Ukuqhawuka kwangaphambili kuthintela amakhulu eminyaka iintsapho zonyaka, kwaye inyaniso kukuba iintsana ezininzi ezingaphambi kokuzalwa zizalwa ngokukhawuleza okanye zibuthaka kakhulu. Kuye icala lokungcoliseka kwangaphambili abantu abaninzi abazama ukuphepha ukucinga ngazo. Inkqubela phambili yezokwelapha iye yafika kakhulu kwaye ininzi, iintsana ezininzi ezingaphambi kokuphila ziphila ukuze ziphile ubomi obude, obonwabileyo, ukwenjenjalo ukuba zihlale zibonakala zingalunganga.
Kodwa into ebuhlungu gqitha kukuba abazali abaninzi bezithaba abazange bafikelele abantwana babo ekhaya. Kwaye aba bazali banokomelezwa kakhulu kunye nokuxhotyiswa kwabalobi abaziqondayo.
Ezi ncwadi-zoomama, ootata, abantwana abancinci, abantakwabo, oogogo nomkhulu, abahlobo kunye nosapho-banikeza uluhlu lweentlobo ezahlukeneyo kunye neendlela zokubhala ukuze uqiniseke ukuba ufumana uncedo.
Funda ukufikelela ekupheleni kwezinto ezongezelelweyo ze-intanethi kubazali abasweleyo.
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Wena unguMama wabo bonke oomamaNgu Angela Miller
Incwadi enhle kakhulu, eneemifanekiso ezikhuthazayo kunye namazwi aduduzayo njengomnye umama onokulila.
Ukunika amandla amandla anika uncedo lwabafazi abasweleyo, kwaye le ncwadi inokunceda unina osizileyo unomuzwa wokuthi unomhlobo obalaseleyo-omnye umama oqonda ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye uyazi ukuba uthetha ntoni.
Kaninzi
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Izixhobo ezingenantonguSherokee Ilse
Incwadi enomtsalane kwaye enobubele, yinto enye abafundi abaninzi abanqwenela ukuba bayifumene ngaphambi kokufa komntwana wabo ngenxa yokuba ineengcebiso ezintle zokufumana ukufa kwangoku kunye neziganeko ezijikeleze ixesha elifutshane.
Naliphi na intsapho enokuba nethemba lokuba ithemba lwabo lokuba umntwana wabo uya kuhlala liyakhathazeka ngcamango yokufumana incwadi malunga nokulahlekelwa ngumntwana. Kodwa kubazali abaziyo ukuba umntwana wabo akayi kuphila, okanye ngabantu abafuna ukulungiselela kakuhle loo nto, le ncwadi ingaba isipho esinamandla, esinqabileyo esiya kunceda intsapho ivumelane nexesha layo iphinde iphile.
Ukuba umntwana usele sele efile, le ncwadi isona inkxaso enhle kwaye abazali banenzuzo kakhulu kubulumko nangengqiqo umlobi uhambisa.
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Umkhwa ongenanto, Intliziyo EphukileyoNguDeborah L. Davis
Le ncwadi inceda abazali abadandathekileyo bazive bebodwa kwimizi enzima yokulahleka. Inika imvakalelo yenceba kunye nokuqonda ukuba abazali beintsana ezincinane baye bafa njani bafanelekile.
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Isikhokelo soBawo: Xa umntwana efaNguTim Nelson
Esi sikhokelo sikhokelo esiphezulu sikhokelo kubantwana abafuna incwadi xa bejongana nokufa komntwana. Inika iingcebiso ezintle malunga nokuqhagamshelana nomlingani, ukuphatha ukubuyela emsebenzini, ukuthetha nabanye abantwana nokunye okuninzi, ngokufunda okufutshane kunye nokulula.
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Usizi osileNgo-Ingrid Kohn, MSW kunye no-Perry-Lynn Moffitt
Incwadi enengqiqo ezinikele ekulahlekelweni kokukhulelwa kuyisisombululo esihle kwiintsapho-oomama, oomata, oomkhulu, oomama, kunye nabahlobo. Njengencwadi ebhaliweyo ngabaqeqeshi bezempilo, ichanekile, ichanekile kwaye ifanelekileyo, kodwa amabali kunye nezicaphulo ezivela kwiintsapho ezibuhlungu kulo lonke le ncwadi zinceda bazive banomntu kwaye be thu thuzela.
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Ngaphandle kwembezi: Ukuphila Emva kokulahlekelwa ngumntwanaNguEllen Mitchell
Le ncwadi ibelana ngamabali ahlukeneyo angama-9 okulahlekelwa ngumntwana, njengoko kubhaliwe ngunina, obanika uhlobo oluthile lokuthuthuzela. Esikhundleni sendlela yokufunda kwintlungu kunye nokuxhatshazwa, le ncwadi ivumela abafundi ukuba bazicwilise ngamabali abanye, kwaye bazive inkxaso nenkxaso kubafazi abaye bahamba ngendlela efanayo.
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Ukuphilisa Intliziyo Yomzali Olibuhlungu: Iingcamango ezili-100 eziSebenzayoNgu-Alan D. Wolfelt PhD
Le ncwadi yinto ethembekileyo-inyanisekileyo, inengqiqo, imfesane. Umbhali uyavuma ukuba akayena umzali onomvandalo, kodwa kunoko isikhokelo esisize amawaka abazali abalilayo.
Kubhaliwe kwiindawo ezilula zokufunda izibhengezo zobulumko, indlela yakhe ngobumnene kwaye ivumela abazali ukuba bawodwa, kubancede bazive bexhaswa kwaye bakhuthaza ukuba bafumane inkxaso abayidingayo, kwaye banikezela ezininzi iindlela zokuzama ukunceda.
Le ncwadi ayikho ngokuthe ngqo malunga nokulahleka kokukhulelwa, kodwa kuninzi ekujoliswe kubazali abalahlekelwe abantwana banoma yiphi iminyaka. Iingxelo ezilula, ezixhobisayo kunye neengcebiso zifanelekileyo ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye le ncwadi inokuthuthuzeleka kakhulu kumzali onomona.
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UkuPhulukiswa emva kokulahlekelwaNguMark Whitmore Hickman
Ebhalwa ngumama olahlekelwe yintombi yakhe eneminyaka engama-16, le ncwadi yenye enye ingcebo, nangona kungenakwenzeka ngokuthe ngqo malunga nokulahleka kokukhulelwa. Ngokuphathelele ukuphilisa, kwaye ukunyaniseka kwakhe kunye nokuvuleka kwenkqubo yakhe kukunceda kunoma ubani osizi. Kubhalwe kwiphepha elilodwa (iphepha elinye ngeJanuwari 1, elinye iphepha ngoJanuwari wesi-2, njl.), Le ncwadi ilula ukufunda kumayeza amancinci, kulula kubazali abaninzi ukuba basebenze kunokuba bafunde iincwadi ezibalulekileyo zentlungu.
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Ukukhulelwa Emva kokulahlekelwaNguCarol Cirulli Lanham
Abazali abaye balahlekelwa yithemba lesana lokuzama kwakhona ukuba babe nabantwana. Ubunzima beemvakalelo zokwamkela ukukhulelwa okutsha emva kokulahlekelwa yintsholongwane yentsana yangaphambili kunokuziva kunzima. Le ncwadi ibonisa ngokucacileyo iimpendulo zemibuzo yeemvakalelo kunye neyonyango kwi-guide elula yokufunda.
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I-Replica echanekileyo yeNgcamango yam yomfanekiso: IimemoNguElizabeth McCracken
Le ncwadi inika indlela eyahlukileyo kuninzi-yimibuzo, ebhaliweyo ngumlobi onetalente malunga namava akhe alahlekelwa ngumntwana. Kubafundi abajonge ukuzibhaptiza kwibali elibhaliweyo, elithembekileyo lomnye oye wahamba nokulahleka okufanayo, le ncwadi iyamangalisa.
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Ndiza kuKhathalelaNguAngie Smith
Le memo inokwaba ibali lomntwana ofunyanwe nesimo sokuphela ngaphambi kokuba azalwe, kwaye umzabalazo wentsapho ukujamelana nokubuhlungu okukhulu. Ibali elisekelwe enkolweni eliza kubakhuthaza nokuthuthuzela iintsapho ezininzi ezilahlekelwa yintsana.
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Ukubuhlungu umntwana engazange ndiwaziNguKathe Wunnenberg
Lo mthandazo wothando unomthombo omkhulu wokuthuthuzela iintsapho ezikhangele ukujongana nentlungu yazo kwaye zithuthuzele ngamazwi omnye umama oqondayo.
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Kwenzeka intoNguCathy Blanford
Umcebisi wezobuhlungu udale le ncwadi yabantwana abancinci, abazali bayayixabisa njengesikhokelo sokuncedisa abantwana abaselula ukuba bafumane iimpendulo abayidingayo xa bejongene nokulahlekelwa ngumntakwethu omtsha okanye udade. Imizekeliso emnandi, amagama anesicatshulwa, kunye neenkcazo ezicacileyo zeminyaka ezenza ukuba le ncwadi ibe isipho sangempela.
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Othile Wafika Ngaphambi KwakhoNguPat Schwiebert
Incwadi yabantwana oye uyikhangela xa unethemba lokuchazela abantwana bakho abaphilayo malunga nomntakwabo omdala owafa. Le ncwadi enokholo inikeza induduzo kunye neempendulo kubantwana abancinci abafuna ukuqonda malunga nomzalwana okanye udade abaye bakuva kodwa abangazange bahlangane nabo.
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Sasibe Nomntwana, Kodwa Sasibe Nengelosi KunokoNguPat Schwiebert
Le ncwadi elula yephepha lephepha yindlela efanelekileyo yokudala abazali ukuba babelane ibali kunye nabantwana abancinci abasinceda xa bachaza umntwana. Ibali elifutshane, elifanelekileyo kubantwana abaselula abaneminyaka engama-2-8.
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Ndihlala Ndihlala I-TwinNguValerie R. Samuels
Enye incwadi kubantwana, lona ubeka ngothando ibali lokulahleka kwepawele elinye ngelixa elinye iwele liphila. Le meko iyingqayizivele ifanelwe yincwadi yayo, kwaye lo unyanisekileyo, uvelwano kwaye ucingisisa.
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Ikhonkco elingabonakaliyoNguPatrice Karst
Incwadi yale yabantwana ayikho nantlungu malunga nokulibala okanye ukulahlekelwa ngumntakwabo, kodwa ibali elimnandi nelinokuvuselela malunga nendlela sonke sidibene ngayo, kwanabo singaboni.
Abazali abafuna amabali kubantwana bakowenu abangekho nje ngentlungu kunye nokufa, kodwa into eyobe isakhuthaza ingqondo yokuxhamla nomntakwabo olahlekileyo, le ncwadi inokuthuthuzela kakhulu.
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Sisengayifumanga into oyifunayo?Ukuba ukhangele ngaphezu kweencwadi, kukho izixhobo ezintle kwi-intanethi ukuxhasa iintsapho ezililayo. Amasayithi ambalwa amnandi afaka:
- Umagazini omileyo
- Ibhedi yentliziyo yam
- Faith's Lodge
- Uhambo Olubuhlungu
- Abahlobo Abanobubele