Ingaba uneminyaka eneminyaka engama-13 ubudala okanye uneminyaka engama-16 ubudala ebudlelwaneni, Usuku lwe-Valentine lungaba yimini ebalulekileyo kubantwana abaselula. Abaninzi abaselula batyale ixesha elide becinga ukuba baya kuchitha njani imini - kunye nabani abaya kuchitha nayo.
Ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba athabathe iqela lokugubha uSuku lweValentine ungabakho ukuhlakanipha. Ukugxina kwiqela kunokukhusela umntwana osemva ukuba angaziva kakubi, kwaye unokukunceda ukugcina ama-hormone ahlaseleyo.
Gcina ugxininiso lokubhiyozela ubuhlobo kunye nomntu wonke uqinisekile ukuba nexesha elifanelekileyo.
Beka Umntwana Wakho Ngokumema Iimemo
Ininzi intsha ayifuni ukuthumela isimemo esisemthethweni kwiPlanga leSonto leValentine, kwaye kulungile. Kuyamkeleka kuluntu ukuthumela izimemo ze-inthanethi okanye ukuqhagamshelana nabahlobo ngekhompyutha.
Beka umda kwindlela abaninzi abaselula abangaya ngayo kwiqela. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho unika uluhlu olufanelekileyo lwabavakalisi kwangaphambili.
Tshela umntwana wakho ukuba angammema umntu ngokubanzi ngeendaba zoluntu. Ukumemezela iqela kwi-Facebook kunokubangela ubuhlungu abantu abanamenywa. Ingathethi, isimemezelo sikawonkewonke singakhokelela kwiindwendwe ezininzi ezongezelelweyo kwiqela.
Beka ixesha elicacileyo lokuba iqela liqale kwaye liphele. Ngaphandle koko, abantwana banokufika kuzo zonke iiyure zobusuku.
Tshela umntwana wakho ulungile ukunika ulwazi lwakho loqhagamshelwano ukwenzela ukuba abazali banokukubiza ukuba banayo nayiphi na imibuzo. Vula ukuba uxoxe nabazali abanokuba nemibuzo malunga neemeko ezikhethiweyo.
Ukuhlobisa indawo yePhathi
Yakha i-Valentine Day Day yemikhosi. Ininzi intsha ayiyikukhathalela-okanye ingqalelo-eninzi kwindlela yokuzihombisa, ngoko ungaziva unyanzelekile ukuba ungene kwi-overboard. Nazi iziphakamiso ezimbalwa ezilula zokuhlobisa:
- Sebenzisa izikhanyiso ezimhlophe zeKrismesi . Gcina igumbi litshatile ngokwaneleyo ukuba uya kukwazi ukubona oko kwenzekayo kodwa udibanise izibane eziphezulu xa unako. Iibane ezikhanyayo zingenza intsha ivakale ngokukrakra kodwa ukukhanya okuncinci kungakhuthaza unomdla omkhulu.
- Yakha i-candy buffe t. Gcwalisa izitya zeglasi (izitya, iiglasi kunye neepases) kunye ne-Valentine candy. Iipenki ezibomvu okanye ezibomvu, i-candy enesimo senhliziyo, okanye i-chocolates ziyaqinisekiswa ukuba ziza kutsho. Akuyi kuba nje kuphela into yokutya, kodwa baya kunika umnqweno wokuzihombisa.
- Beka ibhaluni ebomvu ngeenxa zonke kwigumbi . Iibhaluni ezimbalwa ezinesimo senhliziyo okanye obomvu zingagqitywa ekugqibeleni.
Ukubonelela ngokuzonwabisa
Uninzi ulutsha alufunanga ukuzizonwabisa kakhulu kwiqela. Ukuba unayo iqela elincinci, i-movie, kunye ne-popcorn inokwaneleyo.
Iqela elikhulu liyakufuna umculo. Yenza umntwana wakho abe ngumthwalo wokudala uluhlu lokudlala okanye ukufumana umculo ozodlala kuwo wonke umntu.
Ukuba unamabala apheleleyo abanamahloni aneminyaka engama-13 abanamahloni ngokungaxubekiyo, imidlalo embalwa inokunceda ukunqumla iqhwa. Yenza intombazana yakho ithathe imidlalo embalwa ngaphambi kwexesha kwaye qinisekisa ukuba ubeka iso kwiintlobo zemidlalo abayidlalayo.
Qinisekisa ukubeka iliso kwiqela. Musa ukugqithisa kakhulu, kodwa jonga wonke umntu rhoqo. Gcwalisa isitya se-chip okanye ufumane isizathu sokuhamba ngeqela ukuze uqinisekise ukuba konke kulungile.
Thetha kwintsapho yakho ngaphambi kwexesha malunga nokulindela kwenkampani. Xoxa ngezinto azicingayo kuya kunceda ukuba wonke umntu abe nexesha elifanelekileyo kwaye acwangcise ngokufanelekileyo.
Khonza abanye ukutya kwe-Valentine
Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho nxaxheba ekhulayo engaphelelanga ngaphandle kokutya. Khonza i-pizza enentliziyo kwaye ungakulibala i-sweet treatments. I-cookie i-cookie, i-tshokolethi ehlanganiswe i-strawberries kunye neefomber cupcakes ezibomvu zenza i-party entle.