Yenza ixesha lokudlala - Incwadi yeNgqungquthela evela kumawele angama-101

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Ukugqitywa kwiintlungu 101: 50 kufuneka ukuba neengcebiso malunga nokukhulelwa ngoBantwana abaselula ukusuka kwiDkt. MOM, nguKhanh-Van Le-Bucklin, MD, MOM Copyright © 2009 nguKhan-Van Le-Bucklin. Ishicilelwe ngemvume yomvakalisi, uJohn Wiley & Sons, Inc.

Icebo # 47 Yenza ixesha lokudlala

Umama uhlala esithi, "Umsebenzi womntwana kukutya, ulale kwaye udlale. Ukuba ayenzi enye yezinto, kukho into engalunganga." Umama wam osisilumko wayengenakulungile.

Njengomntu oqeqesha abahlengikazi bexesha elizayo, ndifundisa abahlali bam ukuba babone ukusilela kwezo zinto zintathu njengokuba kukho uphawu lokugula, ukunyanzelwa okanye ukulibaziseka.

Izingane zidinga ukudlala nje ngokufuna ukutya nokulala! Ukudlala kunye nokuhlola ngexesha lomdlalo kuphuhlisa amandla omntwana kunye nekhono lokuqonda (ingqiqo). Vumela amawele akho ukuba adlale kunye, kwaye wenze ixesha lokuba nabo badlale nawe, naye.

Twin Play

Amawele amacandelo anesicalulo esicacileyo senhlalakahle yokuba nomdlali odla ngokukhawuleza kwaye ofumanekayo. Baya kunika umthombo obonwayo wokubonwa, ukuphicothwa, kunye nentlalo yomnye nomnye.

Ukwandisa ixesha lakho lokudlala ngamawele, ndincoma oku kulandelayo:

• Unamathoyizi aneleyo ngokuzenzekelayo kangangokuthi abahlali bekulwela i-toy efanayo. Kodwa akudingeki uthenge ezimbini zezinto zonke . Uzafuna ukuba bafunde ekuqaleni kokubaluleka kokwabelana.
• Yiba neendidi ezahlukeneyo ukuze bahlolisise.

• Khuthaza ukusebenzisana phakathi kwabo. Ukholo kunye neThemba babethanda iinqaba zokudibanisa kunye nezitena zeplastiki zokungena.
• Kwabancinci abaselula, baninzi izinto zokugqoka, iidodoli, iipopu kunye nezinye iizitha ezikhuthaza ukusebenzisana nokwenza udlala.
• Thenga ibhola. Bona ibhokisi yeTwin Hints kweli candelo.
• Thatha abantwana bakho ngaphandle ngangokunokwenzeka - kwiyadi lakho okanye kwindawo yokudlala eseduze. Kukho izinto ezininzi ezinokukhuthaza ukwenza ngaphandle ngaphandle kobudala obufanelekileyo, ukunyamekela ngenyameko.

• Gcina iliso elibukeleyo ngamawele akho. Iidy Toys zikwazi ukuba zixhobo xa ziba neentsana ezimbini. Kwakhona, abancinci ababini abanomdla, abanomdla abanomdla ongenazo iindlela zokusebenzisa ubuchopho babo babini kunye namandla ukuze benze "imidlalo" engaphephile.
• Thatha imifanekiso eninzi! Akukho nto efana nokubona iimbini zamawele zihlanganyela ngokuzenzekelayo ngamathoyizi okanye zenze enye ihleka ngexesha lokudlala. Ezi zihlandlo ezixabisekileyo ziyancibilikisa intliziyo yakho kwaye zikukhumbuze indlela osikelele ngayo ngokwenene ukuba ube namawele.

I-Twin Hint: Amabhola

Iibhola enye yezinto zam intando ezithandayo zamapasa . Xa Ukholo kunye neThemba bekuneminyaka engama-9 ubudala, ndiza kugqitha ibhola, kwaye babeza kubaleka ukuze bafumane. Olu khu phiswano olunobungqungquthela lubangele ukuphuculwa ngokukhawuleza kwamandla abo. Ngoku ukuba bangabantwana abaselula, ndihlala nabo, kwaye siqhubela ibhola komnye nomnye. Lo msebenzi obandakanyekayo ubafundisa ubuchule obalulekileyo bentlalo yokujika. Umyeni wam, uChris, uthanda ukugubha ibhola okanye ukuwagxotha ngomunwe wakhe. Abantwana bam babukela ngokuvuyela njengoko befunda malunga nokunyuswa kwezinto kunye nokunyaniseka (ewe, yonke isicatshulwa kufuneka iphele ngandlela-thile). Kwixesha elizayo elizayo, ndibonela phambili ukuba sidlale ibhola le-handball okanye ezine-square ukwenzela ukuba sizenze umgaqo wemithetho ekudlaleni. Amathuba angapheliyo!

Dlala ixesha kunye noMama noTata

Amawele ayenene ngokwenene ukuba omnye nomnye njengabalingani abadlala . Ixesha labo kunye kunye neenzuzo ezininzi zentlalontle, zengqondo kunye nezomzimba. Kodwa amawele afuna ixesha kunye nawe. Iingcali ziyavuma ukuba amawele kufuneka adityaniswe kunye, afunde kuyo, kwaye asebenzise ixesha elifanelekileyo kunye nabantu abadala ukwenzela ukuba bandise amathuba abo okuphuhlisa.

Unomsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu ekuphuhlisweni komntwana wakho. I-twin i-twin ayikwazi ukuthatha indawo yendima yokusebenzisana kwabazali kunye nokudlala, kwaye akukho namanqaku amashishini anemali kakhulu, amavidiyo okanye iinkqubo zekhompyutha. Ungumdlalo owodwa owenzelwe kakuhle umntwana wakho.

Akukho nto yokudlala iyakwazi ukunika uluhlu lweentlobo zengqondo, ezentlalontle kunye nokuvuselela ngokomzimba onokukubonelela. Into ephambili kukuba ungabalulekanga, kwaye ke ukhululekile kumntwana wakho. Nika umntwana wakho isipho sokudlala nawe namhlanje.

Nazi ezinye iindlela ezilula ongabandakanyeka ngazo amawele akho ekudlaleni:

• Thetha nabo ngexesha lokudlala.
• Chaza oko wenzayo.
• Chaza oko bakwenzayo.
• Batshengise indlela umdlalo odlala ngayo.
• Yenza umzali omnye "umdlalo womzali" kunye nomnye "umzali womsebenzi" kwiiyure ezimbalwa uze utshintshe indima.
• Yenza ixesha eliqhelekileyo lidlala ixesha. Ngokomzekelo, iibhafu zingaba mnandi kakhulu ngama- bubbles , amathoyizi, kunye nokutya okukhulu.
• Yiba buqili kwaye ujabule! Ukuba nezingane kuyisizathu sakho sokuba yinkwenkwe kwakhona.

UKhan-Van Le-Bucklin , MD, i-MOM, isifundo sezingane e-University of California, i-Irvine. Wamkela idigri yezokwelapha evela kwiYunivesithi yaseCalifornia, eSan Francisco, kwaye wagqiba ukuhlala kwakhe kwintsapho kwiYunivesithi yaseStanford. Ufumene umama we-Multi-grade (MOM) ngo-2006 ngokuzalwa kweentombi zakhe, i-Faith and Hope.

Twin Hints