Izindlela ezikhulu zokufundisa (kwaye ubonise) ukunika isikolo sakho sokunceda
Unyaka ngamnye ngokuBonga iNkxaso, abantwana bam baya ekhaya kunye neprojekthi efanayo. Ngamanye amaxesha i-placemat, ngamanye amaxesha sifumene iphosta ehlotshisweyo kunye ne-glitter kunye ne-stickers kunye nomnyaka omnye saza sazisikelela nge-3D diorama. Isithuthi sihlala sihluke, kodwa umyalezo uhlala ufana - "Into endiyibongayo." Xa bebancinci, uluhlu luyisiseko.
"Amathoyizi am." "Umama wam." "Ikati." Izinto ezilula ezizona ziseko zekhonkco zelizwe lonke lokufundela. Kodwa njengoko bekhulile, abantwana bam baqala ukufumana ubunzulu ngakumbi ngeengcamango zabo. "Umhlaba." "Abahlobo bam." "Ukuba ndiphilile."
Yintoni eyenza umntu umbulele kwaye kutheni ukuba sivame ukuvuma ukuxabisa kwethu oko kubalulekile ebomini bethu ngeeholide? Nangona kuyi nyaniso ukuba asifanelekanga kuphela ukubonga ekupheleni konyaka, ngokwenene lixesha elihle kakhulu lokuthetha nabantwana bakho malunga nombono nokuba kutheni kubaluleke kangaka.
Oku kuyinyani ngokukhethekileyo kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-1000 ubudala abahlala befunda ngokugqithiseleyo ingcamango entsha xa ihlonyelwe yona. Ngoko nokuba nguNovemba okanye ngoMatshi, zikho iindlela ezilula zokubonisa ukuba wakho umncinci, umona, novulo nokuba kutheni kubaluleke kakhulu.
Indlela Yokufundisa Ukunikezela Kwamaziko Aphakamileyo
Beka umzekelo omhle. Wena ungumntwana wokuqala kunye nomzekelo oyimfuneko.
Ukuba ubona usebenza ngokuphana, uya kufuna ukwenza into efanayo. Ngoko ukuba uthengela ukutya kwidolophu yokutya kwendawo okanye unike izambatho ebandleni, vumela ukuba umntwana wakho ongabafundela wazi into oyenzayo kwaye kutheni. Awubonakali okanye uzibophelela ngasemva, ubonisa ububele kwisenzo.
Makhe uncede. Ukuba isenkulisa yakhe ibambe iqela lokudlala, mvumele eze kunye nawe ukuba akhethe itekityi kwaye uyifake. Chaza ukuba kutheni iikhompyutha ziqokelelwa kwaye kutheni kubalulekile ukuba uncede. Ungamceli ukuba azinikele ngemali yakhe, kodwa ukuba uyazivolontiya, yamkela ngokudumisa okukhulu. Ukuba unamathoyizi amaninzi ajikelezile kangangokuthi engasayidlala kunye neemeko ezintle, cinga ngokusondela kuye ngokuzinikela kwintsapho ehluphekileyo okanye kwisikolo sokunakekelwa kweso sikolweni okanye kweso sikhungo.
Beka izinto ngendlela efanelekileyo. Izidalwa ezizimeleyo ezizimeleyo, kunzima kubafundi besikolo ukuba baqonde ukuba kukho ihlabathi elikhulu kwaye akuyiyo into ejikelezayo. Yenza okusemandleni akho ukuba uchaze ukuba njengokuba wenzayo, abantu beendawo zonke babe nezinto ezahlukeneyo abazifunayo. Ngaphandle kokuba unzima kakhulu, sithetha ngendlela abanye abantu badinga ukutya okufudumeleyo kunye neengubo zokugqoka kunye nendlela ekuhle ngayo xa abanye abantu bebanceda ngokuthenga ezi ntlobo zezinto.
Qala kumancinci. Ngokumfundisa nje umntwana wakho ukuba ahlanganyele okanye ukuba ahambe kakuhle kunye nomntakwabo , unye usondele ekukhuliseni umntwana oxabisa oko anakho. Ukufunda ukucamngca abanye kuyisifundo esikhulu sokufunda isikolo sokufundela ukufunda kunye nomnye oguqulela kakuhle kwisiganeko esikhulu xa ekhula.
Mdumise kwaye uhlaziye ngokufanelekileyo. Xa umntwana wakho enza isenzo sobubele, yiba nomsebenzi wokuvuma kwakho. Yithi izinto ezinjengalezi, "Ndiyaziqhayisa ngokubelana ngeetyshi kwizikole zasesikolweni." Ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na into, isikolo sakho sokufunda esikolweni sifuna ukuvuyisa, ngoko xa esenzayo, memeze ukusuka ezintabeni. Njengoko ekhula, uya kuxabisa ngenkxaso yakho kodwa uya kuziphatha ngendlela enomdla kuba yenza ukuba azive kakuhle. Ngelo xesha, ukuba isikolo sakho sokufundela esikolweni siziphatha ngokuzingca , qiniseka ukuba simazi. "Yenza ukuba mna nomhlobo wakho ndibuhlungu xa nibamba amathoyizi." Kutheni ungatshintshi? "
Ukugxininisa ukubaluleka kwemilinganiselo . Ndiyabulela ibinzana elilula, kodwa lenza umehluko kumntu omncinane kunye nendlela aqondwa ngayo.
Ekuqaleni, amagama angaphumelela emlonyeni womntanakho ngaphandle komkhwa womkhwa okanye ngenxa yokuba ucela - "Sithini na?" - kodwa ekugqibeleni, uya kuqonda intsingiselo yabo. Thetha malunga nokuba kutheni umntu othi "mbulela" kubalulekile. Khangela ixesha umntu athi "ndiyabulela" kuye nokuba oko kwakwenza njani uzive ephakathi.
Benze ukuba bathabathe. Iiprojekthi ezenziwa ngabantwana bam unyaka ngamnye ziyiyo ingcamango enkulu. Ubenza bayeke baze bacinge ngabantu kunye nezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kubo kwaye kutheni. Ekuqaleni, unokukhathazeka ukuba umntwana wakho unxininisa uluhlu lwazo zonke imidlalo kunye nezinto aziphetheyo, kodwa nokuba nokubulela izinto eziphathekayo kulungile. Nceda uqiniseke ukumnceda ukulinganisela uluhlu ngokubonisa abantu ebomini bakhe abathanda naye.
Njengoko umncinane wakho uveza iimpawu ezinjengevelwano novelwano, ngokunjalo uya kuba nombulelo wendlela yokubulela - iimpawu eziza kunceda ukwenza inkqubo yakhe yexabiso. Ukufundisa umntwana ukuba abe nombulelo, onobubele kunye nomusa yinkqubo yokuphila yonke kwaye inokubandakanya abaninzi abahlobo kunye nosapho ukunceda-ngokuqinisekileyo into enokuyixabisa.