Izinto ezifanele uziqwalasele ngaphambi kokucela intsapho ukuba ubukele abantwana bakho
Ootatomkhulu, abantakwabo, kunye namanye amalungu entsapho babonakala banjengabantwana abagqibeleleyo. Kodwa kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuthi kungani ungafuni ukusebenzisa iintsapho njengabantwana. Ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo, qaphela ukuxhamla kunye nenkunkuma yokusebenzisa izihlobo njengoko uhlala kunye nokufumanisa ukuba zeziphi ezinye iindlela ongakhetha ngazo.
Isiqhelo Sokuzonwabisa
Enye yeyona ndlela ekhangeleka kakhulu yokusebenzisa intsapho njengomntwana wokubeleka ilula.
Ufuna umntanki unokuthembela emini okanye ebusuku kwaye ngomzuzu wokugqibela. Ngaloo mntu uhlala ilungu lentsapho awucingi ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukubiza imizuzu engama-30 phambi kokuba ufune ukuhlala kwindawo ethile okanye ngo-10: 00 ebusuku xa uninzi lwabanye ababeleki beza kukuxhoma kuwe ngelixa.
Ukuncedisa abantwana
Iirhafu zokufumana abantwana ziqala kwi-$ 10 ngeyure kwaye zikhuphuka ngokusekelwe kumava, ixesha lemini udinga i-sitter kunye nezinye izinto, njengokuba unabantwana abangaphi. Ukunyamekela imihla ngemihla kukuzinikela okuqhubekayo okufuna iimali zenyanga. Njengabazali, sonke siyazi ukuba u-grandma ngu-sitter wakho, akayi kuhlawula i-dime ukubukela abantwana.
Ukunyamekelwa kwabantwana abathembekileyo
Ngaba uyamthemba intombazana phantsi kwezitrato ukuze unakekele abantwana bakho ngaphezu komntu osapho lwakho owaziyo yonke impilo yakho? Kukho into ethembekileyo ekukholweni xa usebenzisa izihlobo njengabantwana. Uyayazi imbali yabo. Uyazi ukuba baya kukunyamekela abantwana bakho njengabo.
Uyazi ukuba akufanele ukhathazeke njengoko uhamba kwaye ushiye abantwana bakho emva kwelungu lentsapho yakho.
Intsapho Kunokwenzeka ngakumbi ukuba Ewe
Intsapho ngokuqhelekileyo iyakuthi yebo xa ufuna umntwana. Uqhelane neshedyuli yabo ukuze ukwazi ukulungelelanisa iintsuku zakho malunga nabo. Yaye kwaye iintsapho ziziva ziphoqelekile ukuba zivumelane xa ufuna umntu ukuba abukele abantwana bakho.
Bathanda ukubona abantwana bakho kunye nokuchitha ixesha kunye nabo ukuze impendulo ibe njalo ewe xa ucela ukuba babatit.
Nangona kunjalo, kunye neenzuzo zivela ekusebenziseni iintsapho njengabantwana.
Ukumangalelwa kokuthatha inzuzo
Buza ixesha elide kuninzi okanye ucele nje xa umntu othile enesimo esifanelekileyo kwaye unokujongwa njengokuba usebenzisa inzuzo yelungu lentsapho yakho. Oku kunokuvela kwilungu losapho oye wabantwana okanye omnye uhlobo ocinga ukuba ubeka uMninimkhulu okanye u-Aunt Jane ngokumsebenzisa njengononophelo lokunyuka kwelanga. Awunelanga nje ukufumana ibhalansi elungileyo xa kuziwa ekusebenziseni iintsapho njengabantwana, kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba awuyi kuguqula uGranny kwi-nanny yakho.
Iingxaki zoMzali
Xa intsapho isebenza njenge-sitter yakho, uyazivula ukuze ube nesicatshulwa sakho somzali. Awuyi kuhlawula kodwa u-Grandpa wenza ntoni. Awuyi kuvumela abantwana bakho ukuba bahlale kusasa kodwa uCousin Sally wenza ntoni. Ngaliphi na ilungu losapho oshiya abantwana bakho abanokungavumelani nendlela ukhetha ngayo umzali kwaye unokuphonswa ebusweni bakho ukuba ungabhekiswa phambili.
Ukungabi noqeqesho lwezonyango
Xa uqeshe umntwana, uyaqaphela ukuba unako ukunyamekela abantwana bakho kwaye oku kuquka impilo xa kwenzeka imeko engxamisekileyo.
Ngentsapho, uyazi kwaye uthemba ukuba baya kubiza i-911 kodwa kuthekani ngezo zihlandlo xa umntwana wakho efuna i-CPR okanye enye ingcebiso yonyango ngokukhawuleza? Kancinci, cinga ukuhlawula isitifiketi seCPR kwilungu losapho oya kumjonga umntwana wakho njengomkhuseli kunye noxolo lwakho lwengqondo.
Intukuthelo evela kwiiNcwadi zombini
Ufuna ukuba nobusuku obusuku kunye nomlingane wakho. Masithi umnqweno. Uh-oh. Akayi kunyusa kulobu busuku. Ngoku uhlutha! Okanye mhlawumbi umakhulukazi uyavuma kodwa ngoku uvakalelwa kukuba ubiza kuphela xa ufuna ukuba ubukele abantwana. Qaphela ukuba awusebenzisi ububele bentsapho yakho kwaye ube nokuqonda xa impendulo ayikho.
Intukuthelo inokuvela kumabini omabini kwaye inokulimaza oko kwakunokuba nolwalamano oluvuyayo wonk
Iingeniso kunye neengxaki zokusebenzisa intsapho njengabantwana abakhokhelayo kunokukwenza uzive ngathi awuyi kufika kwindawo ethile ngaphandle kwezingane kuze kube ngu-18 nangaphandle kwendlu.
Cinga ngezinye iindlela
Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba, unamathuba amaninzi okugcina ulwalamano lwakho lwentsapho ngelixa ufumana ixesha elide elidinga ixesha elide, nokuba liza kusebenza kwivenkile.
Usuku loMama
Uninzi lwabazali abazi malunga nokuguquguquka kweenkqubo zoMama zoSuku kunye nendlela enokubaluleka ngayo oku kukhethwa kwabantwana. Abaninzi bakuvumela ukuba ukhethe iintsuku onokuthanda ukuzisa umntwana wakho kwiiyure ezisezantsi, njengeMvulo kunye neyesithathu ukusuka ngo-9: 00 ukuya ku-1: 00. Ungasasebenzisa intsapho njengabantwana abangabantwana ngaphandle kweeyure kodwa unobhanki ngeli xesha ukuze ufumane loo mi sebenzi kunye neempendulo zenziwa ngelixa ude ufumane ixesha lokuba uhlale esiqhekweni ukuba ufuna.
Babysitting Co-ops
Ngaba ufuna ukuhlaliswa ngaphandle kokuzibuza ngaphandle kokuba ubuze iintsapho? Zama ukubambisana kwabantwana . Enye indlela yokunakekelwa kwabantwana ngokukhululekile kukuvumela ukuba utshintshe ixesha kunye nabanye abazali. Abazali kwi-co-op babelana ngabantwana kunye nemali kuphela echaphazelekayo ngokuqhelekileyo ithokheni okanye amathikithi. Yilungele ukunikela ngeenkonzo zakho njengendawo yokuhlala kwabanye abazali kwi-co-op.
Izivumelwano zentsapho
Kungaba nzima ukuthetha nelungu lentsapho yakho kunye nekhontrakthi kodwa inkontileka ifana nezikhokelo zokukhusela zonke iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu okanye ukulimaza ulwalamano lwakho. Hlala phantsi kunye kwaye uchaze oko ukulindele kunye noko bakukulindele kuwe. Ngokomzekelo, unokwenza ilungu lentsapho londle abantwana bakho ukutya okuthethiweyo okanye ungabavumeli ukuba babukele imiboniso ethile yeTV. Kodwa ilungu lentsapho yakho ilindele. Ingadinga ukuphepha yonke iMigqibelo yokufumana umntwana ngenxa yokuba unemida yakhe kunye nomdlalo webhulo.
Inqaku lesivumelwano sakho kukuqinisekisa ukuba bobabini kwiphepha elifanayo malunga nokulindela kwakho ukwenzela ukuba akukho nanye imingcipheko ekhokelela kwiimeko ezibuhlungu. Ukuba ungathandabuzeki ukuba ubuhlobo bakho bentsapho buyonakaliswa, qesha umntwana. Kuya kukuhlawula ixesha elide ngexesha elide.