Nangona umntwana wakho angakwazi ukufunda ngokwakhe, kufuneka uyenze kunye
Enye yezona zinto zinzima kakhulu abantwana abaneminyaka engama-ubudala ubudala ukufunda ukufunda indlela yokufunda. Emva kokuba bavula loo magama omlingo kwiphepha, ihlabathi elibanzi livulekele. Ingaba ibali elithandekayo lokuqala abafundi njengoko iFrog ne-Toad okanye isicatshulwa sencwadi yesahluko esingakhange sichazwe phantsi njengeHarry Potter , abantwana abancinci nabancinci bezikolweni banamathuba amaninzi xa bekhetha incwadi enkulu yabantwana.
Kodwa ngelixa kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bafunde ukufunda ngokwabo kwaye baqhubeke befunda iincwadi ngokwabo ukuze baqinise izakhono zabo zokufunda , kwinto efanelekileyo ukuba abazali baqhubeke befunda nabo, nangona abantwana bebafundi abanamandla. Nazi ezinye zezizathu zokuba abazali kunye nezingane kufuneka baqhubeke befunda kunye:
- Ikhuthaza ukuthanda iincwadi. Xa ufunda inxalenye yentsapho yakho yesiqhelo, kuba yinto eqhelekileyo njengokutya ukutya kunye okanye ixesha lokuhlamba. Kwaye xa umntwana wakho efunda kunye nawe kwaye ebona ufunda iincwadi zakho, ngakumbi unokuthanda ukudilika ebaleni elilungileyo, naye. Xa uhlakulela uthando lweencwadi kunye nabantwana abancinci ngokufunda nabo, ufundisa umkhwa omkhulu oza kugcina umntwana wakho ubomi.
- Ixesha elingakumbi lencwadi lithetha ixesha elincinane kwiikrini. Xa ufunda ukufunda inxalenye yeshedyuli yakho, ngokuqhelekileyo iya kuguqulela ekunciphiseni ixesha leskrini somntwana wakho . Unokuqiniseka kwakhona ukuba ixesha lakho umntwana achithayo usebenzisa amacebo e-tech kuquka umxholo wemfundo njengemidlalo yamatriki e-intanethi, oko kuthetha ukuba kuya kufuneka ukuba ahlole indlela yokulawula ixesha lakhe kwisikrini (isakhono esiluncedo kakhulu esiza kuza uncedo njengoko ekhula kwaye kufuneka achithe ixesha elongezelelweyo kwizixhobo zobuchwepheshe kwizizathu zezemfundo nezentlalo) ngelixa efunda yonke imihla.
- Lithuba elihle kubazali nezingane ukuba bachithe ixesha kunye kunye nokuqinisa ubudlelwane babo. Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokudibanisa nomntwana wakho ngokuvula ibali elilungileyo. Ngeke kube yindlela efanelekileyo yokuchitha ixesha kunye kunye nokuqinisa ubuhlobo bakho nomntwana wakho, kodwa kuya kuninika ithuba lokuxelela indlela ovakalelwa ngayo kunye neengcinga kunye nezimvo malunga naliphi na ibali olufundayo. Kuya kubakhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba acinge kwaye enze iimbono zakhe aze axoxe nabo. Ukwenza izinto kunye nomntwana wakho kuyindlela enhle yokuhlala uxhulumene, kwaye nje ngokuba wenza izinto ezinomsebenzi ezifana nokuhamba ngebhayisikili okanye ukuya kwiindawo zokunyuka kuya kumnceda ahlale emgangathweni, ukufunda kunye kuya kunceda umntwana wakho abe namandla ngokwengqiqo.
- Inceda abantwana ukuba bafunde ngokuvakalayo, oko kubaluleke kakhulu. Njengoko izakhono zokufunda zomntwana zikhula, unokutshintshana ukufunda iindinyana ezivela encwadini ngokuvakalayo. Ukwenza oku kuya kukhulisa ukuzithemba komntwana wakho kwaye kubancedise ukuba basebenzise ukufunda abanye, okuya kuba yinto enekhono esikolweni. Ukufunda ngokuvakalayo kunceda abantwana ukuba bathuthukise amagama, bakhulise isigama sabo, bancede bafikelele kwaye baqonde intsingiselo ebhaliweyo yebali.
- Iyonwabisa. Ngenxa yokuba ungumntu okhulile, akuthethi ukuba awukwazi ukunandipha ibhuku lezingane ezinjenge- Harry Potter uchungechunge okanye i -Mysterious Benedict Society . Enye yezona zixhobo ezinkulu zokufunda iincwadi ezincinci zezingane kunye nomntwana wakho kukuthi kumnandi. Ukuzonwabisa kunye nomntwana wakho kunenzuzo eqhubekayo kunokungenisa wena kunye nomntwana wakho ngokusondeleyo okwangoku: Uphando lubonisile ukuba abazali bedlala kunye nokuzonwabisa kunye nezingane enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokunyusa amathuba omntwana wokuvuyela kunye nempilo kamva ebomini.
Ingaba umntwana wakho ungumfundi wokuqala okanye umgcini onokuzithemba wesihlanu owaziyo iincwadi zesahluko, ukufunda kunye kunye neentlobo ezininzi kubantwana kunye nabazali.