Uneminyaka engama-7 ubudala ekulungele ukuhlola i-Ethics and Friendship
Abantwana abaneminyaka emashumi asixhenxe baya kuba nohlobo lwabahlobo kwaye banokubakho ngokusondeleyo kumnye okanye ngabafazi abambalwa. Uneminyaka engama-7 ubudala uya kukhathalela ngokungakumbi ngezinye iimpendulo kunye neengcamango zabanye abantu, ezinokubangela ukuba bancipheke ngakumbi koxinzelelo lwabaontanga. Baya kuba novelwano, kunye nokuqonda okulungileyo, ukungalunganga nokulingana.
Ubuhlobo
Njengoko abaneminyaka engama-7 ubudala bakhula kwaye banweba iindawo zabo zentlalo, ngokuqhelekileyo banamathele kwabanye abantu abadala ngaphandle kwabazali babo, njengotitshala, umalume, okanye umzali womhlobo.
Abantwana, le minyaka ingaba nobuhlobo obusondeleyo enkulisa okanye nangaphambili. Kodwa kubantwana abaneminyaka emashumi asixhenxe ubudala, iziqhotyoshelwano kwabanye abantu bobabini oontanga kunye nabantu abadala abakhulileyo banokuba ngabacebile kwaye banomvuzo njengoko babelana ngeminqweno, izinto zokuzilibazisa, kwaye badlala imidlalo kunye nemidlalo kunye.
Kuqhelekile ukuba abaneminyaka engama-7 ubudala bafune ukudlala ngokubanzi kunye nabantwana babo ngokwesini. Kwezinye iimeko, oku kungaba ngumsebenzi wendalo wokuba uthanda izinto ezahlukeneyo; kwamanye amaxesha, kusenokuba ngumphumo woxinzelelo lwabaontanga. Abazali banokukhuthaza abantwana ukuba baqhubeke bedlala nomhlobo onokuba ngumntu ohlukeneyo ngokwesini ukuba ngaba uneminyaka engama-7 ubudala uthanda loo mntwana. Oku kunokuba nethuba lokuthetha ngokunyanzeliswa yontanga kunye nokubaluleka kokwenza izinto abanye abangavumelani nazo ukuba kulungile kubo.
Ukuziphatha kunye neMithetho
Umntu oneminyaka asixhenxe ubudala uhlakulela ingqiqo echanekileyo yokuchanekileyo kwaye engafanelekanga kwaye unokuziva unetyala kunye neentloni.
Abantwana abaneminyaka eyisixhenxe abanokuthi "baxelele" abanye abacinga ukuba baqhatha, kwaye banokuthi baveze baze baqiniseke ngeengcamango ezinjengobulungisa kunye nobulungisa.
Ukunika, Ukukwabelana kunye novelwano
Esikolweni, wakho oneminyaka esixhenxe ubudala uhlakulela ukuqonda ubuninzi behlabathi kunye nenjongo yoluntu kunye nommandla.
Kuye kwenzeka ukuba wafunda malunga nendlela yokwenza ilungu elifanelekileyo leklasi ngokubelana, ukuncedana, ukulinda ithuba lakhe, ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yeklasi, njalonjalo.
Kananjalo kunokwenzeka ukuba akwazi ukuqonda ezinye izenzo zabantu kunye neemvakalelo, nangona kungokwemvelo ukuba uneminyaka engama-7 ubudala ukuba uhlale uzimeleyo. Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-7 banokukwazi ukuzifaka ezinqabeni zomnye kwaye basebenze ngokubambisana, nangona ukuxhalaba kunye neemvakalelo ezibuhlungu zingasaphuma phakathi kwabantwana abaneminyaka elixhenxe.
Oku kunokuba yiminyaka yobuhle kakhulu yokufundisa umntwana wakho malunga nokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuba ngummi olungileyo wehlabathi. Unokuthetha malunga nokuba uncedo okanye iindlela onokukunceda ngayo indawo. Kwaye ngoxa abantwana abaneminyaka engama-7 bevelisa ukuvelisa abanye, unokukunceda ukukhulisa ingqondo . Beka umzekelo omhle, ubuze imibuzo yakho njengomntwana othi "uvakalelwa njani?" Kwaye usebenze kunye ukuze uncede abo banesidingo okanye abanenhlanhla.
> Imithombo
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