Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni umntanakho ukhetha ukuphelisa ulwalamano nabaqeshi babo. Ukuba uyazi izizathu, kunokuba lula ukuba uziphephe kwaye uncedise ixesha elide kunye nokomeleza ulwalamano lwakho kunye nomntwana wakho, obalulekileyo ekukhuleni komntwana kunye nenhlalakahle, kungekhona nje ngokuba ubeka umzekelo omhle wokuqina ulwalamano kodwa nangenxa yokuba umntwana wakho usenokuba noqhagamshelwano olunzulu kunye nomntwana wakho.
1. Ukungabikho koNxibelelwano
Unxibelelwano ngenye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu kumzali womzali. Unokuthanda umntanakho kuba ungumntu onolonwabo, ongekho-mbambano kunye nomgcini woxolo nabantwana bakho, kodwa ezi ziimpawu zinokuba yingxaki ngokwemiba yoqhagamshelwano
Ubuhlobo bomzali bomnxeba kubandakanya abantu abaneemvelaphi ezahlukahlukeneyo eziza kunye nenjongo ekwabelwana ngayo yokukhulisa ngempumelelo abantwana. Ukuphazamiseka kunye nentukuthelo kuya kwenzeka ukuba akukho ukuxhumana rhoqo. Ngaphambi kokuba ulwalamano lwakho luqalise, xubusha kunye nomntu oza kuba ngumntu obalulekileyo kubonxibelelwano kuwe kwaye xa usebenza naye, qiniseka ukuba unike i-nanny indawo ekhuselekileyo yokwabelana ngemvakalelo yakhe. Ngaphandle kokungena kwansuku zonke kwindlela ongena ngayo nangaphandle okuqhelekileyo ngemini yengane kunye neshedyuli, kukulungile ukubeka eceleni ixesha elide kunye ngenyanga okanye rhoqo rhoqo ukuxoxa ngendlela umsebenzi oyenzela ngayo.
2. Ukutshintshwa koxanduva lweJob
I-Nanny iqeshwe ukwenza imisebenzi ethile, unakekele inani elithile labantwana. Ukuba uqala ukucela umntanakho ukwenza imisebenzi eyongezelelweyo, nokuba yincinci, ngaphandle kokuxoxisana okanye ukuhlawulela, izinto zingagcina ziphendule. Umntwana akufanele ahlaziye ikhitshi yakho ukuze wenze isidlo sakusasa kubantwana bakho.
Ukuba isivumelwano sakhe sithi uya kwenza uhlamba lwabantwana, oku akunika abazali ithuba lokumcela ukuba enze uhlamba. Ungatshintshi imisebenzi yakhe ngokungalindelekanga kwaye ucinge ukuba ulungile.
3. Uluhlu lweeShedyuli
Umnxeba uqeshwa ukuba asebenze usethe iintsuku kunye neeyure. Ukuba uya kuqhubeka utshintsha ishedyuli yakho, qhagamshelana nomntwana wakho kwaye ubone ukuba oku kusebenza kuye. Unobomi ngaphandle kokubukela abantwana bakho ngoko umbuza ukuba yini eyisebenzelayo. Iishedyuli zitshintsha njengoko abantwana bekhula kodwa abazali akufanele bathabathe ukuba umntwana uya kuvuya ukufumana zonke iinguqulelo. Buza i-nanny yakho indlela evakalelwa ngayo ukuba utshintsho olutsha luya kumchaphazela. Ukuba akunjalo, uhlobo oluthile lokungqubuzana lungadinga ukuba lwenzeke, okanye ngelanga, unokuphelisa iindlela zokuhlukana.
4. Ukungabi Nokwazisa
AmaNannies achitha yonke imihla ukunyamekela abantwana, njengokuba sonke siyazi, akuyona into elula! Kwiindawo zethu ezixakekileyo kunye neeshedyuli eziphuthumayo, abazali bahlala belibale ukubulela ama-nannies abo bonke abakwenzayo kwiintsapho zethu. Ukuxabisa kuhamba ngendlela ende. Thatha ixesha lokuxabisa i-nanny yakho rhoqo. Ukuxabisa okhethekileyo kunentsingiselo ngomhla wokuzalwa kwabo, ngeeholide okanye ngexesha leNyanga yokuQaphela iNational National Nanny. Isipho somnxeba wakho asinakubiza.
Isibonakaliso esincinci sokuxabisa kwakho kunye nekhadi elenziwe ngomsebenzi elivela kumntwana wakho lihamba ixesha elide ukubonisa ukuba uyayixabisa kangakanani na yonke into eyenziwa ngayo nanny yakho.
5. Abaphathi abancinci kubazali
Ukuqasha umntu ukukunceda ukukhulisa umntwana wakho kunokuba nzima kuba njengomzali, uyazi kakuhle umntwana wakho kwaye ufuna ukwenza zonke izigqibo, ezinkulu okanye ezincinci. Nangona kunjalo, ukuqesha i-nanny kuthetha ukuba ungena kubambiswano. Ukongeza omnye umntu kumxube wokunakekela abantwana kuthetha iimbono ezininzi kunye nomntwana osebenza kunye nabanye abantwana, ukucinga kwakhe kubalulekile ukuxoxa. Okwesibini ukuqiqa okanye ukubuza zonke izigqibo ezenziwa ngumntwana wakho ziya kudala imeko embi.
Ukunika inkululeko yakho yokufunda kunye nokwamkela ukwamukela ukungaboni ngantoni kuncinci kuya kunceda umntanakho ukuba akuhloniphe. Ukuba kukho iindawo ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe, ukhethe ezo zinto zizobambelela kwaye uzixelele ukubaluleka kwazo.
6. Ukuvakalelwa
Ukunyamekela abantwana lonke usuku luba ngumsebenzi wokuzihlukanisa. Abazali bafanele bakhuthaze imisebenzi evumela ukuba ama-nannies athungele iindawo zentlalo kwaye athole amava amatsha afana nokuthatha abantwana ukuhamba epakini yendawo, ukuya kwindawo yokudlala okanye elayibrari yendawo kunye nokujoyina i-playgroups. AmaNannies abheke phambili ukuhamba nomntwana ngosuku oluhle, ukuhlangana kunye nabahlobo kunye nokuzonwabisa. Ukuba unentsapho ecela ukuba umntanakho ahlale ekhaya yonke imini, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokwesaba umntwana wakho esemotweni nomnye umntu okanye esinye isizathu, cingisisa le sigqibo. Ufuna ukuba nanny yakho ibe nolonwabo emini kwaye ungathi uvalelwe ekhaya lakho.
7. Ulwahlulo oluthile lweNtlalo yezobufilosofi
Iingcamango zobuzali zibaluleke kakhulu ukucinga malunga nokuqesha i-nanny. Xa uxoxwa , buza abanokuthi bafumane iingcamango zabo malunga nokuqeqeshwa nokuqeqesha. Kungase kuhlaziye okanye kukhanyise, ingakumbi njengomzali omtsha, ukusebenzisana nomntwana kunye nefilosofi ezahlukileyo, kodwa kungabangela iingxaki ezinkulu. Ukubambisana nokunyamekela abantwana kubalulekile ekuphuculeni abantwana kakuhle.
8. Ukungasebenzi kweentsapho
Ama-Nannies anesigxina sokuqala phambi kwayo yonke into eqhubekayo ngaphakathi kwekhaya lakho, ngoko ke ukuba wena kunye noshade naye nisoloko nilwa okanye uvumela umntwana wakho omdala ukuba alumke aze atshaye umncinci wakho ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngaphandle koqeqesho olufanelekileyo ubudala, umntwana angakhetha ukushiya intsapho . Iziganeko ezinzulu ezifana nokusetyenziswa kakubi kotywala, ukusetyenziswa kakubi ngokwemvelo okanye ukungazinzi ngokomzimba ziimfologi ezibomvu ezinkulu zokujonga ezinye indawo.
Imiba yeeNgxowa-mali kunye neRhafu
Imiba yentela ingaba nzima ukwenzela ukuba uqiniseke ukuba unesivumelwano esayinwe ngamabini omabili ngaphambi kokuba uqeshwe. Thatha ixesha lokuxubusha imivuzo kunye nemiba yerhafu ngexesha ludliwano-ndlebe kwaye ukhumbule oku kuKontrakthi yakho yeNanny. Khawucinge ukunika le nkunkuma ukuchithwa kweerhafu ekuhlawulelweni kwentlawulo yakhe kunye nentlawulo yokuqala, kwaye nayiphi na ixesha kukho utshintsho kwimbuyekezo yakhe. Qhagamshelana neengcali zerhafu encedisayo.
Isimo esingcono
Unokuqesha umntana ovumelana nemigomo yakho kuphela ukufumana uncedo olungcono phantsi komgca. Njengobu buhlungu njengoko oku kuvakalayo, kwenzeka. Naliphi na inkundla inokuphelisa umnkontileka ukuze ugcine engqondweni ukuba kunzima ukufumana nanny efanelekileyo ukuze uhlale unoyolo! Ukuba unako kuphela ukubonelela ngexeshana kunye nanny yakho ithola intsapho eyinikela ixesha elipheleleyo, cinga ukuba uya kushiya. Ukongezelela, ukuba umntanami ufumana intsapho eyoyihlawula imali emininzi yemithwalo yemfanelo embalwa (omnye umntwana kunye nemisebenzi yakho emibini okanye engekho yokuhlamba impahla, njl.), Unokucinga kwakhona ngokusebenza kwakho. Ukuba umntana wakho unikezelwa ngeyona nto ingcono, unokukhetha ukuhamba.