Ukukhetha umnyamekeli wokunakekela abantwana ukunyamekela abantwana bakho kuyisigqibo esibalulekileyo. Ubuhlobo bomzali bomzali buyinkimbinkimbi kuba lo mntu ngumqeshwa wakho kodwa naye uba yinxalenye yentsapho yakho. Umntanakho ngumntu oncike kuye; ngamanye amaxesha ngaphezu kokuba uxhomekeke kumyeni wakho okanye kwiintsapho. Unceda ukunyamekela abantwana bakho kwaye unike ithuba lokuba usebenze imihla ngemihla.
Ngelishwa, kuqhelekile kunokuba ucinge ukuba umfana uyeke ngokukhawuleza. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni umntanakho ukhetha ukushiya intsapho . Uvumelekile ukuba abuyele esikolweni okanye aphume kwimeko. Ngamanye amaxesha izizathu zibuhlungu kakhulu okanye zidideka ngenxa yokuba azikwazi ukucaciswa ngokulula. Unokuba novuyo ukusebenzela wena okanye unokufumana intsapho apho angenza imali eyengeziwe yokusebenza iiyure ezimbalwa.
Kungakhathaliseki isizathu, abantwana bakho baqhotyoshelwe kumntwana kwaye baya kudideka baze bathukuthele ngesigqibo sakhe sokushiya intsapho yakho. Nazi izicwangciso ezimbalwa zokuncedisa ukuba zihambe ngeemeko.
Susa Ubushushu kwaye Uhlale Ulungile
Ukuba umntanakho uhamba ngesaziso esincinane, uya kuba nemvakalelo emininzi, kuquka ukucinezeleka kunye nentlungu. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukususa le mvakalelo emibi xa uthetha nabantwana bakho malunga nokuhamba kwe-nanny.
Abantwana bakho baya kujonga kuwe ngendlela yokusabela ngayo nendlela yokujongana nale meko.
Umzekelo kubo otshintshayo akuyona into embi kwaye ubaxelele ukuba umntwana uya kunceda omnye usapho. Khumbuza ngezihlandlo ezimnandi ababenayo kunye ne-nanny kwaye bakhuthaze umntwana wakho ukuba akhulume ngokufanelekileyo ngobudlelwane bawo.
Khuthaza Abantwaba Bakho Ukuba Babelane Ngeemvakalelo Zabo
Ukuba ngaba unalo ulwalamano oluhle kunye nomntwana, umntwana wakho mhlawumbi unxulumano olukhethekileyo nalo mntu kwaye unokuba lusizi okanye udidekile ngokuhamba kwabo.
Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba akwazi ukuvakalisa indlela abaziva ngayo kunye nokumamela nokuxhasa umntwana wakho. Ungazixeleli iimvakalelo ezifanele okanye ezingafaneleki. Vumela umntwana wakho ithuba lokujamelana nokuguquka kwaye ulindele ukuba kukho ukuziphatha okanye ukuguquka kwemizwelo ngexesha loguquko.
Musa ukubeka ityala
Umntwana wakho unokuba nemibuzo emininzi malunga nokuba kutheni umfana ushiya. Phendula nayiphi na imibuzo enomntwana wakho ngendlela efanelekileyo. Musa ukubonelela ngolwazi olungaphezulu kunemfuneko malunga nale meko.
Qinisekisa umntwanakho ukuba akusiyo iphoso lakhe lokuba umntanami akasayi kuphinda ahlale ebomini babo bemihla ngemihla, kwaye mvumele umntwana wakho azi ukuba unako ukugcina ubudlelwane kunye nomnxeba ngokusebenzisa iincwadi kunye nokutyelela ngokuthe rhoqo ukuba umntwana uyavuma. Ukuthatha ezi nyathelo kuya kuqinisekisa umntwanakho ukuba ulawula isigqibo kwaye bonke abantu abadala baya kumxhasa ngenkqubela yabo yokutshilo i-nanny yabo.
Xoxa ngeCandelo elifanelekileyo leNanny
Ukuba umntanakho unikeza isaziso esifanelekileyo (iiveki ezimbini okanye ngaphezulu, kuxhomekeke kwisivumelwano sakho), yenza konke umzenze ukuba wenze inzuzo efanelekileyo kumntwana wakho). Unokulingwa ukuba umphelise ngokukhawuleza ngenxa yokuba unomsindo okanye utyhafile, kodwa esi sinqumo esingalunganga kumntwana wakho.
Ixesha elifanelekileyo lokutya liya kuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba ahlangabezane neemvakalelo zakhe kwaye abe nomuvo wokuvalwa. Ukuqeda ulwalamano lwengqesho ngokukhawuleza luthumela umyalezo kumntwanakho ukuba abantu abalulekileyo baphuma emkhatsini womnye nomnye kwaye banokunyusa ukuxhalaba kwakhe okanye ukudala ezinye iimvakalelo ezimbi.
Khumbula, Abantwana abaxhamli
Ukulahlekelwa ngumntwana ngamanye amaxesha kuninzi kunengqondo kumzali kunokuba umntwana. Abantwana banokuguquguquka, banokuzimelela, kwaye bayamkela utshintsho lula ngakumbi kunabantu abadala abaninzi. Ukuba umzekelo kumntwana wakho ukuba yonke into iya kulungile kwaye ingabeki imizwa yakho embi kumntwana wakho, umntwana wakho uya kubuyela ngokukhawuleza.
Kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba umntwana wakho uya kudala iimbopheleleko ezikhethekileyo kunye nabaninzi abanonophelo kunye nootitshala kulo lonke ubomi babo kwaye banako ukuthanda omnye umntwana.