Phinda uphendule "impendulo", ube ngumphulaphuli ongcono kwaye uthethe ngeemvakalelo.
Phew, ngolunye usuku eofisini iphelile! Ngoku yisikhathi sokuthabatha i-kiddos kwaye ubone oko bakuye.
Uvile icebiso lokuba khona nezingane zakho ngoko uqala ngokuyeka iingcamango zakho malunga nomsebenzi kwaye uqale ukucinga ngabantwana bakho.
Ufika ekhaya, unyule izinto zakho uze ubuze abantwana, "Ngoko, njani usuku lwakho?"
Yaye yintoni impendulo yabo?
"Kuhle."
Okanye, wonke umntu uqala ukuthetha kwaye awukwazi ukuva nabani na. Emva koko kukho ukulwa ngubani oya kukuqwalasela. Wonke umntu uthunyelwa kumacangci abo kuquka nawe.
Vukani.
Unjani ukuba "ube khona" nabantwana bakho ukuba abayi kuthetha okanye awukwazi ukulandela ingxoxo enye?
Nantsi indlela.
Ishedyuli Ezinye zexesha lokuhlalisa abantwana bakho
Ukunciphisa intshutshiso yokubuya ekhaya kufumane wonke umntu ahlale phantsi enze into ayithandayo. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukupheka i-dinne r usethe inkomo nganye ngomsebenzi abanokukhenkcela ngokufana nombala, ukufunda incwadi, ukwenza iprojekthi yobugcisa, okanye i-Legos yokwakha
Ayikwazi ukucinga ngomsebenzi? Buza abantwana ukuba yintoni enye into abajonge phambili xa beza ekhaya.
Ngexa bahlala phantsi banqwenela ukunyanzeliswa kwabo malunga nosuku lwabo. Wena (ethemba) utshintshe iigesi ukusuka ebomini bomsebenzi ukuya kwiindawo zasemakhaya endleleni yakho yokuthabatha abantwana okanye kwi-drive yakho ekhaya, ngoko banike ithuba lokuba badideke.
Kwaye xa kwenzeka umntu eqala ukugcoba ngeentlungu zendlala, zinike enye yezi zokutya.
Izindlela ezahlukeneyo zokubuza malunga nosuku lwabo
Emva kokuba abantwana bezinzileyo kwaye isidlo sesidlo sijonge ukuhlala kunye nentsana nganye kwaye uqale ukubuza imibuzo yakho. Ukukhathala nje ngokubuza "Wathini usuku lwakho?"? Emva koko zama enye yezinto endizibuzayo abantwana bam asebekhulile:
- Ubani ohlala naye kunye nesidlo sasemini?
- Yayiyiphi umdlalo oyintandokazi ekuphumeni?
- Unjani
namhlanje? Epheleleyo okanye engenanto? (Abantwana bam baye bafunda incwadana ethi "Injani Ibhakethi Yakho" ngoTom Rath esikolweni ukuze bakwazi ukuqonda le mbuzo.) Incwadi inceda ukucacisa indlela abantu abavakalelwa ngayo imihla yonke. okanye uphazamise ngento ethile) - Ibhakethi yakho yanamhlanje, epheleleyo okanye engenanto?
- Yintoni eyona nto inzima kunazo zonke oyenzayo namhlanje?
- Ukuba ungakhetha abahlobo abathathu ukuba badlale
ngubani oza kuba njalo kwaye kutheni? - Ngubani owenze uvuyo namhlanje?
- Yintoni eyona nto oyithandayo kakhulu yosuku?
- Yintoni oyenayo imibala namhlanje?
- Ukuba namhlanje kwakuyimibala ingaba yintoni?
- Yintoni enye into yokudala oyenzayo namhlanje?
- Ndixelele ngencwadi / ufunda namhlanje.
- (Ngomhla wemvula) Ngaba unayo indlu yangaphakathi okanye ukuphuma ngaphandle?
- Ngaba ubuhlungu namhlanje? Kanjani?
- Ndixelele ngengxaki osombulule namhlanje.
- Ngaba ulungise nantoni na namhlanje?
- Ngaba ingumhla wokukhawuleza okanye usuku olude?
- Nguwuphi umthetho omtsha owawufunde ngawo?
Sebenzela Ukuba Umphulaphuli Omhle
Ngokuxhomekeka kwintsapho yakho unokufumana elinye ithuba lokubuza umbuzo ngoko makhe sibale. Xa uhamba ukubuza umbuzo, mbuzo kuphela umbuzo owodwa. Gwema ukubeka imibuzo embalwa kunye.
Emva koko, hlala, cwaka ulalele. Hlala uqinile.
Banike ithuba kunye nethuba lokuphendula.
Xa bakuphendule, qinisa ngakumbi. Ngamanye amaxesha bafumana oko kulandelwa kwelinye ibali bafuna ukwabelana nani abangenanto nantoni nombuzo wokuqala.
Ukufunda ukuhlala kakuhle kuphucula izakhono zakho zokuphulaphula. Oko ndiyithethayo ngezakhono zokuphulaphula kukuba awuphulaphuli kuphela amagama abo kodwa ubeka ingqalelo kwizinto ezithethwayo noko kungenjalo.
Leli xesha xa "ukhona" udlala. Xa ubuza umntwana wakho ukuba unjani usuku lwabo, eli lixesha elibaluleke kakhulu lokungacingi malunga naluphi uhlobo lomsebenzi.
Eli lixesha lokuba ukhangele umntwana wakho, enethemba lokufumana iliso lokuqhagamshelana naye, ubukele, kwaye uphulaphule.
Xa bephendula umbuzo, qwa lasela into abayithethayo. Zama ukuthetha izinto ezifana, "Wow! Ndixelele ngakumbi malunga naloo nto! "Okanye" Oku kunomdla kakhulu. Kwenzeke njani loo nto? "Okanye nokuba bhetele," Kwenzeka ntoni ukuba uzive? ".
Wena ungumntu umntwana wakho ufuna ukuxelela ngayo iimvakalelo zabo. Ngoko xa umntwana wakho ephendula imibuzo yakho, jonga ulwimi lwazo. Ukuba amahlombe abo adibeneyo abuze isizathu sokuba kunjalo. Basenokungaqondi ukuba behleli ngaloo ndlela, kodwa ngomzuzu olandelayo okanye babini banokuphendula ngenxa yoko. Hlala uqinile.
Ukuba umphulaphuli omhle ubonisa umntwana wakho ukuba ukhona. Kukhona into malunga nomntu ophulaphule ngokwenene kuwe othi "Ndiyakhathalela."
Ngoko ngoku ndifuna ukuva kuwe!
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