Nazi izibonelelo zombini ukuze wenze isigqibo esifanelekileyo
Umbuzo: Yiyiphi enye into engcono iNanny okanye iSiko loNyango?
Ngamanye amaxesha, abazali abachasene nobukhulu obukhulu beziko lokunakekelwa kwamasango baya kukhetha ukunakekelwa kwentsapho njengenye indlela eya kumntwana. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo, kuyakunceda ukuqonda iinkonzo ze-nanny ngokumalunga nekhaya okanye ukunakekelwa kwentsapho.
Impendulo:
Xa ukhetha ukunakekelwa kwabantwana kwintsana yakho, unokubuza ukuba zeziphi iingenelo zentsapho kunye nesikhungo sezononophelo lwentsapho.
Nazi iziphumo zokukhetha ngamnye.
Izinzuzo zokuqesha iNanny
Inzuzo ecacileyo yenyani kukuba umntwana wakho uya kunikwa ngqalelo ngenyameko kumntu omdala ongaphazanyiswa ngabanye abantwana. Ngaphezu koko, akudingeki ukuba ulandele umntwana wakho imihla ngemihla ukuze uphuphe kwiziko lokunakekelwa kwentsapho ngenxa yokuba ufumana unyango lomntwana ekhaya lakho. Oku kukhusela umntwana wakho nakwezinye iintsholongwane zezilwanyana, ngoko uya kuguga kakhulu.
Ukuba unenhlanhla yakho i-nanny ingathanda ukwenza imisebenzi yasendlini, ukulungisa ukutya kunye nokuhlamba abantwana. Ukuba le nto ibandakanya le misebenzi ngokwemvumelwano yesivumelwano sikaNanny.
Umntwana unokukwazi ukunikela iiyure ezithintekayo kwiinkqubo zokunakekelwa kwentsapho njengokuba kufuneka uhambe ngomsebenzi, kufuneka uhlale ngexesha elide okanye ufuna kuphela ukunakekelwa kwengane.
Qaphela nokuba ngaphandle kokuba usebenze ngeziko le-nanny, wena ngokwakho uhlolisise iinkcukacha ze-nanny, imbali yomsebenzi kunye nokufaneleka njengomniki-nkonzo wengane.
Izinzuzo zokubhalisa kwiSuku lokuSondeza koNtsapho
Ngokungafani ne-nanny, ukunakekelwa kwentsapho kudla ngokubakho ngaphezu komntu oyedwa olawula iqela labantwana beeminyaka ezixubekileyo (ngokunjalo amehlo akho kumntwana wakho). Umntwana wakho uya kubambisana nabanye abantwana kwaye afunde ukudlala nabalingane abaselula nabancinane.
Ulondolozo lwakho lweentsapho luninzi luya kuhlala luvulekile nangona umntu onomnakekeli omdala ememeza egulayo, ngoko awuyi kuba neyuninzi yemizuzu yokugqibela, iimeko ezingxamisekileyo ezingalindelekanga njengoko unako ukufumana unomntwana.
Ngenxa yokuba umntwana wakho uya kubonakala kwiindawo ezibandayo kunye neentsholongwane zabanye abantwana, umntwana wakho uya kuhlakulela isimiso somzimba omzimba esinamandla kwaye akayi kuba lula ukuba agula ngokukhawuleza xa ebhalisa kwi-nursergarten.
Imihla yokuzalwa yentsapho ivumelekile kwaye ihlolwe nguRhulumente, ngokuchasene namannies.
Ekugqibeleni, ulondolozo lweentsapho luya kuba lunyango oluncinci lwabantwana oluqhathaniswa nomntwana okanye isikhungo esikhulu sokunakekelwa kwamasango.
Ekugqibeleni kufuneka ukholose intuition yakho
Ngokucacileyo, kukho ezininzi izinto ezibalulekileyo ekufuneka zixubushe xa ukhetha phakathi komntwana kunye neziko lokunakekela abantwana. Kodwa isisombululo esibaluleke kakhulu asiyiyo imfundiso, yiyiphi ikhetho ekhoyo kwiindawo zakho kuluntu olufuna ukunakekelwa kwabantwana.
Ukuba unentliziyo yakho isetyenziswe kumntwana, kodwa akukho mntu udliwano-ndlebe ukhangeleka, kwaye loo ntsapho yonyango ephantsi kweso sitrato ingaqala ukubonakala ilungileyo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba iziko lakho lokulondolozwa kwentsapho lihlala lizele ngokupheleleyo kwiinyanga ezintandathu ezizayo, unokufumana ukuba uyamthanda umfana owaqashileyo ngokusisigxina - kwaye ufuna ukunamathela naye emva kokunakekelwa kwentsapho kwintsapho.
Thembela intulo yomama wakho ngcebiso engcono endiyinike yona. Akunakuze iqhube into yakho engalunganga.
Ehlelwe nguElizabeth McGrory