Udliwano-ndlebe nomrhwebi oqalise uNannies ngoNoa eneminyaka eyi-12
I-Nannies nguNoa yinkonzo yokunakekela abantwana ngokupheleleyo, ukukhonza iintsapho kwiSixeko saseNew York kunye neHoltons eqala ngoNoa Mintz. Njengabanini basomashishini, uNowa wafumana isandla sokuqala umcimbi owawufuna ukuphuculwa-uxanduva lokunyamekela; Abazali bakhe babefuna ukuthembela kunye nokuqinisekiswa kwaye yena kunye nabantakwabo babefuna "umzi-savvy" womntwana owayenomdla kwaye edibeneyo.
Xa wayeseneminyaka engama-12 ubudala, uNowa waqalisa uNannies ngoNoa, eyakhiwa malunga nendlela yakhe entsha yokujongana neentsapho kunye nabanakekeli.
Kutheni uqale ibhizinisi lakho?
Iingcamango zeNannies zikaNowa zavela kumava am, njengeNew York nyana. Usomashishini wangempela uhlangabezana nocelomngeni kwaye uzama ukusombulula. Yiyo kanye into endiyenzayo. Umama wayesebenzisa iiplani ezininzi ezahlukahlukeneyo ukuzama nokufumana abantwana abalungileyo, bengaphumeleli. Ii-Arhente zazithumela ii-sitters zakhe ezingabandakanyekanga kwaye zisebenzisana. Babengumhlobo wee-nannies ezaziza kuhlala kwibhentshi kwindawo yokudlala kwaye ungahla phantsi kwesilayidi kunye nezingane. Ndandifuna ukubonelela ngabazali be-NYC ngokubanomdla, ngokuzonwabisa, kunye namandla amaninzi. Leyo ingundoqo yeNannies nguNowa.
Yintoni abantu abayifunayo kumntwana?
Akuthi ngaphandle kokuba ufuna umntu onyanisekileyo, onoxanduva, onokwethenjelwa, onolwazi olunemifanekiso ebalulekileyo.
Kunzima kakhulu ukubonisa ukuba yiziphi iimpawu ezifunekayo ukwenza umntu ube ngumntwana onobuhle kwintsapho yakho . Uyazi kakuhle ukuba ngubani oonyana bakho kunye naluphi uhlobo lomnakekeli abayidingayo. Ngokomzekelo, umntanini ocebileyo kwaye unamahloni unokuba nengxaki yokumisela igunya lakhe kunye nezingane ezinomdla othanda ukutshintsha imida.
Umntwana ochitha ixesha lakhe elikhululekileyo ukwenza iiprojekthi zobugcisa ezinzulu zingawa lula ngothando nomntwana othetha "ubuchule" njengenye yezimpawu zakhe ezilungileyo. Umntwana ochaphazela amandla akhe okucwangcisa ubomi bentlalo yomntu ngokuhlela ii-playdates kunye nabanye abahlala kuyo unokumlinganisa umzali osebenzayo. Kodwa ukuba ungumzali wokuhlala ekhaya ungonwabile ngakumbi nomncedi okhetha ukugcina iphrofayili engaphantsi uze ulandele ulwalathiso lwakho. Ukhangele umntu onobomi bakhe oza kulungela kakuhle umntwana wakho - kunye neyakho.
Ziziphi ezinye iingcebiso zokuxoxa?
Ukubeka umviwa ngokukhululeka kubaluleke kakhulu. Imizuzu embalwa ye-chitchat engacwangciswanga ("Uhlala ixesha elingakanani eNew York?" "Ukhulile phi?" Uvela kwintsapho enkulu? ") Inokukunika iwindow nobuntu kunye nesitayela somviwa. Umntu uthwala incwadi kunye / okanye iphephandaba libabuze oko bafundayo malunga nabo? Yintoni eyithandayo? Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ubuze le nantoni into ayifunayo emsebenzini ngaphambi kokuba uchaze oko ukhangeleyo Ukuba umgqatswa uyavuma ukuba ukhetha ukusebenza kunye nezingane ezindala kwaye unabantwana abathathu ngaphambi kokuba ufunde.
Sincoma kwakhona ukuba babuze izinto abazicingayo iimpawu zabo ezintle njengomncedisi kunye "nemingeni" yabo enkulu (ewe, le ndlela enesidima yokubuza oko kufuneka ukuba basebenze!). Ukunciphisa nabani na onitshoyo ukuba bayabonakala kuyo yonke into: ukuvuma ubuthathaka nokubonisa ukuzimisela ukunqoba ubunzima kuyimfanelo enhle kumqeshwa onokuba ngumzekelo omhle kubantwana bakho. Kwakhona kunokufundisa ukuba unike umviwa umcimbi othile kwaye ubabuze indlela abaya kuphendula ngayo. Umzekelo, ngawaphi amanyathelo aya kuthatha ngexesha loxinzelelo lwezonyango? Ngaba baye bafumana omnye emsebenzini kwaye ukuba bekunjalo njani?
Ngaba bayayiva indima yabo yokuqeqesha umntwana kwaye ukuba kunjalo, njani, kwaye phantsi kweziphi iimeko? Buza yimuphi umdlalo umntu oza kudlala nomntwana ngemini yokuvula. I-nanny efanelekileyo iya kuba nomoya onjengomntwana kwaye uyonwabise ukuba abantwana bakho baya kufumana izifo!
Ziziphi iiflegi ezibomvu?
Umntu obonakala enomdla kakhulu okanye engenazo intetho-ndlebe akayena umviwa ofanelekileyo ukuba asebenze nezingane zakho. Ukuba uzifumana unenkathazo yokudibanisa nomntu - nokuba ngaba iingxoxo zikhulu okanye zikhuluma ngokungafunekiyo kuwo wonke amathuba - ukuba abantwana bakho baya kuphendula ngendlela efanayo. Xa ubacela ukuba bakhulume ngamava abo asebenza ngaphambili, kufuneka bavule kwaye bathembeke ngezinto abathandayo kwaye abangazange bathande ngentsapho abasebenza kuyo kodwa ngendlela ecacileyo. Omnye obonakala enandipha ukunikezela iinkcukacha zengcekolo malunga neengxaki zomtshato zangaphambili zomqeshi okanye imeko yezemali akuyena umntu ofuna ekhaya lakho.
Yintoni oye wafunda ekuqalekeni ishishini lakho?
Kakhulu. Ndiye ndafunda ukuba ndiyindlalifa. Andiyikuphupha nje. Ndiyavuma. Ndiye ndafunda ukuba ndifuna ukuba nethemba lokuba ndiphumelele. Ukuba andinalo ithemba, abantu baya kuba bengabaza ngokusebenzisa iiNannies ngoNoa kwaye abayi kukholelwa kum.
Ngokubambisana neqela lakhe elinetalente, uNowa uphakamisa ibha yento enokuyilindela kumntu onomnakekeli, okwenza kube ngumgangatho oqhelekileyo ukuba ama-nannies akhe asebenze kwaye athathe inxaxheba kubomi babantwana abathandayo. UNowa udliwano-ndlebe kwiimiboniso zethelevishini zikazwelonke eziquka iNBC "Today Show," CNBC "Imali kunye noMelissa Francis," "Ibhokisi le-Squawk," kunye nebali lakhe loshishino liye labiwe yizinto ezithandayo ze-CNN Imali, i-New York Post, i-Teen Vogue, Buzzfeed, Mashable, nabanye abaninzi. Landela uNowa kwi-Twitter @Noa_Mintz