Fumana ukuba isabelo senani sikulungele wena nendlela yokusekela impumelelo
I-Nanny Share xa iintsapho ezimbini zenza ilungiselelo lokuba nomntwana. Iintlawulo kukunciphisa iindleko zokunakekelwa kwabantwana kunye nokunika abantwana abandayo abadlalwa nabo ngaphandle kokungabonakali kwiintlobo ezininzi zegciwane abanokubamba ukuba bathunyelwe kwiziko lokunakekelwa kwamasango okanye kwondlo lwekhaya.
Nangona uhlala ukhokhela i-$ 1 okanye i-$ 2 ngaphezulu ngeyure kumntwana onakekela abantwana ababini ngokuchasene neyodwa, ephantsi kakhulu kunokuba ngaba iintsapho ezimbini ziza kuhlawula ngokwahlukileyo.
Abanye abantu banokuyithatha njengengxenye yomntwana xa intsapho yakho isebenzisa umntwana ngoMsombuluko, ngoLwesithathu, nakwesiLwesihlanu kwaye enye intsapho iyimqesha ngolwesiLwesine neLwesine, kodwa loo nto ayiyiyo inxalenye yomntwana. Isabelo senani lesinyani xa i-nanny ibukela abantwana babantwana bentsapho ngexesha elinye kwiintsuku ezintlanu ngeveki.
Ukuba ucinga ukukwabelana nomntwana kunye nolunye usapho apha kukho ezinye izicwangciso zokuqinisekisa ukuba eli lungiselelo lilungele ukuba bobabini.
Qiniseka ukuba Bobabili Iintsapho Zakho Ziya Kuphila Kanye
Ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba usapho lwakho kunye nolunye usapho lufanelekile. Emva koko, enye intsapho kwinxalenye ye-nanny iya kubakho ezinye zeenkcukacha ezintle zobomi bakho. Bakukubona ngokukhawuleza emnyango; Bayazi malunga neentsuku xa ushiya izitya zokudla kwasekuseni ezingcolileyo kwindawo yokucima yonke imini. Ukuba intsapho enye isilonda ngokukhawuleza kwaye inomnye uhlehlisiwe kodwa ungakhathazeki, uye waya kutshintshana ngexesha elithile.
Umgca ongundoqo ngaba uyabathanda laba bantu abaneleyo ukwabelana ngononophelo lwabantwana? Ngaba unokuziva ukhululekile ukuthetha nabo malunga nokubeletha, ukondla, uqeqesho, imisebenzi yangaphandle kunye nezicwangciso zakho zokuzala? Ngaba kubonakala ngathi yintsapho onokuyenza nayo nayiphi na ingxaki ngendlela yombutho kunye neyengqondo?
Unokudinga ukuhamba "emanzini omhla" ngaphambi kokuba ufumane okufanelekileyo. Ewe, oku kunokuba nzima, kodwa kungcono ukuphendula le mibuzo ngokunyanisekileyo ngokugqitywa kumalungiselelo okunyamekela abantwana kunye nosapho olunzima.
Ngaphandle kwendalo kunye noxilongo apha ke indlela ezi ntsapho ziqala ngayo ukusebenzisana. Ngokuqhelekileyo, oomama abalindayo baxhamla isabelo semali kwiiveki ngaphambi kokuba umntwana wabo afikelele, ngokufumana omnye umama okhulelwe oceba ukubuyela emsebenzini ngexesha elifanayo. Qinisekisa ukuba uhlala kwiphepha elifanayo ngexesha lokuphela kwekhefu lokubeleka kwaye akukho namnye unako ukugqiba ekubeni ngumama wokuhlala ekhaya.
Kwakhona, buza malunga neeyure zomsebenzi oqhelekileyo kunye nexesha elilindelekileyo, ukuze umntu omnye angagqiba ukugcina i-nanny ngokukhawuleza kwaye asebenze ixesha elide xa omnye umntu efika ekhaya ngexesha. Ngokufanelekileyo, uya kuhlala eduze komnye nomnye ukuze kungabi namnye uhamba ngaphandle kwendlela yokuyeka umntwana ekuhambeni kokusa.
Misela iMigaqo yoNgeniso yokuXhawula iNanny yakho
Emva kokuba ufumene intsapho efanelekileyo ukwabelana nomntwana kunye naye, unokuxoxa naye nomntwana kunye. Njengoko le nkqubo ihamba phambili, uya kufuna ukuphuhlisa imigaqo esemiselweyo yintoni na isabelo esichaphazelekayo. Ingaba uza kuzenza ezinye izindlu apho unakekeli uya kunika inkxaso?
Ukuba kunjalo, kaninzi kangakanani? Ezinye iintsapho zitshintshana imihla ngemihla, ngelixa abanye bangaphaya iiveki okanye bathathe iintsuku ezithile zeveki ukuze bakwazi ukucwangcisa okanye ngenxa yeeyure zomsebenzi ezahlukeneyo ngosuku ngalunye. Ngaba uya kulungelelanisa ikhefu zentsapho ukuze umntanakho analo ixesha elipheleleyo?
Ziziphi izinto ozilindeleyo kwithuba lesimo apho inxaxheba yenzana iya kwenzeka? Ingaba indawo yokudlala yabantwana ibonakala ngathi? Ngaba zikhona iiplokibhi ezimbini kwindlu nganye nge-naps, okanye ngaba i-nanny iya kuseka isikhalazo esikhutshwayo imihla ngemihla? Ingaba indlu nganye inkulu ngokwaneleyo ukuba umntwana ngamnye abe ne-nap kwigumbi lakhe? Uza kuthatha njani ubisi lobisi oluvakalayo, ukuba wena okanye omnye umama (okanye zombini) uceba ukumnceda?
Ngaba uya kuba nezihlalo eziphakamileyo ezimbini kunye nomqhubi ophindwe kabini kwindlu nganye-okanye uwagubungele?
Qinisekisa ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo oko kuya kubelwa. Ingaba uya kunika i-diapers, iinqwelo, iilinen, iibhotile kunye nezinye iimpahla kwiintsuku apho isabelo se-nanny sisendlwini yakho? Okanye ngaba ufanele ulethe ukunikezela kwakho kwenye indlu yentsapho? Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, uza kuyisebenzisa njani ukuba umntwana omnye ugula? Esinye isisombululo sokulawula ukuba umntwana omnye uyagula kwaye bajongwa ngumntwana wakho. Sebenzisa amanqaku ahlukeneyo amacwecwe ukufumanisa i-diapers yomntwana ngamnye, iibhotile kunye nezinye izinto ukuze kugcinwe i-germs ubuncinci.
Beka iMigaqo YesiGaba ekuBhaleni naseTyikitheni
Emva kokuba usebenze zonke iinkcukacha, zibhale kwisivumelwano sokuba zombini iintsapho kunye nomntwana uya kusayinela. Akudingeki ukuba ubophe ngokomthetho, kodwa ukuba kubhaliweyo kuya kukunceda ukuxazulula ukudideka kwangaphambili okanye ukungavumelani. Qinisekisa ukuba uquka okulindelekileyo kwixesha elizayo, njengokuba kwakuya kwenzeka ntoni ukuba intsapho inomnye umntwana. Ingaba ufanele uqhubeke nokuhlawula i-nanny ngexesha lakho lokubeleka? Ungayibhalela ngaphaya kangakanani le nanyana ukuba unakekele umntwana osana? (Ukucinga ukuba uzimisele ukulawula ezintathu.)
Cinga ukuseka intlanganiso yeentsapho ezidibeneyo kabini ngonyaka ukuhlaziya ngokusemthethweni ilungiselelo kwaye uxoxe nayiphi na ishedyuli okanye utshintsho lwezinto. Nangona uza kubona omnye nomnye, kukunceda ukuba ube nesakhiwo somhlangano ocwangcisiweyo ukuqinisekisa ukuba nayiphi na imiba eqathayo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufuna isivumelwano kunye nomnxeba wakho, ongayifumana kwii-templates ezininzi ezikhoyo okanye uzenzele ngoncedo lommeli. Oku kuza kupela iiyure zomsebenzi ezilindelekileyo, ixesha lokugula okanye yeeholide, ifowuni okanye ukusebenzisa iikhomputha, inzuzo kunye nomvuzo, kunjalo.
Ukwabelana ngeNanny kunokuba luncedo xa ufumana intsapho efanelekileyo ukudibanisa kunye naye, umntanakho okhululekile ukusebenza kunye neentsapho ezimbini, kunye nesivumelwano esibhaliweyo ukuze wonke umntu usekhasini. Nangona unokuba usondele kakhulu kunye nolunye usapho ukhumbule ukuba ngokwenene, ungena kwisivumelwano seshishini kunye nabantwana bakho njengenombolo yokuqala.