'Akukho ziKhuseleko ezifunekayo' Isicwangciso esivuyisayo abazali
Xa umama onabantwana abathathu ebizwa ngokuba ngumntwana obizwa ngeeyure ezimbini ngaphambi kokuba umsebenzi ofunekayo usebenze ukuyeka ukubukela abantwana, indlela eyamangalisa ngayo "yayimnandi." Kwimizuzu engama-20, abatsha bahlala bexhamle kwimoto kwaye bathatyathwa kwinkonzo yokunakekelwa kwezingane , apho babemkelwa khona, banondliwa kwaye bahlala bevuya. Ndonwabile, enyanisweni, ukuba abazange bafune ukuya ekhaya xa bathathwe ngalobo busuku.
Njengoko iintsapho ezininzi okanye iintsapho ezixhatshazwayo kunye nabazali abangabodwa bengaqwenela ixesha elide okanye bajongane nokungabikho komgangatho okhoyo kunye / okanye nabantwana abanokuthenjelwa, ukhetho olutsha lubonakala lufumana ukuthandwa kulo lonke ilizwe. Wamkelekile ekunakekelweni kwezempilo kwabantwana!
Amaziko okunyamekela angena ngaphakathi anikezela ngokulula kwaye amnandi, kangangokuthi abaninzi abantwana babecinga ukuba "ubusuku bentombazana" kunye nokukhwaza ukuhamba. Abathathi-nxaxheba bafika kwimicimbi kwiindawo zokuhamba, i-safaris, i-rockfests, imibukiso yeetalente, i-luaus, kunye namaqela e-diva ngelixa abazali babo basebenzisa ixesha elidala. Ukunyamekelwa kwelokuhlalisa abantu abadala "imini yobusuku," imirhubhe, ukuya kwimitshato okanye kwimisebenzi emininzi kuphela, okanye imicimbi yezoshishino. Abazali abangabodwa baye bafumana inkonzo ekhangayo.
Yintoni Eyona Nokwenene Yokunyamekela?
Amaziko okunakekelwa kwabazali angena kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo asebenza ngokufanayo kunye nokunakekelwa kwenkcubeko , kunye nemibandela embalwa. Kwiinkoliso ezininzi, abasebenzi bafumana uhlobo olufanayo loqeqesho njengabasebenzi bamasango ... enyanisweni, abasebenzi abaninzi kwiziko lokunakekelwa kwamasango basebenze ixesha elide kwiindawo zokungena kwiimali ezongezelelweyo.
Hlola iziqinisekiso: amaziko kufuneka afumane ilayisenisi kwaye asebenze phantsi kwemimiselo efanayo esebenza kumaziko okunakekelwa kwamasango kwimeko yakho. Abasebenzi kufuneka babe ngoncedo lokuqala kunye neCPR eqeqeshiwe, babe nokuqeqeshwa kwasekuqaleni komntwana, kwaye banamava okusebenza nabantwana. Uninzi lwamaziko luqhuba ukuhlolwa kwezenzo zolwaphulo-mthetho kubasebenzi kodwa bacele ukuba baqiniseke.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, izibonelelo zokunakekelwa zingena kwi-9 okanye ngo-10 ntambama ngeentsuku zeveki kuze kube ngu-11 ntambama okanye phakathi kobusuku ngeveki. Ezinye zivuliwe ngeCawa; abanye abakho. Kwiiyure ezithe zafumaneka kwiimeko ezizodwa, ezifana no-Eva. Ngelixa "ukungena kwelo" kuthetha oko, abazali abaye "bafanele" banakekelwa ngabantwana bamele bafonele baze benze i-reservation yomntwana wabo. Ngenxa yokuba ama-ratios abasebenzi basebantwana kufuneka agcinwe, isikhungo sinokuzaliswa kwaye akukho bantwana abangenayo. Uninzi lweendawo zokungena kuzo zifuna ukugcinwa kweentsana ezincinane kwiinjongo zabasebenzi, ngoko ke ingcebiso efanelekileyo kukujonga ngeziko lokuqala ukufumana inkqubo yabo.
Ngaba Ukunyamekelwa Kwangaphakathi Kunokuthengiseka?
Okumangalisa kukuba, ininzi yokunyamekela inkokhelo yokuhlawulwa ngokumalunga nomlinganiselo ofanayo wabantwana abadala abahlawulwa babhalelwa ukujonga ngaphezu komntwana omnye ngexesha lokuhlwa okanye iiveki zeeveki. Nangona isantya sinokuphakanyiswa xa abazali beba nomntwana omnye, iintsapho ezinezingane ezininzi zithi zihlala zibiza ngexabiso elide, emva kokutya ukutya kwasekhaya kunye nokutya okutyiweyo. Iindleko zivela kwi $ 7 ukuya kwii-10 ngeyure, kuxhomekeka yobudala bomntwana, nangona iindawo ezahlukeneyo zelizwe zingakhokhisa ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi kuxhomekeke ekunikezeni kunye nemfuno kunye neendleko eziqhelekileyo apho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kukho ixesha elilodwa okanye umrhumo wonyaka wokubhalisa, oyahluka kwi $ 10 ukuya kwi-50.
Indleko yehora ngoMsombuluko-NgoLwesihlanu ngethuba leentsuku zokusebenza zomsebenzi ngokuqhelekileyo lidla ngaphezu kweyure yeeveki zokunakekelwa kwamasango; nangona kunjalo, akuyena umthengi kula maziko. Kunoko, bathengisa kubazali abafuna ixesha elithile, ixesha lexeshana, okanye ukunakekelwa kwezingane ngeveki. Ezinye izakhiwo zize zenzele ngokwazo "njengenye yokunakekelwa kwimihla."
Iinkonzo kunye neNgcengo yoKhathalelo lwangaphakathi
Abazali abaninzi banokukhululeka ngokusebenzisa ukunakekelwa kwe-drop-in kunokuba baqeshe abantwana abaselula okanye umntu ongeyilungu losapho. Abanye bathandana nabantwana baya kufumana nabanye abantwana abaneminyaka elifanayo, imisebenzi ehleliweyo kunye nokulungeleka kokutya.
Abanye abazali, ke, bakhetha umqondo wokuba nezingane zabo ekhaya kwaye balele ngexesha lokulala, ngoko ke ukulungiswa komsebenzi akuphazamiseki. (Okokuthi, ukuba i-sitter ingakwazi ukugcina loo nto ikhona xa umama nobaba behamba!) Kubazali abanokufuneka baqhube ekhaya ekhaya emva kokuba babuyele ekhaya, bayeke ukuqokelela abantwana ukusuka ekunakekelweni kwe-drop-in emva kokuhlwa ukuphuma akubonakalisi ukuphazamiseka. Kulabo basebenzisa i-sitters yokudala ukuqhuba, nangona kunjalo, oko kungabonwa. Iintsapho ezininzi zinqwenela ukwazi ukuba abantwana abayi kuba yindwendwe ekhaya, badla izibhokhwe ebhedeni, bebukela iTV ubusuku bonke kwaye endaweni yoko baya kudlala ngaphandle okanye benze iprojekthi yobugcisa. Ukhuseleko oluhlala luyazi ukuba iziko lifumaneka lenza abazali bafumane uxolo olukhulu lwengqondo.
Ukuba indawo yakho ineziko lokunakekelwa kwe-drop-in uqwalasela, iingcali zonyango zabantwana zincoma ukuba abazali bavelise umntwana kwiziko ngokuhambela okufutshane. Ungalindeli iimfuno zemizuzu yokugqibela uze uzame ukubhalisa, uzalise zonke iifom, uze unyuse abantwana bakho kwindawo entsha. Amathuba kukuba, emva kokuqala kokuqala, abatsha kunye nabazali ngokufanayo baya kukulangazelela ukubuya.