Nantsi into onokuyilindela kumntwana oneminyaka eli-17 ubudala
Ilishumi elinamashumi amabini anomdla kumdla oselula. Nangona abaninzi babo bekhangele phambili kwikamva eliqaqambileyo ngaphaya kwesikolo esiphakeme, abanye bayethusa ngokungena kwihlabathi elidala.
Kwaye kubazali, ukukhulisa umntwana oneminyaka eli-17 kunokusongela. Ngaba ufundise wakho umntwana osetsheni yonke into ayifunayo ukuba azi ukuba ngumntu omdala onoxanduva? Kubalulekile ukuphonononga uphuhliso lwakhe kwaye uncedise ngokufanelekileyo phambi kokungena kweli hlabathi.
Uphuhliso lweZakhono zoMoya
Ngokona nxalenye, i-teen-age's 17-year-old's moods iyancipha ngakumbi kunokuba yayingumntwana osemva. Oku kungenxa yokutshintsha kwee-hormone ezimbalwa kunye nokwanda kwengqondo.
Oko akuthethi ukuba umntwana wakho akayi kulwa nomsindo xa ebhekene nengxaki enkulu. Ingaba usebenzisa intliziyo ephukileyo okanye ileta yokulahlwa kwikholeji, abaninzi abaneminyaka eyi-17 bajongana neengxaki ezikhulu zabantu abadala.
Kulixesha elihle ukuqhubeka usebenza nomntwazana wakho malunga nendlela yokujongana nokungaphumeleli kunye nendlela yokusingatha iimeko ezinzima. Mfundise ukuba aqiniseke kwaye aqiniseke ukuba unobunzima bokuphikisana, izakhono zokulawula umsindo , kunye nezakhono zokulungisa iingxaki .
Ukucinga Ngekamva
Abaninzi abaneminyaka eyi-17 banomdla wokujolisa injongo. Baqala ukucinga ukuba luhlobo luni lobomi abafuna ukudala ngaphezu kwesikolo esiphakeme.
Ukufuduka kwindlu kunokusongela intsha eninzi, nangona kunjalo. Abo bangakhuselekanga okanye abo abangenalathiso, banokuziva baxinzelelo ukuba bafumane umgomo wokukhawuleza wokusebenza, njengokujoyina umkhosi, ukuba ayingekho iikholeji.
Kubalulekile ukubamba iingxoxo eziqhubekayo kunye nentsha yakho malunga nokukhetha kwayo. Ukuba ahluleka ukukhula, ukuhlala ekhaya emva kokuba isikolo esiphakeme singamnika ixesha elide lokufumana izakhono afuna ukuphumelela.
Ukufuna Ukuzimela
Umntwana wakho oneminyaka eyi-17 uya kufuna inkululeko engaphezulu kunye noxanduva.
Kubalulekile ukumnika inkululeko xa ekwazi ukuphendula ngokuphepha.
Ukumvumela ukuba aqhube imoto, athole umsebenzi, aze ahlale ekhaya yedwa ubusuku nje nje amanyathelo ambalwa ukuba abe ngumdala. Kubalulekile ukulawula umntwana wakho, nangona kunjalo, ukuba wenza ukhetho olubi.
Ukusela, ukuzama ukusetyenziswa kwezidakamizwa, ukukhawuleza, kunye nokulahleka kwexesha lokungena kwexesha kukubonakalisa ukuba awukulungele ukujongana noxanduva oluninzi okwangoku. Landela imiphumo yokufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba usele uncedo olwenzayo izigqibo eziphilileyo.
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Ukuba umxholo wokuthumela wakho oneminyaka eyi-17 ubudala ukuba ungene kwilizwe lenene ngaphakathi kunyaka olandelayo unomothekayo, awuyedwa. Abazali abaninzi abanakucinga ukuba abantwana babo abaselula bahamba ngokuzimeleyo kwihlabathi elidala.
Kodwa, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kukho ukukhula okuninzi phakathi kweminyaka eyi-17 no-18. Kwaye ngaloo nyaka, intsha ikulungele ukungena kwikholeji okanye kwilizwe elisebenzayo.
Ukuba ukhathazeke ngamandla akho omntwana ukulawula iimvakalelo zakhe okanye ukhetha ukhetho oluhle lwentlalo, cinga ukufuna uncedo lobuchwepheshe. Xoxa nodokotela wakhe malunga neenkxalabo zakho uze uxubushe ukuba ngaba ukuthunyelwa kwiprofethi yezempilo yengqondo kuyafaneleka.