Ukuqulunqa isithethe sokungcebeleka ngexesha elincinci ukunceda ukuhlula ukuhlukana
Ngomhla ka-8am kwaye ubeka izicathulo zakho ukuba ushiye umsebenzi; uthabathe ingubo yakho ukuze uphume isidlo; uyifake isitifiketi sakho ukuze ubambe indiza kwinkomfa yomsebenzi; okanye uvuka esithambini ukuya kwindawo yokuhlambela. Umntwana wakho uyaxhala. Ukukhala, ukumemeza, ukubambelela emlenzeni wakho. Ndicela ukuba ungashiyi.
Uninzi lwabazali baye bafumana le meko ngenye indlela.
Udinga ukushiya umntwana wakho nomnakekeli (okanye omnye umzali), kodwa awukwazi ukunceda uzive uhlungu kwaye unetyala ushiye umntwana wakho kumahlazo. Mhlawumbi uziva unentloni phambi kwe-sitter okanye elinye ilungu lentsapho. Le meko ibangela uxinzelelo kwaye ivuselele abazali.
Ngezantsi ezinye iingcebiso kunye nolunye ulwazi oluncedo ukunceda abazali banciphise ingxaki yokuphazamiseka kwezinto ezimbi.
Ukuziphatha kuyinto eqhelekileyo
Njengobuhlungu njengoko uvakalelwa kukuba ubukele umntwana wakho, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ukuziphatha komntwana wakho kuqhelekile. Ukuxhalabisa okuqalayo kuqale ngeenyanga ezili-8. Kulo xesha abantwana abancinci banokuqonda ukuba abazali bahlukeneyo kwaye banokushiya. Nangona kunjalo abantwana abaselula abakwazi ukuqonda ingcamango yokuba umzali uya kubuya. Ngumsebenzi wakho ukubanceda baqonde ukuba abazali babuya.
Fundisa Abanye Abanakekeli
Isinyathelo sokuqala ekunciphiseni ukwahlukana kwabantwana kuzisa abanye abanonophelo.
Ngethuba lexesha umntwana wakho eneenyanga ezi-6, abazali kufuneka bazise abanye abantwana abanokhathalela ukuze umntwana asebenze ngaphandle kokuba ngumzali. Omnye unonophelo uya kuthatha isenzo aze athethe ngokungafaniyo nomzali. Ukuba kunye nabanye abanonophelo baya kunciphisa uxhalaba lokuhlukana xa umntwana eya esikolweni okanye ngamanye amaxesha xa umzali engekho.
Qala i-Goodbyes Ekuqaleni
Xa usemncinane uqale isenzo sokuthetha umntwana wakho xa ushiya. Ikhefu elikhawulezayo kunye nokubamba kunye nomtshangatshangiso. Ixesha elide elivakalelwa kukuba ayiyi kunceda ukukhathazeka kwengane yakho. Yithi intetho kumntwana wakho nokuba usebenza kwindawo yokugcina kwaye ubuyela kwiminithi eyi-10. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo ushiya kwaye ubuyele ngokufanelekileyo, kuya kuba lula ukuba umntwana wakho aqonde ingcamango yokuhlukana.
Ukuphuhlisa iSithethe
Isithethe ngoncedo kunciphisa uxhalaba lomntwana kwaye kunikeze ukhuseleko. Naluphi na uhlobo lwenkonzo oyikhethayo, nokuba ingaba yintlanu ephakamileyo kunye nomsantsa okanye amabanga amabini kunye ne-fist bump, iya kuthumela umqondiso kumntwana wakho ukuba sekuyisikhathi sokuba ushiye. Iimfundiso ziba zibaluleke kakhulu xa umntwana wakho ehamba esikolweni kodwa akukafanekanga ukuba aqale isiko.
Khumbuza Umntwana Wakho Ukuba Abazali Bahlala Babuyela
Njalo xa uthetha umxelele umntwana wakho ukuba uza kubuya. Unokuthi "umama uya kubuya emva koko" okanye "abazali bahlala bebuya." Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bakwazi ukuva baze ekugqibeleni baqonde ukuba abazali bahlala bebuya. UDaniel Tiger unengqungquthela enkulu ngoma ingoma ekhuphayo ekhumbuza abantwana ukuba "I-Grownups Ibuya."
Musa ukuguqa
Nangona usenokucinga ukuba ukukrazula kulungile into ekufuneka uyenze ukuze ugweme ukuxhatshazwa; ayiyo!
Ukukrazula kukukhohlisa umntwana wakho kwaye uthumele umyalezo odidekayo. Endaweni yoko, yenza isicwangciso nomnakekeli wakho ukuqondisa ingqalelo yomntwana wakho ukuba ukuxakishwa kuqala ngeengoma, intonti oyintandokazi okanye nayiphi na into oyikhethayo. Emva koko yitsho ikhefu lakho elikhawulezayo kwaye uphume.
Musa ukuhlawulelwa
Zama okusemandleni akho ukuba ungabuyi umva xa umntwana wakho eqala ukukhala nokufikelela kuwe. Ukubuyela emva emva kokushiya kuphela kunika umntwana wakho umfutho wokhala nzima kwaye ixesha elide lizayo. Njengokuba kunzima kuwe, zama ukukhumbula ukuba ukungaxhasi kwinto efanelekileyo ukuyenza ekuncedeni ukuphuhliswa komntwana wakho.
Ukuba udinga ukubuya, phinda ihlazo kunye nesithethe kwaye ukhumbuze umntwana wakho ukuba uza kubuya. Yiba yinto ecacileyo njengoko unokukwazi ngayo xa uza kubuya, ngokwemigangatho yemfundo yebhokhwe.
"Uya kuba nomhla wokuzonwabisa kunye [faka igama le-sitter]." Umama kufuneka ahambe emsebenzini, kodwa uMama uyakukubona emva kokutya! Nika ingqungquthela kunye nokumanga kwaye ube yindlela yakho.