Sonke sinaloo mzuzu xa sisekho ndawo, intlanganiso, kuma-movie, xa sicinga ngokukhawuleza, "Ngaba ndikhumbule ukuba ndixelele i-sitter indlela ondifikelela ngayo ukuba iifowuni ziphuma / ziphi ummelwane ukuya kwindawo ngxakeko / apho umcima umlilo / / njl. " Okanye uyaqaphela ukuba ukhohliwe ukumxelela apho abantwana bakho abathandayo ukutya okuncinciweyo okanye oko akufanele babe khona (akukho ubisi ngaphambi kokuba ulele ngenxa yokuba baxhamla imimpi, umzekelo).
Isisombululo kuzo zonke izinto zokuqhelanisa okwesibili kunye nokubiza ikhaya: uluhlu lokuhlola abantwana.
Ukufumana uluhlu lwezinto zokuhlola abantwana yindlela efanelekileyo yokuqinisekisa ukuba i-sitter yakho inolwazi oluza kuyidinga. Ingaba abantwana bakho banomntu omdala othembekileyo okanye umfana osemzaneni, oxolo lwengqondo ukuba abantwana bakho baphephile kwaye bazonwabisa xa uphumelele kubalulekile kwaye kuyabaluleka. Ngexesha elilandelayo xa ufuna ukushiya abantwana bakho kunye ne-sitter, yenza uluhlu, ubuyekeze kunye naye, kwaye uyithumele kwindawo engundoqo apho angayifumana nayo nayiphi na into ayifunayo.
Yintoni ongayifaka kwi-Babysitter Checklist yakho
- Inombolo yakho yefowuni. Mcele ukuba abeke le fowuni yakhe ukuze afikelele ngokukhawuleza.
- Lapho ungasifumana khona kunye nombolo yefowuni yomhlaba apho uya kuba khona xa isevisi yeselfowuni iphazamiseka. Yaye ukuba unendawo yomhlaba, kufuneka ube nefowuni elula ejongene noludonga oluxhomekeke eludongeni ekubeni ezininzi iifowuni ezingenazintambo aziyi kusebenza xa kwenzeka umbane. Kodwa qiniseka ukuba ukhangele kunye nomniki-fowuni wakho ukuqinisekisa ukuba umhlaba wakho welizwe uya kuhlala usebenza kwaye uza kuba nokufikelela kwi-911 nangona kwenzeka umbane.
- Lapho i-kit yongxamiseko yamandla okuphuma kwamandla kunye nesiphumo esiphuthumayo. Ukuthetha ngeefowuni eziphuthumayo, qiniseka ukuba i-sitter yakho iyayazi apho i-kit yongxamiseko, kwaye ilungelelanise indawo eya kudibana nayo (njengendlu yommelwane) xa kwenzeka zonke iintetho.
- Uluhlu lweenombolo zeefowuni eziphuthumayo ezifana namapolisa, umlilo, ulawulo lweetyhefu, isazi sesibhedlele, isibhedlele sasekhaya, ikhemisi yakho.
- Idilesi yakho kunye nezikhokelo eziya endlwini yakho ukuze anike oku kubasebenzisi xa kwenzeka unxakeka
- Naluphi na ulwazi lwezokwelapha malunga nomntwana wakho, ukunyamezela, ulwazi lwe-inshorensi yempilo, igama lezingane kunye nenombolo.
- Uluhlu lweenombolo zefowuni zabamelwane abazithembekileyo, abahlobo kunye nezihlobo ezinokuqhagamshelana nayo ukuba akakwazi ukufikelela kuwe kwimeko engxamisekileyo. Baxelele kwangaphambili ukuba uya kuba ne-sitter ejonge abantwana bakho kunye nokuba sele beluhlu loqhagamshelwano oluphuthumayo.
- Ifomu lokukhululwa kwezokwelahla ngokunyamekela kwengane yakho xa kwenzeka unxunguphako
- Apho isiqhumiso somlilo. Qinisekisa ukuba unike imiyalelo yakho eqinileyo yokushiya indlu kunye nabantwana kwaye ubiza 911 ngaphandle ngaphandle kokuba umlilo ukhulu kunento encinci inokukhutshwa ngokukhawuleza kunye nesicima.
- Kuphi ikiti yokunceda yokuqala.
- Yiya phezu kwezinto zokuqala zokuncedisa, njengento oyenzayo ukuba umntwana wakho atye. Ukwazi i-CPR kunye neyokuqala uncedo ngowona mgaqo-siseko uza kukhangela kwi-babysitter efanelekileyo xa uxoxisana nabahlali.
- Yintoni enokuyenza xa umntwana wakho ephula umthetho okanye engafanelekanga. Ingcinga efanelekileyo yokusebenza isicwangciso sento omele ukuyenza ngayo kwaye akufanele uyenze ukuba umntwana wakho akaphulaphuli okanye akaziphathe.
- Naluphi na ukutya kokutya okanye izithintelo kunye nento enokuyenza xa kukho imeko engxamisekileyo okanye ukusabela kuyo nayiphi na ukutya, njenge-antihistamine eninzi yokunika okanye indlela yokunika umntwana wakho i-Epi Pen ipopu.
- Qaphela ukuba yikuphi ukutya okukhawulayo. Abantwana abangaphantsi kwe-4 akumele banikezwe iziqwenga ezinkulu zokutya, ngakumbi izinto ezifana neidiliya, i-candy elukhuni, i-popcorn kunye nezinja ezishushu.
- Ngaliphi ixesha okulindele ukuba abantwana balele embhedeni kunye nolwahlu lwezikhathi zabo zokulala , ezifana nokuhlamba kunye nencwadi eyintandokazi.
- Yimiboniso yeTV, iifilimu, okanye omnye umxholo we-tech abakwaziyo kwaye abanakuyibona. Umntwana wakho oneminyaka engama-7 unokutshatyalaliswa ngokubukela i-movie ye-PG-13, kodwa qinisekisa ukuba u-sitter wakho uyazi ngaphambili into engavunywanga nguwe.
- Lapho kufanele kwaye akufanele athathe abantwana. Ukuba ufuna ukuba athathe abantwana kwipaki, xubusha indlela eya kufika ngayo, umzekelo. Cacisa malunga noko ukulindele kwaye ufuna (ukuba abantwana basebenzise umzimba, ukuba bafaka ezininzi kwi-sunscreen okanye ukuba bafike ekhaya ngaphambi kobumnyama) ukuze kungabikho ukudideka malunga noko kulindeleke.
Izinto zokuHlola ezongezelelweyo kwiintsana
Ukuba unesana, qiniseka ukuba u-sitter uyazi oku okulandelayo:
- Beka umntwana ukuba alale kumqolo wakhe ukunciphisa ingozi ye-SIDS
- Ungalokothi unike umntwana ubusi (ubangela umngcipheko we- botulism ubuthi kubantwana abangaphantsi kwe-1 ubudala.)
- Ungalokothi ushiye umntwana olungalindelekanga, ngokukodwa phezulu kwetafile eguqukayo okanye kwindawo yokuhlambela
- Ungalokothi unike umntwana okanye umncinci ukutya ngaphandle kwezinto ozishiye ngokukhethekileyo (ukubonisa isifuba, umzekelo), kwaye uyitshise ngokucokisekileyo kwaye uhlolisise ubushushu ngaphambi kokuba unike umntwana.
Ezinye Iingcebiso Zokugcina Ingqondo
Ukuba umntwana wakho ungumntwana omtsha, mbuze ukuba eze okungenani imizuzu engama-30 kwiyure ngaphambi kokuba uhambe ukuze asebenzise ixesha kunye nezingane kwaye azi ukuba. (Okanye mhlawumbi kangcono, makhe afike aze adlale ngeyure ngelixa uhlala ekhaya ngosuku ngaphambi kokuba uhlelwe ukuba abele umntwana.)
Ungalindele ukuba u-sitter wakho abe ngumgcini wendlu yakho. Ukhona ukudlala nabantwana kwaye uyabondla kwaye uyabanyamekela; akufanele ilindeleke ukuba enze imisebenzi yasemakhaya (ngaphandle kokuba yinto enivumile ukuba uyihlawule eyongezelelweyo kwaye afuna ukuyenza emva kokuba abantwana bekhuselekile kwaye belele).
Qinisekisa ukuba ubeke eceleni kwesidlo kunye nokutya (kunye nesidlo sasemini ukuba ukhona kusasa emini) kwi-sitter yakho.
Qinisekisa ukuba i-sitter yakho inendlela ekhuselekileyo yokuya ekhaya, ingakumbi ukuba uyishumi elivisayo.