Funda indlela yokujongana noxhatshazo xa kubandakanya utitshala womntwana wakho
Uninzi lwaba titshala bakho abaza kuhlangana nalo luhle kwizinto abazenzayo. Enyanisweni, ootitshala abaninzi baya ngaphaya kwezinto ezilindelekileyo. Kodwa, kukho ootitshala abangajongani noxanduva lwabo; kunye nabanye ootitshala abaxhaphaza abafundi babo. Esikhundleni sokusebenzisa iinkqubo ezifanelekileyo zokuziphatha okanye iindlela zokulawula amacandelo okusebenza, basebenzisa amandla abo ukugweba, ukuxhaphaza okanye ukugculela abafundi.
Xa ukuxhatshazwa kusemzimbeni, abaninzi abazali abaxhalali ukubika iingxelo. Kodwa, xa ukuxhatshazwa kumvakalelo okanye kumlomo, abazali abaqinisekanga ukuba benzani. Bayesaba ukwenza izinto zibe zibi ngakumbi kumntwana wazo. Nangona le nkxalabo isebenzayo, akusoloko igalelo elifanelekileyo lokungaziboni ukuxhatshazwa. Nazi iimbono ezilishumi zokulungisa umba.
Ukubhala zonke iziganeko zokuxhatshazwa.
Bhala yonke into eyenzekayo kuquka imihla, amaxesha, amangqina, izenzo kunye nemiphumo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba utitshala uhlakulela umntwana wakho phambi kweklasi qiniseka ukuba ubhale phantsi umhla, ixesha, oko kwakutshiwo kunye nabafundi ababekho. Ukuba abanye abafundi bathatha inxaxheba kwixhatshazo ngenxa yezenzo zotitshala, qi ni sekise ukuba ufake le nkcazelo. Yaye ukuba kukho naluphi na uxhatshazo oluthile , ukuxhatshazwa kwe- cyberbullying okanye ukuxhatshazwa ngokusekelwe kubuhlanga okanye ukukhubazeka, xelela oku kumapolisa asekuhlaleni ngokukhawuleza. Ngokuxhomekeke kwindawo ohlala kuyo, ezi ntlobo zokuxhaphaza zihlala zibugebengu.
Ukuqinisekisa nokuxhasa umntwana wakho.
Thetha nomntwana wakho ngesikolo kwaye kwenzekani. Khumbula, okokuqala kuqala kukunceda umntwana wakho. Unganqikazi ukudibanisa nomcebisi. Kwakhona, yenza umntwana wakho ahlolwe ngumntwana wezilwanyana ukuba ahlole iimpawu zokudandatheka, imiba yokuxhalaba kunye neengxaki zokulala.
Jonga ngempawu zokuxhatshazwa kwaye ukhumbule ukuba abantwana abasoloko bexela ukuziphatha kakubi .
Yakha umntanakho ukuzithemba.
Nceda umntwana wakho abone amandla akhe. Mkhuthaze ukuba agxile kwizinto ngaphandle kokuxhaphaza njengemisebenzi oyithandayo okanye izinto ezintsha zokuzilibazisa. Musa ukuchitha ixesha elide ukuthetha ngokuxhatshazwa. Ukwenza njalo, kugcina umntwana wakho egxininise kwizinto ezimbi ebomini bakhe. Kunoko, ncedeni bona ukuba kukho ezinye izinto ebomini ukuba zivuyiswe. Oku kuya kunceda ukwakha amandla .
Thetha nomntwana wakho kuqala ngaphambi kokuzama ukulungisa umba.
Akukaze kube yinto efanelekileyo ukuba neentlanganiso kunye notitshala okanye inqununu ngaphandle kokuxelela umntwana wakho. Unokuhlazisa umntwana wakho xa efumanisa imeko emva kwe nyaniso. Ukongezelela, umntwana wakho kufuneka alungiselele emoyeni ukuba intlanganiso ingahambi kakuhle kwaye utitshala uyayiphendula.
Landela umgca womyalelo.
Khumbula, umntu osondelene naye kwingxaki, mhlawumbi uya kukwazi ukuthatha inyathelo elikhawulezayo, elisebenzayo. Ukuba uhamba ngqo phezulu, uya kucelwa ukuba ngubani oye uthetha naye malunga neemeko kwaye wenze ntoni ukulungisa imeko. Ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba uphelele onke amathuba okusombulula le ngxaki kumanqanaba aphantsi kuqala.
Ukongezelela, ukuba unamaxwebhu ukusuka kwintsebenziswano yakho, kuya kuba nzima ukuwutyeshela into oyithethayo xa ufikelela phezulu.
Cinga ukucela intlanganiso kunye notitshala.
Ngokuxhomekeke kubukhulu kunye nokuphindaphindiweyo koxhatshazo , unokufuna ukuya ngqo kutitshala. Amaxesha amaninzi, intlanganiso yotitshala iya kusombulula ingxaki xa uthatha indlela yokusebenzisana xa uxoxa ngolu hlobo. Zama ukugcina ingqondo evulekile kwaye uphulaphule imbono yotitshala. Gwema ukumemeza, ukumangalela, ukugxeka nokusongela ukumangalela.
Ukuvakalisa iingxaki zakho kodwa uvumele abanye ukuba bahlanganyele kwingxoxo.
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakala ekhokheni kwiklasi, khankanya oku.
Emva koko mbuze uthisha oko acinga ukuba unokuqhubeka. Eli nyathelo livumela uthisha ukuba athethe malunga noko akubonayo. Ukongezelela, akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kuzikhusela xa uvulekile ukuva umbono wakhe.
Thatha isikhalazo sakho siphakamileyo xa imeko ingaphuculanga okanye ukuxhatshazwa kunzima.
Ngamanye amaxesha ootitshala baya kugxininisa indlela abaziphatha ngayo, batyhola umfundi okanye bavume ukuvuma nantoni na. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuxhatshazwa kakhulu kunobungozi ukuthetha notitshala ngokuthe ngqo. Ukuba kunjalo, cela ukudibana nenqununu kumntu. Yabelana ngamaxwebhu akho uze uxoxe ngezinto ozikhathazayo. Unokucela ukuba udlulisele eklasini kule ndawo. Akunabo bonke iinqununu eziya kuhlonipha ezo zicelo, kodwa abanye bazenza.
Qhubeka ukunyuka umgca womyalelo ukuba awufumani iziphumo.
Ngelishwa, ezinye iinqununu ziya kuvumela ootitshala abaxhaphazelayo ukuba bangabikho nto okanye bayakukhanyela ukuba ukuxhatshazwa kwenzeka. Ukuba ngaba kunjalo, lixesha lokufakela isikhalazo esisesikweni kwinqanaba le-superintendent okanye kwibhodi yesikolo. Gcina iirekhodi ezilungileyo zoonxibelelwano lwakho kuquka i-imeyile, iileta kunye namaxwebhu eefowuni.
Ungavumeli ukuba uxhatshazo luqhubeke ngokungenammiselo.
Ukuba inqununu, i-superintendent okanye ibhodi yesikolo idibanisa iinyawo zazo ekuphenduleni, ngoko ke qwalasela ukufumana isiluleko somthetho. Okwangoku, phangela ezinye iinketho kumntwana wakho njengokutshintshwa kwesinye isikolo, isikolo sabucala, izikolo zasemakhaya kunye neenkqubo ze-intanethi. Ukushiya umntwana wakho kwimeko yokuxhatshazwa kunokuba nemiphumo emibi. Qiniseka ukuba wenza yonke imizamo yokuphelisa ukuxhatshazwa okanye ukususa umntwana wakho kwimeko. Ungaze ucinge ukuba uxhatshazo luya kuphelisa ngaphandle kokungenelela.