Izizathu ezili-10 zokutshaya i-Nanny

Ukufumana nokulondoloza umnxeba kuyinkqubo enzima. Ubuhlobo bomnxeba / umzali bunzima kwaye kuya kubakho ukungavumelani nokuxabana . Uninzi lweemeko lunokusetyenziswa kunye noqhagamshelwano oluvulekileyo kunye nentsebenziswano, nangona kunjalo, kukho iimeko ezithile xa abazali befanele baqhube umlilo ngokukhawuleza.

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Ukumiswa kokuShatshazwa

Naziphi na iimpawu ezibhekiselele ekunyanzelweni kwengqondo, ngokomzimba okanye ngokwesondo somntwana wakho sizathu sokukhawuleza. Ukuba unenkxalabo ungafuna ukufaka ikhamni ye- nanny (ukuba urhulumente wakho uvumela). Nika ingqalelo kumanqaku angacacileyo okanye imivimbo, ukulimala okanye utshintsho olusenyameko kwisimo somntwana wakho. Ezi zinokuba yimpawu zokusetyenziswa kakubi, kodwa zinokunye ukuchazwa. Ukuxhatshazwa kuyisityholo esinzulu esingafanele sithathwe ngokulula.

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Ubusela

Ukuba umntanakho uba kuwe, kukho isizathu sokuphelisa ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba iimpahla zakho ezixabisekileyo zilahlekile kwaye ungaze uphenduke, oku kungabonakalisa ukuba unelala ekhaya lakho. Zithembele wena, kodwa zama ukufumana ubungqina ngaphambi kokumangalela nokudubula i-nanny yakho.

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Ukunganakwa / ukunyaniseka

Umntwana ongenakuyinyamekela umntwana wakho yingxaki, kodwa oku kungabi yimbangela yokuphelisa ukuba uzimisele ukutshintsha indlela yakhe yokuziphatha. Ngamanye amaxesha lo mpawu ubangelwa kukungabikho kwamava kwaye unokutshintshwa ngokukhokelwa kunye nokuqeqesha.

Ukunyanzeliswa ngokuzikhethela sisizathu sokupheliswa ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba abantwana bakho bahlala belambile, bengcolile okanye badinga ukutshintshwa banokuthi bangayinakwa.

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Ukuhlukunyezwa kwesiyobisi

Ukusetyenziswa kotywala okanye iziyobisi ngexesha lomsebenzi kubangelwa ukupheliswa kokukhawuleza. Ukuba ufumana iziyobisi ezingaziwa okanye utywala ekhaya lakho, phelisa ubuhlobo ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba ubona umlingani wakho ongeyonto okanye engekho kuwo, kubalulekile ukuthembela emathunjini ngenxa yokuba ukhuseleko lwabantwana bakho lusengozini.

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Ukungathembeki

Ukuthembela kubalulekile kubunini bomzali / umzali. Ukuba ubamba i-nanny yakho ukuthetha ubuxoki obuphindaphindiweyo, unesizathu sokukhathazeka. Unokufuna ukwabelana ngeenkxalabo zakho kunye nomntwana wakho, kodwa zama ukuthetha naye ngendlela engamangalelwa. Ukuba uthetha amanga amancinci, unokukwazi ukulungisa imeko ngokuthetha ngokukhululekile. Amanga amakhulu angenza ikhefu elingenakulinganiswa nobudlelwane bakho

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Ngenakwenzeka

Ukunyaniseka kuyimfuneko ebalulekileyo yomsebenzi wenkcazelo yomsebenzi. Wonke umntu uhamba ngokukhawuleza ixesha elide, kodwa ukuba umntanakho uhlala emva okanye ubiza rhoqo, kunokuchaphazela ukusebenza kwakho komsebenzi. Musa ukubeka umngcipheko kumsebenzi wakho ukubambelela kumntwana ongenakuthenjwa. Ngaphambi kokudubula umfana, khuluma naye malunga neenkxalabo zakho.

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Ukukhathazeka kwabantwana

Ukuze uhambe emsebenzini kwaye wenze umsebenzi omhle, kufuneka uzive ukuba abantwana bakho bakhuselekile kwaye banakekelwa kakuhle. Ukuba ungaziva ukhuselekile ekunakekeleni komntwana wakho ukuba unakekele abantwana bakho, unokufuna ukucinga kwakhona ngolu hlobo.

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Ukungaphumeleli Ukunyanzelisa iMithetho yeNdlu

Njengomqeshi wakho, umfana wakho kufuneka alandele kwaye ayinyanzelise imithetho yakho yendlu, nokuba uyavumelana nabo okanye cha. Ukuba umntanakho akayithobeli imithetho yakho, mhlawumbi akunjalo. Thetha nomntwana wakho ngezenzo zakhe. Unokuba nesizathu esihle kwaye unokufunda omnye komnye. Ukuba akafuni nje ukuthobela imithetho yakho kwaye engenayo inkcazelo, kuyona nto ibhetele ukuhlula iindlela.

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Shedyuli yoTshintsho

Nangona kusebenza kakuhle, ukucwangcisa utshintsho kungabangela isizathu sokuba isivumelwano se-nanny siphele. Xa abantwana beya esikolweni, abazali bahlala befuna ukunciphisa iiyure. Kule meko, umntanakho usenokuba nguye oza kuzigxotha. Ukuba ufumana umsebenzi omtsha ngeeyure ezahlukileyo kunokuba uvumelene ekuqaleni, unina wakho unelungelo lokuhamba.

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Ukuhamba

Ukuba intsapho yakho iyahamba, kukho amathuba okuba ulwalamano lwakho lomntwana luya kugqitywa. Ngokuxhomekeke kwimeko kunye nekhono lomnxeba lokuhamba, isivumelwano siza kufikelela ekupheleni okungalindelekanga naphezu kokusebenza komntwana kunye nokwaneliseka ngumsebenzi wakhe.