Umncedi woMama ngumntu onceda umzali okanye intsapho efuna ukunakekelwa okongeziweyo kunye nabantwana babo ngelixa umzali usekhaya. Le nxaxheba idla ngokubanjelwa ngamantombazana amancinci, ngabafana abaselula okanye abafundi beekholeji, abangenalo ixesha elizeleyo lokufunda abantwana ukuze bafumane izakhono kunye nokuqeqeshwa kwiindawo eziza kubantwana. Ngenxa yemisebenzi eyahlukeneyo kwaye ngenxa yokuba umntu omdala uhlala ekhaya kwakhona, indima eyahlukileyo kunokuba yinkqubo yokunceda umntwana , umntwana okanye umnakekeli wekhaya .
Ukusetyenziswa okuqhubekayo koMama kaNcedisi kubazali abasebenza ekhaya, esikolweni okanye ekhaya. AbaNcedi baMama abafunwa ukuba babe noqeqesho okanye iimfundo ezithile, kodwa uqeqesho lweCPR kunye noqeqesho lokuqala luyacetyiswa.
Yintoni uMncedi kaMama ayenzayo?
Umncedi kaMama usebenza kakhulu phantsi kwelinye iliso ukujongana nayo yonke imiba yokunakekelwa kwabantwana, imirhumo, ukulungiswa kokutya okulula kunye nomsebenzi wendlu yokukhanya. Unokwenza umqeshi uncedo kumama ngezizathu ezininzi. Eminye indlela uMncedi kaMama angenza ubomi bomzali kulula ngakumbi kubandakanya:
- Ukudlala nabantwana ngelixa umama esenza umsebenzi othile okanye ehamba kwidilesi yenkomfa.
- Ukwenza ukutya okulula kunye nokulungiselela ukutya.
- Ukunceda ngomsebenzi wesikolo.
- Ukuzonwabisa umncinci ngelixa ukondla umama, ukhuthaze, uthathe umntwana okanye uncede abantwana asebekhulile ngomsebenzi wesikolo.
- Ukwenza izitya ngelixa umama edlala nezingane.
- Ukuvumela umama ukuba athathe i-nap efunekayo okanye i-shower okanye i-break break.
- Ivumela umama ukuba enze izinto zokulawula zenziwe, njengokuhlawula iibhilidi, ukuhlamba nokuhlaziya indlu.
Kukho iindlela ezininzi onokuzenza umcebisi wakho uncedo kwiimfuno ezithile zentsapho yakho. Lo msebenzi uguquguquke kakhulu, unokuba yinxalenye yexesha okanye ixesha elipheleleyo, uhlala okanye uphile ngaphandle, unokubandakanya ukufumana abantwana ngexesha elithile (xa umncedisi ehlawuliswa kuphela), kwaye unokuba ngumsebenzi weeyure okanye umvuzo.
Ndingafumanaphi Uncedo Lomama?
Indlela eyona ndlela yokufumana umncedisi womama ivela ekuthunyelwe, ngegama lomlomo kwaye usebenzisa udibaniso oluneendawo zakho. Buza malunga neqela lokudlala, i-YMCA, iklasi yokuzivocavoca, okanye kwiqela lakho lencwadi. Uninzi lwabafana bentsha okanye i-tweens banomdla wokunceda iintombi zabo zithole izakhono zokufunda. Hlela ixesha lokuthetha nomncedi womama wakho kunye nabazali bakhe ukuqinisekisa ukuba wonke umntu uyavumelana phambi kokuba umqeshe.
Ndingamqeqesha njani uMncedi kaMama?
Njengoko umzali kungumthwalo wakho wokuqeqesha uMama woMncedi ukunceda intsapho yakho ngendlela eyona nto iluncedo kuwe. Mnike imiyalelo enzulu malunga nendlela anokuncedisa ngayo. Uncedo lwabaMama abaninzi bancinane kwaye banokuba lutsha kwendima ukuze kube yinto ecacileyo ngokunokwenzeka malunga nezidingo zakho, iimfuno kunye nexesha lemisebenzi yexesha kunye nekhefu.
Abancedi baMama bahlawula njani?
Ukuhlawulelwa kuya kuhluka, kuxhomekeke kumava kunye nalapho uhlala khona. Ukuba ungumntu wokuqala usapho oye wancedisa, i-$ 3 ngeyure iyinqanaba elivulekile. Njengoko ixesha liqhubeka kwaye uncedo lomama wakho ufikelela kwiminyaka yobudala yokuzalwa , uya kufuna ukuphakamisa umyinge wakhe ubuncinci umvuzo okanye nayiphi na isantya sokuhamba kwindawo yakho. Fumana iirhafu zokufumana abantwana apha.
Udliwano-ndlebe kunye nokuHlala
Emva kokuba ufumene uncedo lwabaNina boMama, misela udliwano-ndlebe. Ngethuba ludliwano-ndlebe banokuthi bancedisane nabantwana bakho, ngakumbi ukuba loo nto iya kuba ngumsebenzi wakhe oyintloko. Yithobela amandla akhe. Ngaba uyayonwaba, asebenzisane kwaye unomusa kubantwana? Sebenzisa i-intuition yomama wakho kwaye ukhethe umntu ozisa ukumncoma ebusweni bakho kunye nomntu oya kufumana kakuhle kwintsapho yakho.
Xa usugqibile kwi-Mother's Helper, misela imimiselo nemimiselo yekhaya. Xoxa ngezinto zokutya ezingabantwana kwaye abavunyelwe ukuba badle. Ngaba uMncedi woMama uvumelekile kuwo onke amagumbi ekhaya okanye unemida?
Beka imida ngaphambi kobudlelwane kwaye ubambelele kubo. Imida yomzimba kunye nemizwelo ibalulekile xa unomntu osebenza ekhaya lakho kunye nabantwana bakho. Kumantombazana amaninzi, oku kungaba ngumsebenzi wabo wokuqala ukwenzela ukuba wenze ukuba ulindelekile. Xa abantu bayazi ukuba balindele ntoni, banokukhululeka kwaye banokwenza umsebenzi olungcono.