Yintoni ongayilindela kwiminyaka engama-7
Ukukhula ngokomoya ngexesha leminyaka eli-7 kukude kakhulu kwinto ebeyiyo kwiminyaka yokufundela okanye ye- kindergarten . Okokuqala, abaneminyaka engama-7 ubudala banokukwazi ukujongana nokuguqulwa kwenguqu kunye neyokugqibela. Ngelixa bengenako ukukwazi ukuzithiba abaya kuthi baneminyaka eli-10 okanye-12 ubudala, abaneminyaka engama-7 ubudala banokuzibekezela kangcono ukuhamba nokuhamba okanye izinto ezingalindelekanga.
Nangona kunjalo, abaneminyaka engama-7 baya kusasa kwaye bafumane induduzo kwiziqhelo. Njengoko ihlabathi lomntwana livula ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye ingqwalaselo yakhe igxininise ngakumbi kwizinto kunye nabantu abangaphandle kwendlu yakhe kunye nentsapho yakhe esondeleyo, uya kuxhomekeka ngakumbi kwizinto anokuzilindela kwaye azibale, njengexesha leentsapho , ixesha lokulala , kwaye rhoqo ukutya.
Ukuzithemba noKhuseleko
Ukufunda izibalo ezisisiseko nokufunda esikolweni kunokunika ukuzithemba kwabantwana abaneminyaka engama-7 kunye nekratshi kwiimpumelelo zabo. Ukukwazi ukufunda ngokuzimeleyo uye kwavula umhlaba, kwaye kunceda umntwana ukuba 'akhule.'
Ngona kunjalo, abaninzi abaneminyaka engama-7 baya kuziziva bengenakho ukuzithemba ngabo kwaye banokuba ngabagxeki babo. Ukuba uneminyaka engama-7 ubudala, ukungabi nento yokujonga ngendlela efuna ngayo okanye ukulahlekelwa ngumdlalo kunokunyanzelisa ukuzithemba kwabo. Abazali, ootitshala kunye nabanye abantu abadala banokukunceda ngokunikela ngokukhuthazwa rhoqo kunye nokunceda umntwana agxininise oko angayifunda kwimisebenzi kunokuba oko akuzange kwenzeke.
Uneminyaka engama-7 ubudala kuya kubakho uxinzelelo lwabaontanga. Ekubeni abaneminyaka engama-7 ubudala abanokungaqiniseki ngokwabo, umnqweno wokuzibandakanya ungenza umntwana abe mngcipheko ekuhambeni kunye nesihlwele. Abazali banokunceda abantwana banxamnye noxinzelelo lwabaontanga ngokugxininisa ukubaluleka komntu ngabanye kwaye bangahambi nabanye, ngakumbi ukuba kukho into ephosakeleyo kubo.
Ukuzimela
Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-7 banokukuvumela ukuba uhlale ulala nabo ngexesha lokulala kodwa udibanise kwiindawo zakho zokugubungela emini, ngokukodwa ukuba uphi nawabo nabahlobo okanye isikolo. Abantwana kule minyaka banokuthi bahlale befuna ukufezekisa imisebenzi, njengemisebenzi yasekhaya okanye imisebenzi yabo, ngokuzodwa, kwaye ngokukhawuleza bacele umntu omdala ukuba ancede. Lo ngumzabalazo wabo wokuba bazimeleyo xa befuna ukukhokelwa.
Abaninzi abaneminyaka engama-7 baya kuthanda ukudlala nabahlobo kodwa bangaqala ukuzonwabisa ngokuchitha ixesha elide bodwa, bedlala ngokwabo okanye bafunda. Ngexesha kunye kunye nexesha eliphantsi, ngokwenene, inokuba yinto ebalulekileyo yokuphuhliswa kwengqondo yomntu kunye nolwalamano lwakhe nabanye.
Abahlobo kunye neQela
Ku-7 ubudala, abaninzi abantwana bathanda umdlalo ohleliweyo oquka imithetho, kodwa oku kunokukhokelela ekudakaleni. Umntwana wakho akayi kuthatha kuphela iimvakalelo zakhe, naye uya kukhula ekwenzeni kwakhe ukuqonda iimvakalelo zakhe nabahlobo bakhe.
> Imithombo:
> Amasebe okuLawula nokuVimbela (iCCDC). Umntwana ophakathi (6-8 ubudala). https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/childdevelopment/positiveparenting/middle.html. Ukuhlaziywa kukaJanuwari 3, 2017.
> Tracker Child Development Tracker: Uneminyaka eyi-7 ubudala. Abazali bePBS. http://www.pbs.org/parents/childdevelopmenttracker/seven/index.html.