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Ingqwalasela yoBaloli kwiZikolo

Ukuzala kwabafundi ezikolweni kunokubonakala ngathi kungummangaliso, ucinga nje-njengomzali-bengabantwana bakho ngexesha losuku. Ukubandakanyeka kwimfundo yengane yakho akuthethi ukuba uhlangothi lwabo kwiklasi, kodwa kunokuba bathatha inxaxheba kwaye baxhase uhambo lwabo ukusuka kwibanga ukuya kwibanga.

Uphando lwezemfundo luye lwabonisa ukuba abazali ababandakanyeka kwimfundo yabantwana babo be-K-12 yinto enamandla yokuba abantwana baphumelele esikolweni.

Abazali ababandakanyekayo bathatha inxaxheba ebambisene nesikolo somntwana, kunokuba babone isikolo njengegunya elizimeleyo elijongene nokufundisa abantwana.

Umntwana ngamnye kunye nosapho uhlukile. Ngelixa kungabikho ubukhulu obufanayo-buhambisana nayo yonke inkqubo yokukhokela abantwana ekuphumeleleni kwezemfundo, kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo abazali abangabandakanyeka ngazo kwaye baxhasa ngokufanelekileyo imfundo yabantwana babo.

• Ziziphi iZikolo eziKhuthaza ukuPhila kunye nokuPhumelela kwezeMfundo

• Amanqaku Okunceda Abazali Ukufumanisa Iimpawu Neengxaki Zesikolo Sonke Sonyaka

Ngokubanzi, abazali abaphumelelayo ekusekeleni abantwana babo esikolweni benze njalo ngo:

• Ukuvakalisa ukulindela okuphezulu ekufundeni nasekuziphatheni kwabantwana esikolweni
• Ukudala indawo yokuhlala exhasa ukufunda
• Ukunxibelelana nabafundisi nabasebenzi besikolo kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yesikolo

Izinto ezi-6 zokwazi malunga nobuzali kwiZikolo

Ukubandakanyeka kwabazali kuye kwaboniswa ukuzisa inzuzo ebalulekileyo kubantwana kuwo wonke ubudala, ubuhlanga kunye namaqela ezoqoqosho. I-United States yintlanga eyahluke kakhulu. Oku ngamanye amaxesha kunokudala imingeni ekufumaneni iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokufikelela kwiqela labafundi besikolo.

Sekunjalo, iqela labantwana ngalinye libonisa inzuzo ebalulekileyo xa abazali bomntwana bebandakanyeka kwimfundo yesikolo yabantwana.

Abantwana kunye nentsha enabantwana abachaphazelekayo banandipha inzuzo eninzi. Ukubandakanywa kuboniswe ukwandisa amabakala, kubangela ukuzaliswa komsebenzi oqhutyelwe ekhaya, ukuphucula ukuziphatha kwabafundi esikolweni, ukunyusa izinga lokuphumelela kwezikolo eziphezulu, ukunciphisa amazinga okuphuma kweekholeji, ukwandisa ukuhamba kweekholeji, kunye neqondo eliphantsi lokuvavanya nocuba, utywala kunye nokuzonwabisa machiza.

Ukulindela kwabazali kunempembelelo enkulu kwimpumelelo yezifundo. Xa umntwana wakho uyazi ukuba uyayixabisa imfundo, umntwana wakho uya kufunda ukuxabisa imfundo ngokunjalo.

Isimo sengqondo esilungileyo esinika ukuqiniswa nokukhuthaza ukukhula kwengqondo iphumelela ngakumbi kunendlela engalunganga, indlela yokugweba. Abantwana abakhuthazwa ukuba benze kakuhle esikolweni nakwezemfundo baziva kakuhle ngesikolo kwaye banako ukubeka umgudu wokuphumelela. Oku kubandakanya ukudumisa abantwana ngokusebenza kanzima emsebenzini wabo wesikolo.

Ukufunda kukufumana ulwazi nolwazi. Kuthatha ukunyamezela ukuhamba ukungaqondi isihloko ekufundeni nasekuphenduleni imibuzo ukuze ufunde isihloko. Gxininisa ekudumiseni ukufunda ngokwayo, kunokuba ube ngumntu ohlakaniphile. Iingcamango kukugxila ekuvuyiseni inkqubo yokufunda.

Abazali bafanele bagweme ukugxila kwiziphumo ezimbi kunye nezohlwayo. Kunokuba uxelele abantwana bakho "Ungalokothi unyuke esikolweni," uzame ukudumisa ukuhamba kakuhle nokuthatha inxaxheba esikolweni. Ukuba abantwana kunye nentsha baxelelwa oko bangayenzi kwaye bafumana izijeziso ngokungathobeli, baya kuhlakulela isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo malunga nokufunda nokufunda.

Abalawuli beSikolo kunye nootitshala balwela ukuhlakulela ubudlelwane nabazali kwaye bawabandakanye esikolweni. Abasebenzi beSikolo kunye nabaqeqeshi bayazi malunga neziphumo kwiziphumo zemfundo yabantwana. Ootitshala nabo bafumana inkxaso eninzi kunye nokuqonda kubazali abachaphazelekayo esikolweni.

Abazali nabo banakho amathuba okukhuthaza inkxaso yezopolitiko ekuxhaseni isikolo xa beqhelana nendlela isikolo esisebenza ngayo kunye nezidingo zezikolo zendawo.

Ukuba wakha wazibuza ukuba uyamkeleka esikolweni somntwana wakho, impendulo yinto evukisayo ewe .

Ootitshala bangaphumelela ngakumbi kubafundi xa ootitshala banxulumano kunye nosapho. Abazali beentlanganiso kunye namanye amalungu omndeni anika ingqiqo enkulu kwimvelaphi yengane kunye namava okufunda. Oku kunokunceda ootitshala baqonde kangangoko amava omntwana wakho, kwaye mhlawumbi ufunde izifundo eziza kubandakanyeka kumntwana wakho.

Ulwalamano olungcono kunye nabazali lwenza kube lula ngutitshala ukuba axhumane nomzali malunga naluphi na uxhalaba olunokuthi luphuhlise , okanye ukwabelana ngolwazi oluhle anokufumana ngalo ngomntwana wakho. Ootitshala bayazi ukuba ukusebenzisana nabazali kunceda ukudala umoya ofana neqela kumntwana apho ukufunda kuya kuqiniswa ekhaya.

Izindlela onokuzibandakanya kuzo kwimfundo yabantwana bakho

Abazali banamathuba amaninzi ahlukeneyo okufumaneka ukuba bahlangane nezikolo zabantwana babo. Ngezantsi uzakufumana ukulungelelaniswa kwezigaba ezi-6 ezibanzi zokubandakanyeka kwabazali ezichongwe nguYoyce Epstein, PhD, kwiYunivesithi yaseYohkins.

• Ingaba i-Kid yakho idinga yonke into kwiNcwadi yoNcedo lweSikolo?

• Impilo yeSikolo ebalulekileyo kunye neFom yeZonyango zabantwana bakho

1. Uzali: Ukuphumelela ngokubeletha umntwana kunceda ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana ukhulisa izakhono eziyimfuneko kwaye unokufumana izixhobo zokuphumelela nakwiziko. Abazali banokuphuhlisa izakhono zabo zabazali ngokufunda malunga nophuhliso lwabantwana. Iingxoxo okanye iikholeji zabazali zinokukunceda kule nto. Izikolo ezininzi ngoku zibonelela ngeziganeko zemfundo yabazali ngokunjalo. Abazali banokufunda ngakumbi ngokufunda iincwadi, amaphephancwadi ahloniphekileyo, okanye ukuhlola iiwebhusayithi ezithembekileyo ezifana ne-Wellwell.
   
2. Ukuthetha: Ukuthetha ngokufanelekileyo nesikolo kunye nootitshala kubalulekile ekubandakanyekeni kwabazali. Yiyo ndlela abazali abayifumana ngayo into eyenzekayo ebomini babo bomfundi. Ukuya kwintlalo-ntlalontle kunye neenkomfa zabazali-titshala kunokunceda ukuseka unxibelelwano olufanelekileyo. Fumana ukuba isikolo sakho somntwana sinencwadi ebhaliweyo yebhanki kubazali ukuyijonga, kunye neendlela ezikhethwa ngutitshala zokwabelana ngolwazi (i-imeyile, ifoni, njl.
   
3. Ukuzithandela: Izikolo zidinga inkxaso eninzi ukuqhuba ngokufanelekileyo. Oku kudala amathuba amaninzi okuvolontiya kubazali. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ziphi izakhono okanye imvelaphi yakho, isikolo somntwana wakho singasebenzisa lwakho uncedo ngandlela-thile. Ukuba uyakwazi kuphela ukunikezela ixesha elincinane lexesha levolontiya, kuya kusinceda isikolo kunye nomntwana wakho, ngeli xesha liyakongeza. Umntwana wakho uya kukubona uthatha ixesha lakho ukuxhasa isikolo sabo, kwaye oko kuya kubonisa ukuba kubaluleka kwempumelelo yesikolo.
   
4. Ukufunda ekhaya: Abazali banokwandisa ukufunda kwimimandla yasekhaya ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, ezifana nokubonelela ngomsebenzi wesikolo . Unokubonelela ngeencwadi ezifanelekileyo zeminyaka yobudala kunye nokufunda kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokukhuthaza ukufunda. Yisebenzise imisebenzi yansuku zonke njengokupheka, esebenzisa izakhono zamatriki ezifana nokulinganisa kunye namaqhezu.
   
5. Ukwenza isigqibo: Abazali banokuthatha inxaxheba kwizigqibo ezenziwe esikolweni nakwiinkqubo zesikolo. Oku kungenza ulwahlulo lwenkqubo lubandakanyeke ne- PTA / PTO okanye ibhunga lesayithi leziko. Abalawuli besikolo bayazi ukubaluleka kokubandakanya uluntu lwasekuhlaleni-ikakhulu nabazali-ekudaleni umgaqo-nkqubo wesikolo. Ngokubandakanya abazali kwinkqubo yokwenza izigqibo, iimfuno zentsapho zendawo ziqondwa kangcono. Iipolisi zixhaswa ngakumbi kwaye zilandelwa xa abazali benendima ekudaleni.
   
6. Ukusebenzisana Noluntu: Izikolo zinceda xa usebenzisa izibonelelo zendawo ezikhoyo kuzo. Abazali bamalungu acacileyo kuluntu. Abazali abaninzi banxibelelwano olongezelelweyo ukuba banokudibanisa esikolweni. Ngokomzekelo, abazali bangasebenzela inkampani enokunika inkxaso kwisikolo ngokuxhasa imisebenzi. Iingcali zengcali kunye nabacebisi besikolo bangaba ngabazali, izalamane, okanye abasebenzi basebenzisane nabazali.

Akunakufuneka wenze zonke ezintandathu zale xesha lonke. Ezinye zezenzo, ezifana nokukhulisa abantwana kunye nokuthetha, zindlela abazali ababandakanyeka ngayo ngexesha labo abantwana esikolweni. Ezinye izinto, ezifana nokuzithandela kunye nokwenza izigqibo, yinto eyenziwa ngabazali okanye abangenzi. Abazali banokubandakanyeka kunye nomsebenzi wobude bexesha kwaye bangabandakanyeki kwindlela ethile ngamanye amaxesha.

Ubomi Bemihla ngemihla yoNtsapho kunye nabantwana besikolo

Imisebenzi enempembelelo enkulu kwimpumelelo yezemfundo kunye nexesha elizayo inexesha elide lokutshala imali kubo. Oku kufana nomsebenzi, kodwa abazali abaninzi bakubona oku njengolonwabo nozuko, kunokuba kube ngumthwalo. Imisebenzi efana nokufunda rhoqo abantwana bakho , ukuthatha ixesha lokuthetha nabo ngosuku lwabo lwesikolo kunye neminqweno yabo, kwaye ukuba nesitayela somzali esisebenzayo kuboniswe ukuba banefuthe elikhulu kunemisebenzi yokubonisa, njengokuhamba kwabazali kwimisebenzi yesikolo okanye kunye nemigaqo yekhaya , ngokwemeta-analysis of the involvement of the researcher of the Harvard Family Family Project.

Oko oku kuphakamisa ukuba ukuphumelela kwabazali kwimpumelelo yesikolo kukuphathelele ekuphuhliseni ubudlelwane bomzali obunomgangatho obunxibelelwano lwexabiso lemfundo kwaye unika umntwana ngezixhobo zokuphumelela.

Igama elivela kwi-Verywell

Ubambe indima ekhethekileyo ebomini bomntwana wakho. Unempembelelo enkulu kunoma ubani ekuphuhlisweni kwakhe. Uyazi umntanakho kangcono kunomnye umntu kwaye ufanelekile ngokukhethekileyo ukunika umntwana inkxaso ekufuneka aphumelele, kwaye ukukhuthaza iimfuno zakhe njengoko ubona kufanelekile. Nangona iimeko zesikolo zinokubonakala zinzima kwaye zinzima ngamanye amaxesha, ootitshala kunye nezikolo zikhona ukuze kuncede umntwana wakho afunde izakhono abaya kuzifuna ngexesha labo.

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