi-intanethi. Unokumisa ngekhasi lam le-Facebook ukudibanisa nabanye abazali bamawele kunye neeninzi, abanokukwazi ukukukhokela kwiklabhu yendawo.
Kuthekani ukuba andisayi eUnited States?
Iziqela ezininzi zikhoyo kwihlabathi lonke, kumazwe afana ne-United Kingdom, Australia, Canada, Ireland, naseMzantsi Afrika. Eli phepha lidibanisa neeklabhu kwihlabathi jikelele,