Ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa lokuzalwa kweNtsana yakho

Mhlawumbi ungazange ucinge ukuba lo suku uya kuza, kodwa nanko kunjalo-unyaka wokuzalwa wakho omncinci usondela. Kungenzeka ukuba uve njengonyaka ode kunabo bonke obomi bakho okanye ngokukhawuleza, kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba kuninzi, ukudibanisa kwababini, kodwa nangona kunjalo umhla usondela. Kwaye ngoku ke, unokuba uzibuza ukuba yeyiphi indlela efanelekileyo yokubhiyozela umntwana wakho wokuqala wokuzalwa.

Umntwana wokuzalwa wokuqala

Ukusuka kwikheke (kubaluleke kakhulu) kwimiboniso, sikufumene yonke into enokuyidinga intsapho yokuzalwa yakho yokuqala. Okokuqala, uya kufuna ukugqiba uhlobo oluthile lokubhiyozela oza kulufumana. Ngaba uya kuphosa iqela kunye nosapho kunye nabahlobo okanye ufuna ukuba neyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu? Unokukhetha ukuthenga ingubo ekhethekileyo kwintsapho yakho ukuyigubha kwaye uyigqubuthele isipho esikhethekileyo ukuba umntwana wakho angabhinqa (nangona mhlawumbi mhlawumbi ukhetha iphepha lokugubungela nayiphi na indlela!) Kakade, kuya kufuneka ukuba ukhunjulwe imini ngemifanekiso emininzi, kuba usuku lwakho lokuzalwa lokuqala lwangane luza kanye ngexesha lokuphila.

Iimpawu zeMbali zeDala

Ukuzalwa kwakho komntwana wokuqala akudingi umxholo, ewe, kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuphefumlelwa ukuba uphathe umcimbi ocolileyo, nantsingcamango ezimbalwa:

Ukugcina iMemori

Uya kufuna ukubamba zonke iinkumbulo zobusuku bakho bokuzalwa komntwana okanye uya kufuna ukujonga emva kwakho kuzo zonke iinkumbulo zomntwana wakho wokuqala kunyana nawe.

Ngayiphi na indlela, unako ukwenza ithuba elikhethekileyo ngokukhusela iinkumbulo kwi-scrapbook okanye kwincwadi yentsana:

Ikhefu lokuzalwa

Inkwenkwezi yonke imihla yokuqala yokuzalwa ngokucacileyo yintsana yakho, kodwa ikhekhe lokuzalwa ibaluleke kakhulu. Yenza usuku lwakho lokuzalwa lokuqala lukhunjulwe ngokukhetha ikhekhe eligqibeleleyo:

Kwaye ukuba ikhekhe ayilona nto into yakho, kusekho iindlela ezininzi zokubhiyozela. Yenza ubugcisa kunye nezinye iintlobo zokuphatha iqela lakho:

Iingcamango Zokuzalwa Zokuzalwa

Ukubuza ukuba ungayifumana njani umntwana wakho ngosuku lokuzalwa kwakhe lokuqala? Kungaba ngcono ukuyigcina ilula ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa komntwana, kodwa ukuba ufuna uncedo oluncinane lokukhawulela umnikelo oza kuwufumana umntwana wakho, zimbono ezimbalwa:

Imihla Yokuzalwa Yamahlobo

Ukunyuka kokutya kuyimeko eqhelekileyo kwiintsapho ezininzi nokuba ingaba ngumntwana wakho okanye iindwendwe zakho ezidityanisiweyo, unokuqiniseka ukuba uphonsa ibhitshi eya kuba nezidingo ezizodwa:

Musa Ukulibala Ukuthi Uyabonga

Kutheni malunga nokushicilelwa okukhululekayo kumakhadi ukuze ubonise ukubonga zakho kwiindwendwe eziza kubelana nosuku olukhethekileyo lomntwana?

Qhubeka Uzixhamle

Ukucwangcisa nayiphi na into inokuba yinkxalabo, kodwa ngokuzalwa komntwana wakho wokuqala, zama ukugxila ekugcineni umnandi wokubhiyozela wonke umntu obandakanyekayo, kuquka nawe. Uyakwazi ukufunda ngendlela omnye umama oceba ngayo intombi yakhe yokuzalwa yokuqala, kunye nokuhleka kunye nemingeni endleleni, njengesikhumbuzo sokubamba uhlobo lovuyo olusebenzayo. Ngaba uzive uthanda ukubamba iqela eliphumayo kunye nekhekhe lobuchwepheshe kunye nemihlobiso emihle?

Ngoko musa! Ingane yakho iya kumnandi, nokuba ingaba sisasazeka okanye i-PB & J nje isasazeka kwi-sandwich.

Ukwenza isigqibo esilungile kuwe

Akukho nto engalunganga okanye indlela efanelekileyo yokugubha usuku lwakho lokuzalwa lokuqala. Ingaba ukhetha ukuphonsa i-extravaganza ecacileyo, yigcine ilula, ngokuzukisa umntwana wakho ngendlela enentsingiselo kuwe, into enye inokuqiniseka: Kuya kuba ngumhla wokuzalwa.