Ukufumana Ukunyamekela kwabantwana

Ingqwalaselo yoLondolozo lweMpilo lwaBantwana

Emva kwenkqubo eninzi kunye neyobuhlungu, ekugqibeleni ufumene isikhungo somnakekeli okanye wosondlo onokuziva ukhululekile kunye kunye nezidingo zeentsapho zakho! Uyazi njani ukuba ngokwenene benza umsebenzi omuhle nangona kunjalo? Funda indlela yokuvavanya isigqibo sakho nokuvavanya umgangatho weziko lokunakekela abantwana okanye umboneleli.

Amaziko eSondlo

Iziphumo eziliqela zifumene ukuba iinkqubo zokunakekela abantwana ezinempilo zinempawu ezithile.

Izalathisi zemigangatho zilinganisa iimeko ezivame ukukhuthaza indawo ekhuselekileyo, ekukhuliseni nasekukhuthazeni abantwana. Ezi zinto ziquka:

LezeMpilo noKhuseleko

Ukulandelela abantwana

Ilayisenisi noqeqesho lootitshala

Ucoceko

Umgangatho wababoneleli

Abazali

Nannies

Olu luhlu lulandelayo lunokukunceda ukuba uhlolisise umviwa oneminyaka engama-50 okanye umntana osuvele unayo:

Ngaba uMgangatho woLondolozo lwaBantwana olawulwayo?

Kubalulekile ukufunda malunga neemfuno ezahlukeneyo zokulayisenisa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zabanikezeli benkonzo yabantwana. Phantse onke amaziko okunakekelwa kwelanga, nokuba ingaba yinkcubeko yendabuko okanye esekhaya, kufuneka ahlangabezane nemimiselo yeelayisenisi karhulumente kwimpilo nokhuseleko ukuqhuba-kodwa abanye bengenalo.

Ngokufanelekileyo, isikhungo sokunakekelwa kwamasango siya kuvunyelwa nguMbutho kaZwelonke weMfundo yabantwana abaselula (NAEYC).

Ilayisenisi, nangona kunjalo, ayikho isiqinisekiso sokunakekelwa kwekhwalithi. Kufuneka ucele nayiphi na umniki-mboleko ukuba akubonise iziqinisekiso kwaye ubize isebe lesebe lentlalo yoluntu ukuba uphinde ukhangele. Ukuba nelayisenisi ibonisa ukuba umniki-nkonzo wakho uthatha ubuncinane ubunqamle beqhosha lobugcisa emsebenzini wabo.

IiNkundla zeeNkundla zeeNkundla kunye neeNdawo

Ezinye iintsuku zokuhlala ekhaya zivunywe nguMbutho kaZwelonke woLondolozo lwaBantwana kwiNtsapho. Uninzi luyakongezwa rhoqo, kodwa inkqubo yokwamkelwa ingathabatha phantse unyaka kwaye iindleko ezilikhulu zamadola. Umbutho unemigangatho echanekileyo kunye neziko kufuneka lifumane ukutyelelwa kwangaphakathi komntu ngaphambi kokuvunywa. Ukufumana oku kukuphawu olucacileyo lobungakanani!

Ukuba umntu, onjengo-nanny, uza ekhaya lakho, akukho mfuneko yelayisenisi. Abanikezeli bokunakekelwa kwezingane ekungeneni, ezifana nokunyamekelwa kwabantwana kwiiklabhu zempilo , iicawa, iinkqubo zokuzonwabisa zesikhungo, okanye ngaphambi okanye emva kokunyamekelwa koluntu kusetyenziswa izithili zesikolo kwaye abadingi iilayisenisi.

Ukuvavanya uMgangatho weZiko loKhathalela abantwana / uMboneleli

Ngaphambi kokuba ukhethe unonophelo okanye unomnye unonophelo, unokufumana umgangatho wekhwalithi enikezwa ngokuthatha ityelelo, ukuyeka ngokungakhankanywanga, okanye ukuthetha nabanye abazali abathumela umntwana kwiziko okanye ukusebenzisa / basebenzise umxhasi ofanayo.

Daycares

Xa umntwana wakho ehamba kwintlalontle, unokufumana umgangatho wobungakanani ngeendlela ezimbalwa:

Nannies

Ngaphambi kokuba uqeshe i-nanny, kufuneka ukhulume ngokubhekiselele, wenze ityala apho unokuzigcina usebenzisana nomntwana wakho ngenkathi uhlala ekhaya, kwaye ubuze imibuzo yongxoxo-ndlebe ukuze ulingise indlela abaza kuyenza ngayo kunye neemeko ezithile.

Emva kokuba uqeshe umntwana, khawuqwalasele ukusebenzisana kwabo nomntwana wakho. Ingaba umntwana wakho uyavuya xa ebabona okanye ingabe ubonakala eyika, exhala, okanye enqabileyo? Ukuba usebenza ukusuka ekhaya kukukhetha, unokukhetha ukuphulaphula oko kuqhubekayo. Unokubuyela ekhaya kusasa ngaphandle kokuzisa le nanyana. Abanye abazali baze bamise ikhamera ye-nanny ukuze babone oko kwenzekayo xa behamba.

Ukunyamekela

Ukuziphatha komntwana nomlomo wakho kungabonisi bezona zinto zingabonakali kakuhle. Khangela le miqondiso engayibonisa ukuba umntwana wakho akakonwabanga kwinqanaba lomhla okanye nge-nanny:

Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ukuxhalabisa okuhlukile kuyinto eqhelekileyo . Ukuba umntwana wakho udabukile ukuba akushiye kwaye ahambe nomboneleli womntwana, akukho uxhulumano ngqo kumgangatho womboneleli. Nangona ukuba umntwana wakho wakhala ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye wenqabe ukuhamba nomboneleli, qaphela kwaye ujonge ezinye iimpawu.

Iimpawu eziMgangatho obonakalayo

Njengabazali, siyazi ukuba imeko yinto engafanelekanga ngayo abantwana bethu. Ukuba unemvakalelo embi, kholosa isisu sakho kwaye utshintshe imeko yakho yokunakekela abantwana xa kuyimfuneko. Khangela oku kulandelayo:

Daycares

Nannies

Ukuphucula umgangatho wokuNakekela

Kwabazali abahlala benwabile kunye nomntwana wabo okanye ukunakekelwa kwamasango banesikhalazo okanye iindawo abafisa ukuzenza ziya kuphucula ngezikhathi ezithile. Kubalulekile ukuxoxa ngeziganeko ezixhalabisayo xa beza ukwenzela ukuba ungakheli intukuthelo okanye uqale ukudala uluhlu lwezikhalazo entloko yakho. Ezi ngcebiso zinokukunceda:

UNxibelelwano luyintloko

Ukuvulwa koqhagamshelwano nababoneleli ngeenkonzo zokunakekelwa kwabantwana kuyisitshixo kulwalamano oluhle. Kuxanduva lwakho njengomzali ukuthetha ngemithetho yendlu kwaye yintoni eyamkelekileyo emsebenzini. Mhlawumbi umntanakho wanikela umntwana wakho i-candy kwaye awufuni ukuba benze njalo. Isiseko xa ukujongana nale meko ngendlela enzulu ngayo.

Zama ukuba nencoko ngaphandle komntwana kwiindlebe ukuze ilawulwe ngasese. Cacisa imeko kwaye usebenze nomnxeba wakho ukuqinisekisa ukuba akuyi kwenzeka kwakhona. Yenza incwadi yelogi apho ubini ufake khona amanqaku okanye olunye ulwazi olubalulekileyo malunga nosuku.

Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba abanonophelo bahambelane nokulala, ukutya kunye nokuqeqesha, ngoko xubusha izinto ozilindeleyo kunye nomntwana wakho kwaye usebenze kunye njengeqela.

Ishedyuli Iintlanganiso

Beka iintlanganiso ezide zisesemthethweni kunye nomboneleli wakho wokunakekela abantwana njengoko kufuneka. Qinisekisa ukuba unokuthetha nomboneleli wakho ngaphandle kokuphulaphula umntwana wakho. Abazali bafanele beze kwiintlanganiso kunye ne-agenda kwaye basebenzise ixesha lokuthetha malunga neengxaki.

Ngeeshedyuli ezixakekileyo zabantu, ngamanye amaxesha abazali banamathuba amancinci athile kunye namanye ama-nannies emva kwemizuzu embalwa ekuqaleni nasekupheleni kosuku. Kubalulekile ukubeka eceleni ixesha lokuthetha nayiphi na imiba okanye imibuzo.

Ukuthatha Isenzo

Ukuba uzame ukulungisa imeko yakho yokunakekelwa kwengane kwaye uvakalelwa kukuba ayisebenzi, lixesha lokucinga kwakhona imeko. Unokuba:

Zonke ezo zivakalelo ziqhelekileyo, kodwa akukho mzali onokumanyamezela imeko yokunakekelwa kwengane xa beziva ukuba abantwana babo abavuyayo okanye bengabonwa kakuhle. Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe umntwana wakho ekunakekeleni kweso okanye ukudubula i-nanny yakho, qwalasela okukhethwa kukho: